Dude Gets Called a “Loser” By His Wife After Retiring Early, Financially Free and Independent! (Yikes!)

[Kisame]

Like bruh did you even read through the whole entire message dude was providing a lifestyle for her and also himself plus she was just being ungrateful by the way she called him a “loser”

Nigga will earn 125k a year for the rest of his life.unless the world goes to shit he doesn't have to work at all.

He could be traveling the world with his wife but she wants to teach

 

[Angelina]

I see where youre coming from but you need to give dude a break since he has spent almost the last 20 years busting his ass off with a stressful ass job that was always draining him mentally and btw he is still getting the money tho

Imagine if a woman was a mother of 5, cooked and cleaned for years, should she be given a break by hubby coming home to a dirty house and playing games and smoking a voot everyday.

The thing is, men expect women to accept situations they wouldn’t accept themselves and then label women ‘ungrateful’.

Woman and men for that matter do not like people that do drugs and fry their brain looking at a sceeen.

That man has worked hard, but he has worked hard for himself. The wife works and he probably needs her to work for better health care insurance.

Everything he did mostly benefits him.

 

[The truth seeker]

I don’t know if you’re slow, but what woman will put up with a man that smokes all day and play games apart from a gold digger. Apart from the money, what does he have going for him?

This is what I was talking about. Men simultaneously not wanting Gold diggers but thinking only having money in which he probably isn’t even fully sharing since girl works makes him a catch to women to value a proper relationship.

I never advocated for what you just said I literally criticized him for playing video games . I just stated men should go for women who appreciate them and those groups of women are more avalible overseas .

 

[Kalsoon]

I don’t know if you’re slow, but what woman will put up with a man that smokes all day and play games apart from a gold digger. Apart from the money, what does he have going for him?

This is what I was talking about. Men simultaneously not wanting Gold diggers but thinking only having money in which he probably isn’t even fully sharing since girl works makes him a catch to women to value a proper relationship.

There's more to the original story. He says he does more than those two things around the house. Surely she knew he had these hobbies long ago . Maybe she has been resentful of him for a while and this is the culmination of that.

 

[Kisame]

I don’t know if you’re slow, but what woman will put up with a man that smokes all day and play games apart from a gold digger. Apart from the money, what does he have going for him?

This is what I was talking about. Men simultaneously not wanting Gold diggers but thinking only having money in which he probably isn’t even fully sharing since girl works makes him a catch to women to value a proper relationship.

"I don’t know if you’re slow, but what woman will put up with a man that smokes all day and play games apart from a gold digger. Apart from the money, what does he have going for him?"

She's just trolling at this point @LilBang

"What does he have going for him"

 

[Angelina]

When did I defend anyone? This is just an internet story to me. I only advocate for spouses to treat one another with respect and kindness.


That would be something they discuss together as a couple.


Why is your mind wired this way lol

Because it’s the truth. Create a poll in a few months time when this discussion finishes.

Ask the guys here, would they accept the excuse of, I’ve pushed out 4 kids, raised them and worked hard, so now I can just be at home all day and be a stoner and gossip the day away.

I want to see how many men will ramble on about ‘communication’.

 

[LilBang]

Imagine if a woman was a mother of 5, cooked and cleaned for years, should she be given a break by hubby coming home to a dirty house and playing games and smoking a voot everyday.

Bruh its just video games and weed especially weed yall are just acting like the nigga is on fentanyl

 

[The truth seeker]

I see where youre coming from but you need to give dude a break since he has spent almost the last 20 years busting his ass off with a stressful ass job that was always draining him mentally and btw he is still getting the money tho

These women are gonna guilt trip you into having a midlife crisis like some 45 year old white guy and then they will divorce you and strip you of your assets because you not “the man I married ”

A man should always look out for his kids and wife but never stop thinking about your future and your happy retirement at the end of all your hard work

 

[Angelina]

"I don’t know if you’re slow, but what woman will put up with a man that smokes all day and play games apart from a gold digger. Apart from the money, what does he have going for him?"

She's just trolling at this point @LilBang

"What does he have going for him"

Kisame it’s a genuine question. Provided a woman isn’t a Gold digger, and money isn’t the be all and one wants a proper relationship, how does a pot smoker and a man playing play station bring to the relationship apart from money?

Seriously consider this? If I wanted only money, I’ll put up with that since I don’t even have to talk to the man. But outside of pure cash how does that benefit a woman?

You think I’m trolling because you think women ONLY care about money hence you think all women are nothing but golddiggers but you’ll cry about golddiggers later on.

What’s even funnier in this situation is that the man didn’t even retire her

 

[Angelina]

Bruh its just video games and weed especially weed yall are just acting like the nigga is on fentanyl

lol, you really think being a stoner all day and playing games all day is normal behavior for a 40+ man.

You lot are mentally fried. By the way weed causes all sort of mental health problems, so stop with downplaying that shit.

You are probably young, but women find stuff like this repulsive and it’s of no wonder why many youngsters lack any form of manliness. They want to fry their brains all day.

 

[Kalsoon]

Because it’s the truth. Create a poll in a few months time when this discussion finishes.

Ask the guys here, would they accept the excuse of, I’ve pushed out 4 kids, raised them and worked hard, so now I can just be at home all day and be a stoner and gossip the day away.

I won't but you can if you want.

Everybody has a different level of self respect or self value. Some people from both genders are okay with being walked all over.

Expectations of the marriage should be discussed so it doesn't lead to conflict like you mentioned.

 

[The truth seeker]

lol, you really think being a stoner all day and playing games all day is normal behavior for a 40+ man.

You lot are mentally fried. By the way weed causes all sort of mental health problems, so stop with downplaying that shit.

You are probably young, but women find stuff like this repulsive and it’s of no wonder why many youngsters lack any form of manliness. They want to fry their brains all day.

Occasional weed use is not bad for you if you do it occasionally and work out frequently besides most of us are gonna die by 80 might as well enjoy your last years in peace

As long as this guy grows his weed from the ground he’s smoking natural stuff unlike vaping which teens do nowadays

 

[Angelina]

I won't but you can if you want.

Everybody has a different level of self respect or self value. Some people from both genders are okay with being walked all over.

Expectations of the marriage should be discussed so it doesn't lead to conflict like you mentioned.

Fair enough.

 

[LilBang]

lol, you really think being a stoner all day and playing games all day is normal behavior for a 40+ man.

You lot are mentally fried. By the way weed causes all sort of mental health problems, so stop with downplaying that shit.

You are probably young, but women find stuff like this repulsive and it’s of no wonder why many youngsters lack any form of manliness. They want to fry their brains all day.

Im not saying that it is completely normal the way how he goes about it but if he just does that as a hobby and does not let that get in the way of his daily tasks plus he does something more productive on the side then it is % fine at least in my opinion lol

 

[Angelina]

Occasional weed use is not bad for you if you do it occasionally and work out frequently besides most of us are gonna die by 80 might as well enjoy your last years in peace

As long as this guy grows his weed from the ground he’s smoking natural stuff unlike vaping which teens do nowadays

It’s clearly not occasional since he does it all day and plays games all day, hence the loser comment.

Also, I don’t know if you’re gaal since you were advocating for Zina, so you okaying drugs shouldn’t surprise me.

As for weed and its impact more and more studies are seeing a link to mental health issues and weed. It’s a huge problem in the black community and I’ve noticed that many Somali boys I grew up who smoked it on the regular now have mental health issues with some even being sectioned.

 

[Aseer]

Far out that woman cant give the man a break, he has been busting his ass for 15 years and is entitled to a well deserved rest. If I were him I would have kicked the missus out the second the word "Loser" came out of her mouth.

 

[wonyluvr]

Say wallahi? Ive never been to the carribean but would love to visit. Are the women friendly?

You are married with a daughter f*ck is wrong with you

 

[The truth seeker]

It’s clearly not occasional since he does it all day and plays games all day, hence the loser comment.

Also, I don’t know if you’re gaal since you were advocating for Zina, so you okaying drugs shouldn’t surprise me.

As for weed and its impact more and more studies are seeing a link to mental health issues and weed. It’s a huge problem in the black community and I’ve noticed that many Somali boys I grew up who smoked it on the regular now have mental health issues with some even being sectioned.

I used to smoke weed and am currently a Muslim all I was saying was occasionally smoking natural weed on retirement is not bad for you

The black Americans who have those issues were smoking fake stuff some Mexican gave to them unlike smart men who grow there weed in there backyard in Minnesota (legal over 21)

 

[Angelina]

Ladies, let this be an example. Men think that earning money entitles them to do anything and everything and that you’re ungrateful even if they’re not using that money to make your life great like retiring you. The man retired himself and didn’t even retire her. I reckon it’s because they needs the health insurance that comes with the job. You’re not allowed to have exceptions outside of them having money, yet you’re meant to marry them for other reasons outside of money .

These same men will never tolerate a lazy wife who does weed all day, even if the wife’s excuses was that she spent the last 15 yrs raising his children and being a home maker. I mean she’s tired as well right?

I think this topic is the perfect one that shows the divide between modern men and women. Men think having money is all that matters, women are saying a relationship is built on more than that, especially in a time in which women literally make their own money. Don’t even get me started on the conscious dissonance plaguing men that I even asked @Kisame, which he didn’t get. If men seem to think that money is all there is, why the vitriol towards gold diggers? Can you not even see the disconnect? How can you expect a woman to love a man that does weed all day and plays video games?

Anyways I’m out here writing these posts because I’m bored. It’s a very slow day at work and but I’m stuck in the office today, gosh I hate being in the office. Other days when I finish my work early I sleep.

 

[Kisame]

Kisame it’s a genuine question. Provided a woman isn’t a Gold digger, and money isn’t the be all and one wants a proper relationship, how does a pot smoker and a man playing play station bring to the relationship apart from money?

Seriously consider this? If I wanted only money, I’ll put up with that since I don’t even have to talk to the man. But outside of pure cash how does that benefit a woman?

You think I’m trolling because you think women ONLY care about money hence you think all women are nothing but golddiggers but you’ll cry about golddiggers later on.

What’s even funnier in this situation is that the man didn’t even retire her

"Kisame it’s a genuine question. Provided a woman isn’t a Gold digger, and money isn’t the be all and one wants a proper relationship, how does a pot smoker and a man playing play station bring to the relationship apart from money?



Seriously consider this? If I wanted only money, I’ll put up with that since I don’t even have to talk to the man. But outside of pure cash how does that benefit a woman?"

He's playing video games and getting high while she's at work Angelina. I honestly don't understand why this would bother her this much.

What exactly does she want this nigga to do?? He's retired he literally doesn't have to work at all. He could easily hang out with her after work. He probably does that already too.