Dude Gets Called a “Loser” By His Wife After Retiring Early, Financially Free and Independent! (Yikes!)

[Kisame]

Ladies, let this be an example. Men think that earning money entitles them to do anything and everything you’re ungrateful even if they’re not using that money to make your life great. You’re not allowed to have expections outside of them having money.

The man retired himself and didn’t even retire her. I reckon it’s because they needs the health insurance that comes with the job.

These same men will never tolerate a lazy wife who does weed all day, even if they did such a thing for the last 15 yrs raising his children and being a home maker.

I think this topic is the perfect one that shows the divide between modern men and women. Men think having money is all that matters, women are saying a relationship is built on more than that, especially in a time in which women literally make their own money. Don’t even get me started on the conscious dissonance plaguing men that I even asked @Kisame, which he didn’t get. If men seem to think that money is all there is, why the vitriol towards gold diggers? Can you not even see the disconnect.

Anyways I’m out here writing these posts because I’m bored. It’s a very slow day at work and but I’m stuck in the office today

He can definitely retire his wife. She just wants to work for some reason. Should he start working again just because his wife doesn't want to retire????

The guy will literally be earning 125k a year for the rest of his life. He's done more than enough. At this point she's just working to past time.


"Anyways I’m out here writing these posts because I’m bored. It’s a very slow day at work and but I’m stuck in the office today "

I knew you were trolling

 

[Angelina]

He can definitely retire his wife. She just wants to work for some reason. Should he start working again just because his wife doesn't want to retire????

The guy will literally be earning 125k a year for the rest of his life. He's done more than enough. At this point she's just working to past time.

I don’t think he can. Health care insurance. All it takes is him getting Cancer or her and they’re f’d.

Also, how do we know he’s even willing to share with her? He’s done enough for himself. That’s clear but we’re talking about a union here. Let’s not forget that.

How about he actually acts like a man and contributes to the marriage outside of money? Like whilst she’s at work and he’s playing games all day, does he bother to help with the home? Since he’s stoned does he bother to spend time with her? Or is it him just all about him and acting like a never aging teen?

 

[Aseer]

@Keep it a boqol

Why did you leave out the part that he does drugs all day and plays video games?

Also, why is no one commenting on the fact that the wife works and leaves in the morning but if he’s that rich, why isn’t he retiring his wife?

The thing is, men need to understand that no woman is attracted to a man that stays home all day doing drugs and video games.

No man who works will accept for this wife to be at home doing nothing. When women stay home, they actually bare children, cook and clean, but please tell me how this man is benefiting the relationship? He hasn’t retired his wife, she still works, they don’t have kids he is taking care of, and Imagine the wife is still going most of the housework since he’s stoned all day.

Men simultaneously dislike gold diggers but hate it women have expectations outside of them having money. What’s hilarious about this situation is that it’s obvious she isn’t even fully relying on him financially.

So essentially, this woman is working wife who comes home to a retired druggie who can’t even retire her. Yes! What a great arrangement. How dare these modern women be against this. Women are soo ungrateful!

Oh for the love of god your defending for the sake of defending he has more than enough retirement money for her to stay home with him and relax but she willingly goes to work, yet she is calling him a loser and your backing it mindlessly Accomplished Retiree who is Relaxing≠Loser no matter how you try to twist and bend the scenario.

 

[Kisame]

I don’t think he can. Health care insurance. All it takes is him getting Cancer or her and they’re f’d.

Also, how do we know he’s even willing to share with her? He’s done enough for himself. That’s clear but we’re talking about a union here. Let’s not forget that.

How about he actually acts like a man and contributes to the marriage outside of money? Like whilst she’s at work and he’s playing games all day, does he bother to help with the home? Since he’s stoned does he bother to spend time with her? Or is it him just all about him and acting like a never aging teen?

Your arguing because your bored at work. I'm done

 

[Angelina]

Oh for the love of god your defending for the sake of defending he has more than enough retirement money for her to stay home with him and relax but she willingly goes to work, yet she is calling him a loser and your backing it mindlessly Accomplished Retiree who is Relaxing≠Loser no matter how you try to twist and bend the scenario.

How do you know she willingly goes work? How do you know he isn’t selfish? How do you know he doesn’t need her to go work for health insurance policies? If he gets cancer he will hardly have any wealth left.

He is a loser, playing games alll day and doing weed is loser behavior.

It’s like saying a mother of 5 worked hard for 15 yrs and now she can be at home all day and smoke weed and do nothing and her husband should be ok with that. You would never accept those terms so why should women?

 

[Angelina]

Your arguing because your bored at work. I'm done

Wallahi I’m not trolling. These are my genuine views and tbh you couldn’t even answer my point you thought was trolling. Deep down you know I’m right and it’s causing a huge disconnect between modern men and women. Money alone isn’t enough for women, unless she’s a gold digger. Women work already and a man thinking because he has money he can be stoned the whole time whilst she works is a nightmare for most women. Not understanding this is a cause of issues between men and women.

Someone perfectly said it here as well;

But Yea, they made me come into the office today when I really could be sleeping.

I usually finish my work and sleep, I’m pissed.

But all I said is valid and you know it.



Plus I think she has to, especially knowing American insurance policies. This man isn’t rich. He’s comfortable and all that would be blown if he has a health scare.

 

[Aseer]

How do you know she willingly goes work? How do you know he isn’t selfish? How do you know he doesn’t need her to go work for health insurance policies? If he gets cancer he will hardly have any wealth left.

He is a loser, playing games alll day and doing weed is loser behavior.

It’s like saying a mother of 5 worked hard for 15 yrs and now she can be at home all day and smoke weed and do nothing and her husband should be ok with that. You would never accept those terms so why should women?

You can tell that his wife works willingly, based on what he said about making 2x what she makes,I dont think he is being selfish he is just a bloke trying to relax after 15 years of working, all he said is "good for healthcare" and your making up imaginary scenarios about him "using her" when he has alot of money more than enough to cover his health insurance and what not I reckon, and he does the bulk of housework and prioritises being out and about with her and going on vacations. Lol you literally based your entire arguement off a small snippet when the full story debunks it all.

 

[Angelina]

I never advocated for what you just said I literally criticized him for playing video games . I just stated men should go for women who appreciate them and those groups of women are more avalible overseas .

Overseas women do not appreciate them, they appreciate their wallets and not understanding this is hilarious. You know that if a woman only cared about money and he actually retired her, she couldn’t care less if he smoked all day and ignored her.

A woman that actually wants you for you, would deffo not appreciate you acting a fool.

Learn the difference. That’s why I laughed when you said South East women are ‘gold diggers’. Clearly you want a woman to want you for you, so need to offer more than just savings and smoking a voot.

 

[The truth seeker]

Overseas women do not appreciate them, they appreciate their wallets and not understanding this is hilarious. You know that if a woman only cared about money and he actually retired her, she couldn’t care less if he smoked all day and ignored her.

A woman that actually wants you for you, would deffo not appreciate you acting a fool.

Learn the difference. That’s why I laughed when you said South East women are ‘gold diggers’. Clearly you want a woman to want you for you, so need to offer more than just savings and smoking a voot.

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I understand where you come from as many of these men ares simps I’m just saying if your a successful well rounded man don’t limit your dating options to simply the west

If a man is providing for you and retired you early what he smokes or his hobbies should not be your concern

 

[Angelina]

I understand where you come from as many of these men ares simps I’m just saying if your a successful well rounded man don’t limit your dating options to simply the west

If a man is providing for you and retired you early what he smokes or his hobbies should not be your concern

That’s where you’re going wrong and why you have no business being against gold diggers. If a woman married you for YOU, acting like a fool will be a concern for her. She will want the best for you instead of engaging in brain rot. She’d want to spend quality time with you and she’d want someone empathetic to her needs. It’s like saying a Somali wife has no right to care if her husband chews qat all day as long as he’s providing? Do you think women sign up for marriage just for money? So why berate Gold diggers then?

I’m at a loss as to why you have issues with gold diggers when your vision of relationships is one in which a man can do anything as long as he has money.

 

[December]

entitled .

 

[TekNiKo]

Bruh its just video games and weed especially weed yall are just acting like the nigga is on fentanyl

Yeah its not a big deal weed is legal in Canada.

 

[Angelina]

I can have up to four wives or are you not Muslim?

She’s disgusted that a married brokie like you is fetishizing women. Men like you shouldn’t even have one wife let alone destroying the lives of many.

 

[Angelina]

Yeah it’s not a big deal weed is legal in Canada.

Ah yes, the man uses the deen to talk about polygamy is now co-signing drugs which are haram in the religion. I love how you pick and choose.

You are and will justify everything and do not stand for anything.

 

[SixthAbdi]

Depends if this is a temporary "vacation" or if this is something he genuinely wants as a regular routine for the rest of his life. He said he recently retired so too early to tell, it's not like he was playing video games 24/7 for the past 5 years.

 

[TekNiKo]

She’s disgusted that a married brokie like you is fetishizing women. Men like you shouldn’t even have one wife let alone destroying the lives of many.

Women love married men, in fact I am getting way more attention now then I was single. Seethe yaa feminist

 

[TekNiKo]

Ah yes, the man uses the deen to talk about polygamy is now co-signing drugs which are haram in the religion. I love how you pick and choose.

You are and will justify everything and do not stand for anything.

Hes a white gaal I am not sure why you putting Muslim standards on the OP. Are you mentally ok?

 

[Wervelwind]

Also, why is no one commenting on the fact that the wife works and leaves in the morning but if he’s that rich, why isn’t he retiring his wife?

Maybe she likes to work and be busy

 

[The truth seeker]

That’s where you’re going wrong and why you have no business being against gold diggers. If a woman married you for YOU, acting like a fool will be a concern for her. She will want the best for you instead of engaging in brain rot. She’d want to spend quality time with you and she’d want someone empathetic to her needs.

Somethings are simply a turn off for both men and women tbh. It’s one thing to do so occasionally but everyday? Yes it is her concern. She didn’t marry the money initially? She married YOU.

A man has needs if a woman loves him she understands that .As long as he is being productive and caring for her a little weed and some side woman will be of of no concern to her

I never advocated for every day if it becomes a problem he should listen to his wife and stop

 

[The truth seeker]

Women love married men, in fact I am getting way more attention now then I was single. Seethe yaa feminist

Women know Married men have been pre selected by another woman and are capable of providing

Besides multiple women is a sign of masculinity and women don’t really mind sharing as long as he is the best man she can find