'dudes who marry back home got no game'......... thoughts?

[Zoobear]

I am for any constructive halal marriage between Somali's. At the end of the day we all want to make our children's life's easier than our own.

 

[Xareen]

majortiy of educated somalis are female, and somali dudes disproportionately make up crime stat numbers. so its no suprise this mismatch exists. issue is the non-acceptance and rectifiying of our problems in our community, and instead calling one another insecure instead of dealing with it.

this is not the guys falt tho, its the family. women are more often than not made to live stricter lives, staying home, culturally reserved etc. whilst the men are babied by hooyos and aabos dont care too much about them, so they look to gang life and crime etc. so the girl ends up graduating and earning early whilst some of the men are still engaging in youthful time wasting crime activities. fix the latter then we'll become more compatible
(not saying we're not now, keyword is more cause at the end of the day, no other men is more compatible for somali women)

With that grammar, I know for a fact that you're not educated enough lmfao

 

[x z]

With that grammar, I know for a fact that you're not educated enough lmfao

nigga expected me to type like its my dissertaion on somalispot LMFAOOOOOOO

gtfo Ioser, i didnt know they allowed uneducated to study in dental school

 

[Xareen]

nigga expected me to type like its my dissertaion on somalispot LMFAOOOOOOO

gtfo Ioser, i didnt know they allowed uneducated to study in dental school

Yeah, I don't buy it.

You go to dental school but just used "uneducated" as if it were a noun.

I'm not expecting university level stuff here. The mistakes you're making are entirely elementary lmaoo.

 

[x z]

Yeah, I don't buy it.

You go to dental school but just used "uneducated" as if it were a noun.

I'm not expecting university level stuff here. The mistakes you're making are entirely elementary lmaoo.

'i dont buy it' like im out here selling Anything to your bumass LMFAOOOO

 

[Xareen]

'i dont buy it' like im out here selling Anything to your bumass LMFAOOOO
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Then why make the claim, especially when you type the way you do?

 

[GlitzyCue_]

These type of topics make me laugh because
The blanket statements are crazy.
Generalizations leads to a false sense of reality.
Technically people back home most likely would be more cultural and that’s normal, it’s all they ever known while western Somalis due to being exposed to other cultures will have a different mindset, I personally don’t see anything wrong with that.
However you can still find people in the west who are still close to their culture and those back home who lean towards western culture either way Nobody cares who you marry!! As long as it’s halal do you. The problems arises when people try to put those back home on a pedestal (vice versa)
Just cause you marry back home doesn’t mean everything will be easy etc. Also I don’t really care for the men who are marrying out because they have all the resources, I feel for the females who are trying to escape poverty and will do anything for a citizenship.
Alx some men have good intentions and are truly looking for marriage but I’ve heard of cases were diaspora men take advantage of girls back home than leave them out of nowhere. Infact there was a YouTube video about women who were left pregnant and struggling.
That’s what this topic should be about, those who take advantage of the poor.
Wallahi just make sure if your going to marry back home ... it’s not half assed cuz you could always return like nothing happened but the poor women you walk away from aren’t as lucky.
Also I noticed a lot of the cases of those who go back marry cousins or distant relatives. Not that many random pairing unless they actually live back home for awhile before getting married.

 

[0117]

Men who are serious wont spoil their goals by bringing their family to the same degenerate West they flee from. I for one will never sponser a woman from Africa as that would destroy everything I aim for. You should move back home as a man and live with her permanently, that is a true Geeljire aspiration. We are guests in the West and its time to go home. Only a fool would sponsper his wife

One if the few rational statement said on this thread.To bring a girl back home over to the west

The tweet is rubbish and the counter arguments are rubbish too.Let people marry who they want without trashing somebody else...

 

[CanoGeel]

Let's look at the biggesr picture, Do you see the women back home as lesser beings? If not then there's no reason to ridicule the men who decide to marry them, we all have a right to choose who we end up with.

There's plenty of men to go around, I see no reason for this scarce mentality just be happy for your fellow sister from across the sea.

Those Western Faraxs marrying fob Somali women are increasing the Somali diaspora as many countries have started to cut down on asylum claims coming from Somalia. Only way for fobs to enter the West is through marriage nowadays. Also, those fob Somali women tend to have significantly more children on average than diaspora raised Somali women. It's a good thing in the long run.

In another words Omniprevalence of E3B and T/J to a lesser extent in the western hemisphere isa win win, lemme renew my passport my back home Xalimos here I come

 

[karkaar]

 

[CanoGeel]

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[Habbad]

people who go back home to find a girl are weirdos imo but if theyre back in somalia and happen to hit it off with someone i dont see issue. only people ill side-eye are the weirdos who go back home for the purpose of finding a girl

 

[Calaf]

Game is different everywhere. Halal Marriage is way better then a haram relationship. Get it from where you want. After all there is no geographical limit on seeking a spouse.

 

[Sophisticate]

I don't necessarily agree with guys marrying back home are desperate or socially unskilled. If they are educated, well-compensated for their work they can afford to marry from back home. There are plenty of educated Somali girls back home that are level-headed and decent. But just like life abroad one must be just as discerning about the character and ethics of the individual they marry. Personally, I would prefer someone born and raised in the west because I'm a woman. It's easier for relatability and less of an uphill battle as they are already established in the west (and their credentials are accredited). However, if I ever met someone who was educated, worldly, paid, faithful, handsome, with strong personal ethics from tolka I'd marry them if they were from back home. I'd use the same rigor for screening in the west as I would in the east.

 

[Abdalla]

They got no game because they rather spend thousands of euros to import a wife from thousands of miles away instead talking to you?

Some girls are mad that nobody wants them.

 

[95..]

Most western raised Somali men are underachievers and not compatible with western raised Somali women!

Men from the motherland respect us and look up to us and have our best interest at all cost, not to mention treat us like queens. Look at the qualities of the man you're trying to marry, if he's all around a good person then that should be enough reason to consider him. Him coming from the motherland or being a fob should not discourage you from considering him.

I think western raised Somali women should follow suit and marry from back home.

 

[Susa]

Most western raised Somali men are underachievers and not compatible with western raised Somali women!

Men from the motherland respect us and look up to us and have our best interest at all cost, not to mention treat us like queens. Look at the qualities of the man you're trying to marry, if he's all around a good person then that should be enough reason to consider him. Him coming from the motherland or being a fob should not discourage you from considering him.

I think western raised Somali women should follow suit and marry from back home.

Or just save the fob issue and marry an ajanabi. Seriously there are 3 billion other men in the world if western cabdis are that trash save the headache of us and fobs and go for ajanabis.

 

[95..]

Or just save the fob issue and marry an ajanabi. Seriously there are 3 billion other men in the world if western cabdis are that trash save the headache of us and fobs and go for ajanabis.

Why go for ajanabi when I can have a fob king

 

[GoldmanSachs]

It reads like the female equivalent of incel braying, jmo. If men you consider to be undesirable are marrying back home, OK. It shouldn't even be registering on their minds.

 

[Susa]

Why go for ajanabi when I can have a fob king

We aren't kings trust me run away