Samaalic Era
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Those experiences are sign for you to turn to Allah swt but you have these arrogant kids who become gaalo, not understanding or reflecting on their situation
SERIOUS Exmuslims- Cutting contact with family- Advice needed
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Abdisamad
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@Samaalic Era
The western freedom reminds me of dajjal where he is offering people jannah on earth but in reality once you accept the deal you will enter hell.
The western freedom reminds me of dajjal where he is offering people jannah on earth but in reality once you accept the deal you will enter hell.
some people are forced to Islam and could face death if they left it
AarHawd_7
North-West, London
Sometimes I randomly start asking myself questions about the deen aswell, see if everything adds up it clearly does. But you gotta realize thats the Shaydaan trying to whisper doubts in to you so you start questioning your deen even more.
And that’s dangerous for people with a low Imaan or no connection with Allah swt whatsoever.
And that’s dangerous for people with a low Imaan or no connection with Allah swt whatsoever.
A life solely based around vapid consumerism and hedonism is a receipt for existential anguish and deep-seated unhappiness wallahi. 90% of the non-Somali gaals I met doing the whole"freedom/party" meme when I was younger were just depressed and lost in life wallahi.
Happy_
Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
The heaviness is the doubt you have, it‘s weighing heavy on your heart. So I‘d recommend praying to Allah He guides your heart, make lots of SINCERE du‘a. You can also make the following du‘a. Also never shy away to ask questions to get rid of doubts. Read books, watch muxadirooyin and pray, pray praaaay.
A bit off topic but would anybody have that video of the old somali guy in the park screaming “soomaali maahan dila dila”
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Intelligent and wise, I think I'm falling for you walal
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Happy_
Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
Intelligent and wise, I think I'm falling for you walal
Loool, I wish I was wise. One thing I learned in life is that whatever you‘re going through stay close to Allah. Hold tight, cuz the turbulences in life are insane. But Allah will get you through anything and you will come out stronger. Every muslim will go through hardships after hardships, its guaranteed but pls don’t give up on Allah and Islam. Thats what shaytaan wants you to do. May Allah guide anyone who has doubts in their heart.
Finish School and University. Unless your parent's are ultra religious you shouldn't bother moving until you reach financial independance.
Even in Africa i prayed more then my cousinsAbaayo most Somali parents don't really care about you being Gaal or not, my family don't mind and they always try to pray and read Koran on me,you should move out and be independent and break the news to them, I swear no one really cares and they will most likely accept you.
Most Somalis are Gaalos anyway they just don't admit it, did you know if you don't pray for four consecutive Fridays you are considered a Gaal according to Islam, most of Somalis only pray during the Ramadan and do all kind of haraam deeds on daily basis yet claim to be Muslims, delusional mf Walahi.
Argue so we can get flooded by a wave of qashins and random niggas harrasing you? I've already been accused of mocking the deen when I haven't and people think you're a gaal is a an actual retort. Why would anyone want to explain their beliefs at that point?I can defend my beliefs from a position of learning, not just repeating what others have told me
I've challenged the gaals here to debate but no one was up for it. Giving up Islam for gaalnimo merely for carnal desires is Low IQ
No Somali Gaal can defend their beliefs nor explain it
Samaalic Era
QurboExit
You can make a thread on what you believe and no one will qashin you if you are respectful and want to engage sincerelyArgue so we can get flooded by a wave of qashins and random niggas harrasing you? I've already been accused of mocking the deen when I haven't and people think you're a gaal is a an actual retort. Why would anyone want to explain their beliefs at that point?
I've seen users post logical fallacies and they still got qashined and attacked. After a while they dropped the respect crap.You can make a thread on what you believe and no one will qashin you if you are respectful and want to engage sincerely
I don't want to end up like that, plus I'm not here to insult my parents belief's.
Tough situation. Since you’re not interested in Islam I won’t give you advice on how to work on your imaan. The only thing I can tell you is to not break your parents heart by running away. You’re only 21 so you think you’re invincible, strong and don’t need family. The reality is that you can be easily influenced by ill-intentioned people at that age. Who knows if these strangers/men you’re running to won’t harm you and abuse you? Then what will you do ? You’ll have no family and no faith to help you cope with it. Plus when you get older and become a mom you will regret the pain you caused to your own mother.
Destiny
Shaah Enthusiast
Don’t tell them. You’ll ruin your family ties over something you don’t have to do. Just move out when you’re able to financially. If you want a boyfriend, get a boyfriend. But I recommend you don’t tell your parents you’re gaal or cut them off for their sake as well as your own.
Insha’Allah after some time of reflection you will return to Islam sis.
Insha’Allah after some time of reflection you will return to Islam sis.
Sxb we go Dutch Bro’s when this is over.Knocked out? Caloosha ba isii kala baxdey ninyow.
I thought I’d lose a bit of weight but milkshakes baa every other night isla dhacaa.I blame @Odkac WRLD dude lied so many times before Ramadan about buying me a milkshakes.
I feel this thread has derailed into trying to convert me back to Islam, that’s not going to happen I specifically asked y’all not to do that in the original post.
Thank you to all of the members who gave me advice, I really appreciate it sincerely.
I don’t plan on finishing studying because I hate the program I’m studying (nursing) and from experience in working in a clinical setting I know I won’t be happy doing that so why bother putting more years into that. I’d just be wasting years of my life. I know something else I’m good at and will make good money off. I’m tired of wasting my life. I feel like a coward, keep putting off what needs to be done
I’m leaning towards suggesting the idea of my leaving for school in a different state/country, which my parents will of course immediately reject, then I’ll pack up and leave while they’re gone, call my mother from the airport telling her I’ve accepted the offer to study abroad. Tell her I have to do this and I love her and remain in contact, and slower lessen the contact, so that we talk one or twice a month. And over time I’ll visit on occasion but stay in a hotel as I wouldn’t feel safe being in the home alone with them. I’ll save up while I’m gone and first time I come back I’ll give them at least 50k in cash so hopeful that’ll make them forgive me a bit. This way I don’t cut contact completely but they don’t have control I’ve my life as easily but I’m still there when needed.
You gotta take some risks in life right? This might just be the best thing I ever did. Might be a mistake, but at least it’ll be an exciting adventure. Either way I’m willing to live with the consequences. I’m tired of being cowardly. I need to take this risk.
Thank you to all of the members who gave me advice, I really appreciate it sincerely.
I don’t plan on finishing studying because I hate the program I’m studying (nursing) and from experience in working in a clinical setting I know I won’t be happy doing that so why bother putting more years into that. I’d just be wasting years of my life. I know something else I’m good at and will make good money off. I’m tired of wasting my life. I feel like a coward, keep putting off what needs to be done
I’m leaning towards suggesting the idea of my leaving for school in a different state/country, which my parents will of course immediately reject, then I’ll pack up and leave while they’re gone, call my mother from the airport telling her I’ve accepted the offer to study abroad. Tell her I have to do this and I love her and remain in contact, and slower lessen the contact, so that we talk one or twice a month. And over time I’ll visit on occasion but stay in a hotel as I wouldn’t feel safe being in the home alone with them. I’ll save up while I’m gone and first time I come back I’ll give them at least 50k in cash so hopeful that’ll make them forgive me a bit. This way I don’t cut contact completely but they don’t have control I’ve my life as easily but I’m still there when needed.
You gotta take some risks in life right? This might just be the best thing I ever did. Might be a mistake, but at least it’ll be an exciting adventure. Either way I’m willing to live with the consequences. I’m tired of being cowardly. I need to take this risk.
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