Family burden - how should i respond to my mother? or siblings? what can i do to solve this burden?

[Yaraye]

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[Yaraye]

What’s your BMI

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[CABDULWALI XASAN.]

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This is an interesting dynamic, but im not sure what advice I can give you with this, This is beyond my expertise I would have a much different way of solving this issue which would involve both you and mom getting rest.

 

[Yaraye]

This is an interesting dynamic, but im not sure what advice I can give you with this, This is beyond my expertise I would have a much different way of solving this issue which would involve both you and mom getting rest.

That's ok, thanks for listening. It was nice to vent

 

[CABDULWALI XASAN.]

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Thats nice, but you just need to communicate to your siblings tbh it would help. Be serious too, I assume your older one. Also if youre paying their tuition I just feel sorry for you then. I dont even know man just tell your mom nicely not to spread stuff, In most families its the other way around they dont share stuff so...
Man what are your siblings even doing

 

[CABDULWALI XASAN.]

That's ok, thanks for listening. It was nice to vent

True,if im being honest our approaches 100% has to do with gender. I could go on with this but I think you know what I mean

 

[Dharbash]

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You’re fine, just fast every now and then

 

[Yaraye]

You’re fine, just fast every now and then

Maybe I should start making up my missed fasting days

 

[Yaraye]

Thats nice, but you just need to communicate to your siblings tbh it would help. Be serious too, I assume your older one. Also if youre paying their tuition I just feel sorry for you then. I dont even know man just tell your mom nicely not to spread stuff, In most families its the other way around they dont share stuff so...
Man what are your siblings even doing

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[Yaraye]

True,if im being honest our approaches 100% has to do with gender. I could go on with this but I think you know what I mean

Explain a bit more.

 

[LalalaLayla]

@Yaraye what veg are you chopping? Often veg that's chopped can be frozen ahead of time then stir fried etc when needed.

Do any of your siblings work? If not they can pull their weight too with chopping veg ahead of time - to freeze - so you can later cook peace free. They can't be hand fed forever. There are people with intense courses that work and cook for themselves.