How is that our country? Yes we like to engage in fkd sometimes and enjoy Somali food that’s about it, we were born and raised in the west, we are Muslim westerns with a Somali heritage it’s actually very simple. Why should we be held responsible for what happens on the other side of the globe
Farax assaults his sister
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According to atheist standards they don’t have be what you call dutiful as men; with other words, why do you want to enforce morals and values you don’t even believe in from the start.
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I feel sorry for her. He should have kindly advised her instead of beating her up. Only little boys beat women. Smh.
This is not from our deen nor the Sunnah of our beloved Messenger SAW to beat someone until they become unrecognizable. Even though she has dishonored herself and her family, there are other solutions. The brother is responsible for her Islamically, so he should have maybe taken her phone away and punished her in a nonviolent way.
There is no sentence that should involve "violence" and "protection". If a man who follows the example of Prophet Muhammad SAW, he should destroy, not the face of his sister, a phone of his sister and ban his sister from using Tiktok. A small discipline is required, of which i agree with no problem.
Do not take violence as "the right action."
I cannot but regerttably express my sadness at the country that is now third-world in the sense.
Somali men used to be one that are able to control and tolerate the actions of their sisters, daughters and wives without giving a beating upon them. We are not savages.
Somali men used to be one that are able to control and tolerate the actions of their sisters, daughters and wives without giving a beating upon them. We are not savages.
Who says I don't believe in morals or values? Just because I don't believe in abrahamic religions doesn't mean I don't have traditional standards regarding the duties of both genders. At the end of the day women are naturally the ones who provide life (children/family) and men are the ones who provide security (a safe home/country and stable finance) atheism is not monolith.
CALMONE20###
Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
Exactly. Anyone regardless of what they do or don't believe can have values and morals.
This is evil. No such thing as "honour"
I'm really saddened to see this.
Violence against women and girls is a global problem. Patriarchy and male ego are the main drivers. Men use religion or "honour" to coerce females, when that fails, violence is used to reinforce obedience.
The only path to gender equality is removing patriarchy, socially and legally.
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I'm really saddened to see this.
Violence against women and girls is a global problem. Patriarchy and male ego are the main drivers. Men use religion or "honour" to coerce females, when that fails, violence is used to reinforce obedience.
The only path to gender equality is removing patriarchy, socially and legally.
Violence against women and girls (VAWG)
Violence against women and girls (VAWG), including domestic violence, sexual harassment, rape and FGM affects on average one in three women and girls worldwide. Learn what ActionAid is doing to combat VAWG.
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He should not have beat her. However, it is his business what she posts on the internet. Why not take away her phone,delete her account, and ground her instead?
This is simply not islamic. This will turn her away from the deen.
Why are you generalising all of us, this is an individual that has done this, you are not going to win anyone over with that type of rhetoric, we should be focusing on the poor girl, your focus should be there, not passing the blame to millions of men.
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(I didn't mean the videos; I meant the people on this site.) Both sides are incorrect here.
There are plenty of ways to manage this matter and he shouldn't hit his sister, but if she won't listen, he might as well cut her out from his life. Honour killing or beating is not a part of Somali culture, unlike that of our eastern neighbours Yemen, Oman, Saudi Arabia, etc. (However, a small minority of Arabs practise this, but not a majority.) We shouldn't adopt this practise because it is against Islam itself .
I can see why Somali feminists are upset, but you can't blame Somali men or generalise about Somali males when it could happen to any race or ethnic group on the planet, and we wouldn't do that, would we?
In the end, I believe that the brother should receive the same punishment, which is being beaten in a manner similar to how he hit his sister.
There are plenty of ways to manage this matter and he shouldn't hit his sister, but if she won't listen, he might as well cut her out from his life. Honour killing or beating is not a part of Somali culture, unlike that of our eastern neighbours Yemen, Oman, Saudi Arabia, etc. (However, a small minority of Arabs practise this, but not a majority.) We shouldn't adopt this practise because it is against Islam itself .
I can see why Somali feminists are upset, but you can't blame Somali men or generalise about Somali males when it could happen to any race or ethnic group on the planet, and we wouldn't do that, would we?
In the end, I believe that the brother should receive the same punishment, which is being beaten in a manner similar to how he hit his sister.
