Question for the females: Is friend-zoning as common as it's made out to be? Y'all got faraaxs sitting there right now or what? I literally know of 2 guys that have been friendzoned, an Arab and an cadaan guy desperately trying to get with the same

Chilean girl. It's funny because everyone except them 2 are aware of it and she just doesn't know how to handle it. Half the time they end up looking lame and she ends up coming across as a . I kinda feel bad for her.
Do you consider them to be as close as your male friends? I have female friends but I'd be lying if I said I consider them as close as my Abdis, Khans or Ians. I hate to admit it but even though I have zero interest in them, my relationship with them is pretty superficial. Although tbh, I never had much common ground with them to begin with. They're all middle/upper-middle class cadaan girls except one Jamaican from Brixton, and I like her the most by far. I had one female Somali friend, I only knew her for a 6-ish months and got really close to her but that was because I was literally 1 of her 2 friends and the way I met her was completely different. She was pretty cool but troubled to say the least. Our friendship ended really awkwardly.