Allah didn't tell us to marry cousins. It's not 'disgusting', but nobody is going to promote constant cousin marrying, it is not a good thing to keep returning to one's own family.
Finally The World Will Start Shaming Arabs For Cousin Marriages π€’π€’π€’
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Allah didn't tell us to marry cousins. It's not 'disgusting', but nobody is going to promote constant cousin marrying, it is not a good thing to keep returning to one's own family.
No idc they should be shamed
Imagine inviting your family members and one of then is eyeing your daughter for marriage. Disgusting people.
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Ku sali nabiga {scw}
You are 100% right. Your way of writing it out is elegant and you dont bash whoever does practice it. I was referring to this person who is calling it βdisgustingβ and how they should be βshamedβ. Our own beloved prophet married his cousin does that mean he is disgusting? Thats what I was referring to sis
Yes, cousin marriage is disgusting and weird and we donβt need to be respectful about it. God knows that it would lead to birth defects and disabilities so idk why a supposedly all knowing god didnβt just forbid his followers from practicing it lol
So if you find your cousin you grew up with attractive you would consider him a marriage potential
Its a sickness, maybe you watch to many hindi/arab films. Cousins are considered siblings in somali households. #saynotocorn.
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Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Sis if you are a muslim then I advise you to read up on our prophet scw and his wives. If you are not then I cant lie this is not the conversation for you.
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So if you find your cousin you grew up with attractive you would consider him a marriage potential
Not me personally, but you forget that there is natural shahwa between men and women. Additionally, it's proven that people are attracted to people they have similarities with.
In fact, mankind started with Adam and Hawa's children marrying each other. So, it's not 'disgusting', but I don't think we should make it a widespread practice.
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Ku sali nabiga {scw}
No, not marrying your cousin doesnt go against Allah dont you dare twist my words. Its your phrasing that is completely wrong and goes against Islam. This is a sensitive topic and must be treated with respect and kindness.So not marrying your cousin is now considered going against Allah
as i said in a previous quote:
You can be respectful about this and say βwe should limit it because it can cause defectsβ or say βits allowed yes but its better to refrain from it however if someone does marry their cousin they are within their islamic right toβ
Whoβs we. Are you speaking french ? Just say your nasty degenerate ass. The rest of Somali does not do this.
Why are you being so rude? You need to learn to be more open-minded and if you feel this strongly, get your wife to breastfeed the children of your siblings, so that they remain siblings.
As a Muslim you need to learn how to speak politely, or say nothing at all. We just finished Ramadan, pick up some new habits.
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Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Imma make dua for you akhi and for your peace of mind I forgive you for saying those bad words to me. I did not say somalis do this. I said when it comes to something allowed in the deen, its allowed for a reason we may not fully know. What your doing is borderline a borderline sin as your basically insinuating Allah made a mistake or he forgot with this ruling.
you can be kinder with this topic and approach it with sensitivity while still saying what you believe in and also educating the risks of cousin marriage.
Abayo, I donβt think you should be in this convo.
Islam honestly just feels like bedouin culture: the religion; itβs a basic critique but itβs true. Most of the weird perv stuff and sexism is not really a muslim thing but an arab/asian culture thing like afghans were doing bacha bazi before islam, arabs were burying their daughters before islam, south asians were marrying their cousins pre-islam etc but now random, unrelated muslims like Somalis who never practiced any of that barbaric stuff have to deal with being grouped in with these people because they share a religion with them.
Iβm against islamophobia and will call it out when I see it because itβs wrong and affects Somalis but thereβs lot of religious stuff thatβs just strange. Idk why an all powerful God simply wouldnβt have forbid this
Be open minded about what ? I donβt need to breastfeed my children and their cousins. Its not in our culture to do this. This is why my child will only be around somali and african muslims.
Iβm not religious so yes I shouldnβt but I donβt think itβs a bad for someone to criticize it
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Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Again thats your opinion sis and I did not once think you were being islamophobic but when you say islam is weird its funny because our beloved prophet scw did say
βIslam began as something strange and will return to being something strange, so give glad tidings to the strangersβ Sahih Muslim, Hadith 145
also sis somali culture is majority intertwined with islam. its hard to separate the two.
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Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Some Somalis in this day and age marry on the sub sub clan level, thatβs equivalent to like 5-10th cousins
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Finally The World Will Start Shaming Arabs For Cousin Marriages π€’π€’π€’
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