Finally The World Will Start Shaming Arabs For Cousin Marriages 🤢🤢🤢

Gracias

she/her
Again thats your opinion sis and I did not once think you were being islamophobic but when you say islam is weird its funny because our beloved prophet scw did say

“Islam began as something strange and will return to being something strange, so give glad tidings to the strangers” Sahih Muslim, Hadith 145

also sis somali culture is majority intertwined with islam. its hard to separate the two.
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You’re both correct. People view whatever arabs and asians do as default muslim culture so they assume we go along with it too which is why people will do weird stuff like ask you about honor k*llings when we don't do that. Both caadans & madows do this btw (associate us with asian/arab practices) but they don’t do it with madow muslims, only somalis. This is just a sly version of racism/islamophobia. I’ve said it before but a lot of people who think of themselves as liberal feel comfortable being racist to non-black minorities but would never be racist to black people. It all depends on who you interact with like I don’t like Aba in the OP vid but he wouldn’t lump Somali people in with arabs/asians when talking about cousin marriage
Aba is Ethiopian and he was pushing the whole Johnny Somali guy to us and saying in the comment section that he is Somali despite him being Ethiopian
 

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I find marrying your cousin in general to be gross. However, marrying your cousin once is fine it won't cause disability issues and birth defects. However marrying your cousins over and over and over is absolutely disgusting and inbreeding and it is what leads to the issues you see common in the Pakistani community.
 

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she/her
Sudanese folks are chill, i don’t think they have cuqdaad towards us , I’ve met plenty of them in Egypt, Saudi Arabia and Kuwait.
Yes, the ones living the middle east are fine. Their western diaspora have cuqdad issues, there are multiple threads on here about them being weird. I find that all minorities/immigrants I meet outside of the west are nice and kind but their western diaspora are usually weird idk why
 
Yes, the ones living the middle east are fine. Their western diaspora have cuqdad issues, there are multiple threads on here about them being weird. I find that all minorities/immigrants I meet outside of the west are nice and kind but their western diaspora are usually weird idk why
I’m guessing the uk, I’ve heard of stories of them having issues with us and throwing us under the bus.
 
I will bring religion into this because your going against Allahs rule. If you find it disgusting and weird, you find our prophet to be disgusting and weird, you also find Allahs rule to be disgusting and weird.

Everything in this world links to religion. If you value humanity more than your lord then you need to find your imaan again.

You can be respectful about this and say “we should limit it because it can cause defects” or say “its allowed yes but its better to refrain from it however if someone does marry their cousin they are within their islamic right to”
Ibn Abi Mulaykah reported: Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said to the house of Al-Sa’ib, “You have become frail, so marry intelligent people unrelated to you.”

Al-Shafi’i said, “Whenever the people of a household do not allow their women to marry men outside of their line, there will be fools among their children.”

Source: al-Talkhīṣ al-Ḥabīr 1371
 

Espaa_

Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Ibn Abi Mulaykah reported: Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said to the house of Al-Sa’ib, “You have become frail, so marry intelligent people unrelated to you.”

Al-Shafi’i said, “Whenever the people of a household do not allow their women to marry men outside of their line, there will be fools among their children.”

Source: al-Talkhīṣ al-Ḥabīr 1371
I agree with this 100%, I was referring to his tone and insensitivity when it comes to this topic. He was labelling what Allah has made permissible as “disgusting” so I gave him examples such as the Prophet scw marrying his own cousin.

he couldve said “Cousin marriage is allowed but if someone does engage in it they should be made aware of its consequences” or something along the lines of “we should educate the masses on when cousin marriage goes wrong. If you get what I mean.

but i do agree with the notion that if an individual decided to practice it its within their islamic right to, but they should be educated and made aware of its potential consequences for their offspring.

its not disgusting nor is it weird but I do sympathise with the fact that a lot of people in these countries have no idea what repeated cousin marriage could do to a population.
 

Espaa_

Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Marrying somebody somebody from your subclan and marrying your literal first or second cousin is not comparable
which is why i said 5-10 cousins. They arent related but point still stands. On them dna tests its gonna say COUSIN in bold black . I was meant to say sub sub sub the subbiest of all clan level* :mjcry:
 
Any misconception you see formulating about somali people destroy it in a non hostile but firm way, keep things lowkey and stop making us such a known group

I SAY THIS EVERY TIME I LOG IN HERE!!!!!!!!!
 

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Why are you being so rude? You need to learn to be more open-minded and if you feel this strongly, get your wife to breastfeed the children of your siblings, so that they remain siblings.
As a Muslim you need to learn how to speak politely, or say nothing at all. We just finished Ramadan, pick up some new habits.
Imma make dua for you akhi and for your peace of mind I forgive you for saying those bad words to me. I did not say somalis do this. I said when it comes to something allowed in the deen, its allowed for a reason we may not fully know. What your doing is borderline a borderline sin as your basically insinuating Allah made a mistake or he forgot with this ruling.

you can be kinder with this topic and approach it with sensitivity while still saying what you believe in and also educating the risks of cousin marriage.

No point trying to talk with the guy he is a troll
 

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