Getting a wife from somalia

[Schematics]

I only want them for pleasure and that is in 15 years when i am 40 but now tryin everything below

What makes you think a young girl wants willingly a guy with erectile dysfunction? At 40 plus, you are a used paper tiger who thinks he can make a woman happy. But knowing diet challenged farahs, you can hardly score a point with her. I heard through the grapevine how guys who went to Kenya and married for pleasure ended up divorcing the girls after the girls complained and shared how unhappy they are with the sex. Sometimes sticking with the old lady makes more sense than asking for an embarrassment breh.

 

[Mehmet]

What makes you think a young girl wants willingly a guy with erectile dysfunction? At 40 plus, you are a used paper tiger who thinks he can make a woman happy. But knowing diet challenged farahs, you can hardly score a point with her. I heard through the grapevine how guys who went to Kenya and married for pleasure ended up divorcing the girls after the girls complained how unhappy they are with the sex. Sometimes sticking with the old lady makes more sense than asking for an embarrassment breh.

15 years means she is 40 too and no under 19 as 18 might get me locked up for now in my youth

 

[Schematics]

15 years means she is 40 too and no under 19 as 18 might get me locked up for now in my youth

Then the 40 for you will be the new 20 then. Birds of a feather flock together. You will both figure out something and Viagra will be even cheaper. Good luck Abti.

 

[Mehmet]

What makes you think a young girl wants willingly a guy with erectile dysfunction? At 40 plus, you are a used paper tiger who thinks he can make a woman happy. But knowing diet challenged farahs, you can hardly score a point with her. I heard through the grapevine how guys who went to Kenya and married for pleasure ended up divorcing the girls after the girls complained and shared how unhappy they are with the sex. Sometimes sticking with the old lady makes more sense than asking for an embarrassment breh.

I can please any at 40 even 20 but i don't want to be that kind of guy who my kids will be like why are you cheatin on mom with my college classmate abo

 

[Mehmet]

Then the 40 for you will be the new 20 then. Birds of a feather flock together. You will both figure out something and Viagra will be even cheaper. Good luck Abti.

Ypung is good one your young and not takin some young guy's wife at over 40,50,60 and so on

 

[Schematics]

I can please any at 40 even 20 but i don't want to be that kind of guy who my kids will be like why are you cheatin on mom with my college classmate abo

There is some prestige to walking around with a young cutie when you are 40. I prefer the conditions to be optimal for that occasion. I wouldn't mind if the young woman fell in love with me head over wheels. She asked for it(compared to taking advantage of her poverty or need situations). But all things considered, I would see her as adventurous and crazy to want to marry and be in love with a dude twice her age. Makes a good story when you sit with other 40 year olds who are married to dinosaurs around the coffee table. It is fun to tease them and talk about your young queen waiting for you at home.

I am not against choices people make in who they marry within the Somali community per se, just being reasonable I guess.

 

[Samaalic Era]

You are a smart guy. How do you rationalize blanket judgement on millions of Somali women aged above 19?

Explain that to me cuz.

Its that I would rather be safe than sorry. The older they are, the less influence you have over them and the more difficult they are.

 

[Seen su'aal]

You sound very pessimistic about women bro. I wish I had the time to follow the current rumors about Somali women and their vaginal status. I am the type who can be easily swindled and wouldn't know a virgin if I slept with one. No clue.

Saaxib do you really think that a women is 30 and a virgin? Such a women would be so pious. So much so that someone would marry her before she hits thirty. There's no real reason a Muslim women would be a virgin at 30.

 

[Schematics]

Its that I would rather be safe than sorry. The older they are, the less influence you have over them and the more difficult they are.

The opposite can be true and the older ones are already more mature. They know what they want based on experience and may have more respect for the chance they get with a man. Laid back and easy-going personalities with the experience to go through crisis can be an asset for them as older females.

A man can be negative about young women by listing generalized negatives, but that would not hold truth as everyone young and middle aged females are different from one another. The claim that everyone behaves the same because of common lineage, common gender etc is biased and founded on unproven claims.


Besides, there is difference between influencing a female for the better through a good male characteristic who is a role model for her from exerting the influence in other means that may lead to a blow-back from the woman.

At any rate, I take what I get and get busy with other interests more fun than a stubborn female Allah put in my trust. As long as she does not mess around with my fun outside the required attention from me she must get, she gets well taken care of. I need less buuq and rabsho in my life. Too laid back to worry about what goes on in her xalimo mind. "Give me my pasto and bariis and go ahead move away from the monitor sweetheart, you are getting me killed in the game by blocking my view " would be my message to her.

 

[Schematics]

Saaxib do you really think that a women is 30 and a virgin? Such a women would be so pious. So much so that someone would marry her before she hits thirty. There's no real reason a Muslim women would be a virgin at 30.

You forget Qadar/Predestiny saxib. I tend to trust people. I have no reason to doubt people first. If they are cheating, it is their problem not mine.

 

[HalimaJ]

You forget Qadar/Predestiny saxib. I tend to trust people. I have no reason to doubt people first. If they are cheating, it is their problem not mine.

One thing i've noticed is that men that convince themselves that all women at a certain age can't be virgins or are quick to doubt the chastity of women tend to have a past themselves and have spent most of their youth surrounded by women like themselves, hence the paranoia.

Its clear as day, their distrust stems from their inability to control themselves, therefore they assume that it is the same for everyone else.

I've noticed on sspot, the ones that proudly talk about their Zina and the amount of women they have slept with, are the same ones to call women s and s and believe that the only way a woman can be 'pure' if she is under lock and key from male relatives.

 

[Schematics]

One thing i've noticed is that men that convince themselves that all women at a certain age can't be virgins or are quick to doubt the chastity of women tend to have a past themselves and have spent most of their youth surrounded by women like themselves, hence the paranoia.

Its clear as day, their distrust stems from their inability to control themselves, therefore they assume that it is the same for everyone else.

I've noticed on sspot, the ones that proudly talk about their Zina and the amount of women they have slept with, are the same ones to call women s and s and believe that the only way a woman can be 'pure' if she is under lock and eye from male relatives.

Articulated opinions from women tickle my fancy. You write good Xalimo. Honor us with more posts on the matter.

 

[Lostbox]

Personally, if I ever go as low as order a bride. The last thing on my list would be a black African third world women. I can't think if any other women who are more of a value drain then them

 

[TooMacaan]

Personally, if I ever go as low as order a bride. The last thing on my list would be a black African third world women. I can't think if any other women who are more of a value drain then them

Mans rly said order a bride!!!!!!!

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[Seen su'aal]

One thing i've noticed is that men that convince themselves that all women at a certain age can't be virgins or are quick to doubt the chastity of women tend to have a past themselves and have spent most of their youth surrounded by women like themselves, hence the paranoia.

Its clear as day, their distrust stems from their inability to control themselves, therefore they assume that it is the same for everyone else.

I've noticed on sspot, the ones that proudly talk about their Zina and the amount of women they have slept with, are the same ones to call women s and s and believe that the only way a woman can be 'pure' if she is under lock and key from male relatives.

They also know that the same women they were fooling around with tend to marry innocent trusting men denying their past. I've been around such women and I know how they operate. The problem is not that they have a past, it's wheather they are willing to leave it in the past. They want to triffle and have a good loving husband and family. We all have these types of women in our communities and we know the trouble the cause.
For the record, I'm not opposed to marrying non virgin women, I'm opposed to marrying hoes who wonts settle down after marriage. Who bring nothing but siil to the table and act as though they deserve the world's weight in gold.

 

[Abdisamad]

@HalimaJ

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[Mehmet]

One thing i've noticed is that men that convince themselves that all women at a certain age can't be virgins or are quick to doubt the chastity of women tend to have a past themselves and have spent most of their youth surrounded by women like themselves, hence the paranoia.

Its clear as day, their distrust stems from their inability to control themselves, therefore they assume that it is the same for everyone else.

I've noticed on sspot, the ones that proudly talk about their Zina and the amount of women they have slept with, are the same ones to call women s and s and believe that the only way a woman can be 'pure' if she is under lock and key from male relatives.

I know yall are virgins even at 37

 

[Mehmet]

Mans rly said order a bride!!!!!!!

Lmaooo, those "SIGN UP NOW!! &get you a sultry, smexy, submissive, Slavic bride!!; chef, maid, tension reliever, baby machine-- quick ! don't miss this never again 4 in 1 deal!!" adverts actually be getting to ya huh??

Why not get a live one instead of those bots

 

[Mehmet]

@HalimaJ

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How to keep your fam from blocking you from marrying back home

 

[Seen su'aal]

How to keep your fam from blocking you from marrying back home

Like the previous person said, get to know them. Your family might set you up with crazy people too.