Gift giving

[Omnya]

Ladies I have a serious question,
How long should you be dating/talking to a guy before you being expecting gifts from him? I’m not talking about extravagant gifts. I’m talking simple things like a perfume, a reasonably priced purse, a pair of heels, books, etc etc.

is it even normal to expect a gift from a man you’re not married to?
Nala wadaaga aafkartina walayaal. Aad bad uu mahadsantihin

 

[Capone]

You expect a man you’re not married to to buy you gifts? He doesn’t owe you anything.

 

[Omnya]

You expect a man you’re not married to to buy you gifts? He doesn’t owe you anything.

First of all maa Nag baa tahay? Maxa kaa qaldaan? And what kind of man doesn’t give gifts to a woman he loves. Nacasnimada laa fariso bal. Next...

 

[Sumaaya]

First of all maa Nag baa tahay? Maxa kaa qaldaan? And what kind of man doesn’t give gifts to a woman he loves. Nacasnimada laa fariso bal. Next...

lol maxaa inanka uu cuntay huuno?

 

[Omnya]

lol maxaa inanka uu cuntay huuno?

Naa inan waaye isagaa afaaraha dumaarka soo galay bal wax sheeg

 

[Sumaaya]

That’s a good question, I wouldn’t really expect anything BUT if he does get it it’s nice and it shows he’s not gaajoo, nin gacan adag aya adduunka igu daran

Some men get a girl a gift because he wants to show his appreciation and how much he likes her

Others may get it because they want saqajaanimo in return, so I guess you can’t really put a timeline on it

 

[Capone]

First of all maa Nag baa tahay? Maxa kaa qaldaan? And what kind of man doesn’t give gifts to a woman he loves. Nacasnimada laa fariso bal. Next...

Your question was directed to the women but I answered anyway Truth hurts sometimes don’t it.

 

[Octavian]

4 months

 

[Sumaaya]

Your question was directed to the women but I answered anyway Truth hurts sometimes don’t it.

You wouldn’t get your little Juliet a lil suttin suttin lol?

 

[Omnya]

That’s a good question, I wouldn’t really expect anything BUT if he does get it it’s nice and it shows he’s not gaajoo, nin gacan adag aya adduunka igu daran

Some men get a girl a gift because he wants to show his appreciation and how much he likes her

Others may get it because they want saqajaanimo in return, so I guess you can’t really put a timeline on it

Sax. Nin gacaan aadg igu daran. But let’s say you’ve been together for like 6 months and he hasn’t given you anything since you met. Wouldn’t you think this man might possibly have gacan adag? Waa inaad iska huubsataa dee waxad meesha kuu haysatid walal

 

[Capone]

You wouldn’t get your little Juliet a lil suttin suttin lol?

Nah. Most relationships end up falling apart down the line there’s no point in buying somebody a permanet thing when the relationship will most likely be temporary.

 

[Omnya]

Nah. Most relationships end up falling apart down the line there’s no point in buying somebody a permanet thing when the relationship will most likely be temporary.

We are not talking about ciyaal suuq relationships . We are talking about serious relationships that might possibly lead to marriage

 

[Sumaaya]

Sax. Nin gacaan aadg igu daran. But let’s say you’ve been together for like 6 months and he hasn’t given you anything since you met. Wouldn’t you think this man might possibly have gacan adag? Waa inaad iska huubsataa dee waxad meesha kuu haysatid walal

Well whenever you meet up to eat/ go somewhere, he’d be paying all the time, which is an indicator that he’s a gentlemen and not gaajo, right?

lol I honestly can’t say anymore on this gift thing

 

[Octavian]

Sax. Nin gacaan aadg igu daran. But let’s say you’ve been together for like 6 months and he hasn’t given you anything since you met. Wouldn’t you think this man might possibly have gacan adag? Waa inaad iska huubsataa dee waxad meesha kuu haysatid walal

depends on how much money he has and also what he defines as a gift for all u know he might be saving up for some expensive gift. Or to him simply spending time with u is guud enough

 

[Omnya]

Well whenever you meet up to eat/ go somewhere, he’d be paying all the time, which is an indicator that he’s a gentlemen and not gaajo, right?

lol I honestly can’t say anymore on this gift thing

Good point. If he pays most of the times, then most likely he’s not gaajo.

 

[Octavian]

Good point. If he pays most of the times, then most likely he’s not gaajo.

not really food is cheaper then perfumes and other such gift worthy items

 

[Sumaaya]

I think the subject of money/gifts is very awkward lol

 

[Omnya]

not really food is cheaper then perfumes and other such gift worthy items

Have you ever been to those $50+ for a plate kinda restaurant? A gift is a once in a while kind of thing but going to a restaurant is more frequent don’t you think? Also you can tell if he’s gaajo from the kind of restaurants he takes you to, the food he orders, if he orders an appetizer or not. Etc

 

[Omnya]

I think the subject of money/gifts is very awkward lol

How so?

 

[Octavian]

Have you ever been to those $50+ for a plate kinda restaurant? A gift is a once in a while kind of thing but going to a restaurant is more frequent don’t you think? Also you can tell if he’s gaajo from the kind of restaurants he takes you to, the food he orders, if he orders an appetizer or not. Etc

still some people are simply not into spending allot of money on stuff like food and for all u know the guy could've saved for the exact meal that they are gonna order.