The diaspora community is small. Obviously the dynamic would be different when there's millions of Somalis.
At most I've spoken to 2 Somali girls in my whole life. But maybe hundreds of Ajnabi women.
Bro, these men are hitting on you even though they know your family live down the road.
They have a special type of confidence that only freshies have been blessed with. I still can't work out it is a good or bad thing.
Well, unless you don't want to marry a Xalimo, you need to leave your hang ups at the door and be open with one, respectfully of course.