Funny u should say this. Every day I get a Quran verse of the day!
This is the verse for today. It encourages the husband to ignore the wifes annoying trait, that Allaah swt might make that annoying trait a good thing come out of it!
Surah An- Nisa Verse 4:19
"O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good."
So patience is encouraged here.
Also-- rememeber Prophet pbuh was about to divorce his temperamental wife Hafsa, and Allaah swt had to send Jibril and command the prophet not to divorce her. Pbuh & pbut
The reason is Hafso was praying good Salat & also fasting a lot! Can u imagine this? Allaahu Akaar! Saved By Allaah swt