HELP! How do you reject arranged marriage WITHOUT coming across as rude

[Celery]

This family from my clan have talked to me and my family and want me to marry their daughter. I haven’t seen the daughter and haven’t asked for her photos. The thing is, I’m already talking to a girl and I don’t want to come across as not wanting their daughter (why I haven’t asked to see her pictures). What do I do??

 

[Celery]

I swear this is not a joke so please no snarky comments. I don’t know why I’m going to an online forum for advice

 

[inflorescence]

If you have brothers. Send their daughter off to them.

Say you aint ready for marriage yet

 

[Mukhy]

Give the women the finger
Tbh, love marriage is better. Find somebody YOU want and you are compatible with. Unfortunately, the xalimo stock is decreasing in the UK

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

if the girl your talking too is interested in marriage go for it then the arrange marriage will be cancelled

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

This family from my clan have talked to me and my family and want me to marry their daughter. I haven’t seen the daughter and haven’t asked for her photos. The thing is, I’m already talking to a girl and I don’t want to come across as not wanting their daughter (why I haven’t asked to see her pictures). What do I do??

Tell them you are busy seeing someone and you have been serious about it.

 

[Mukhy]

I swear this is not a joke so please no snarky comments. I don’t know why I’m going to an online forum for advice

You look for marriage advice on SomaliSpot??? You made a huge mistake my friend

 

[Regg]

Daughters and their family don’t care if they get rejected, they can move on and look for another one easily

Men on the other hand...

 

[Celery]

Daughters and their family don’t care if they get rejected, they can move on and look for another one easily

Men on the other hand...

Her dad is pushing it on me. The thing is I’m not really seeing a girl. It’s not at all serious. In fact she’s in a different city and I don’t know if or when I’ll marry her. This is just too sudden and out of nowhere.

 

[Halimo-2018]

This family from my clan have talked to me and my family and want me to marry their daughter. I haven’t seen the daughter and haven’t asked for her photos. The thing is, I’m already talking to a girl and I don’t want to come across as not wanting their daughter (why I haven’t asked to see her pictures). What do I do??

Skip all this. You're not ready for marriage at all. What's your next thread going to be like help my wife took her bra off what do I do next lol ok jokes aside you gonn have to be starn and say No. Here with clear emphasis so they don't keep coming back to u. Good luck

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

Her dad is pushing it on me. The thing is I’m not really seeing a girl. It’s not at all serious. In fact she’s in a different city and I don’t know if or when I’ll marry her. This is just too sudden and out of nowhere.

Warya you cant say no as an answer its not somali daqan.
Or else you will pay for libel damages to her reputation.
Just say you are busy with someone that is it.

 

[Shogun]

Politely decline and say marriage is not a priority at the moment and your energy is focused elsewhere. Why wouldn't that settle the matter? If your parents are pushy, have some back bone. They'll respect you for it.

 

[Hassan11]

I’ve been in a similar situation I simply declined and made excuses about not being financially ready and they understood.

 

[karkaar]

see how the girl looks,have a chat with her and if shes better than ur ting u know what to do.Ur an unmarried man,dont settle always look for improvements.If u dont vibe with the girl or ur not attracted just say waa isfahmi Wayni

 

[inflorescence]

If you have brothers. Send their daughter off to them.

Say you aint ready for marriage yet

Why are people laughing. I was sincere

 

[Lostbox]

Can't you sit down with your parents then explain them have no Interest in a random women and you also have no interest in arrange marriage?

Communication will get you far you know

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

Can't you sit down with the parents and explain you have no Interest in a random women and you also have no interest in arrange marriage?

Communication will get you far you know

If she got cake and good personality then

garac

 

[Lostbox]

If she got cake and good personality then

garac

If she breaths and a women. She getting a ring like last week

 

[Amirah]

This family from my clan have talked to me and my family and want me to marry their daughter. I haven’t seen the daughter and haven’t asked for her photos. The thing is, I’m already talking to a girl and I don’t want to come across as not wanting their daughter (why I haven’t asked to see her pictures). What do I do??

All I wanna know is who are you people living in the west were forced arrange marriages is still happening? Cajeeb lol

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

If she breaths and a women. She getting a ring like next week