help i like a guy and dont know what to do

[wonyluvr]

Find out who is mum is

 

[NidarNidar]

Slide into his dm's, most men can't take hints or if you're shy take the long game and make small talk for a few weeks.

 

[Kalsoon]

If he was truly interested he would have tried interacting with you by now.

So theres this guy I recently started taking interest in. He lives near my job and I see him like 2-3 times a week for the past few months. It’s always from a distance. I’ve only interacted with him once. He lives with his (huge) family. A young family, I think he’s the oldest, I see a new child everytime waan ba yaab anahay.


Mashallah he is very tall and handsome, he seems a little older than me and based on my and my coworkers assumptions, he seems like a homebody (he’s always home by nightfall and stays in on the weekends).


Back to my story, I’m stuck and have no idea what to do. I don’t know how to let him know that I’m interested and there is no way in this dunya that I would approach him (especially with his fam there). I just stare at him and he’s seen me staring (i should be embarrassed but im not)


Guys help me out. I hate this eyecontactship. Should I just give up? I need the younger somali guys to give me advice. American Somalis preferably.

He has seen you as much as you've seen him. He hasn't made any efforts to engage with you. For all you know, he's underage or talking to someone else.

 

[Takis]

Get one of your male co-workers to approach him for you under the guise of friends and hopefully he’ll bring you up if he likes you.

 

[Qeelbax]

You need to stop stalking the brother. if he was interested he would of came up to you

Stalking is crazy, I see him from my work window

 

[Qeelbax]

If he was truly interested he would have tried interacting with you by now.

He has seen you as much as you've seen him. He hasn't made any efforts to engage with you. For all you know, he's underage or talking to someone else.

I know this sounds crazy but its a setting where I see him but he doesn’t see me

 

[Moon-]

maybe try to create accidental interactions like go to the same coffee place etc

 

[EyiPunter]

I thought u were a guy.

 

[Aseer]

I know this sounds crazy but its a setting where I see him but he doesn’t see me

Is he in your league?

 

[Kalsoon]

I know this sounds crazy but its a setting where I see him but he doesn’t see me

Do you work in home health care or something?

 

[Rayaale]

@Qeelbax shoot your shot,Khadijah ra approached the Prophet Maxamed scw

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Do what the sisters said, quick eye contact + modest tight lipped smile. If he doesn't approach, leave him be.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Men, learn from this, if a woman smiles at you, she's telling you she is approachable, whether platonic or romantic. From there onwards, it's up to you to do the work.

 

[Qeelbax]

maybe try to create accidental interactions like go to the same coffee place etc

I would have to be a stalker to know that, im tryna be normal

@Qeelbax shoot your shot,Khadijah ra approached the Prophet Maxamed scw

Do you work in home health care or something?

No comment. exposing my job on here lol.

Is he in your league?

If your asking if im ugly, im not. If you are asking if im fat, im not. Im a qalanjo.

 

[Sophisticate]

Do not approach a man. It's not advised, as a man of action will take the initiative. Ensure he has discernment, as some men shoot their shots indiscriminately, making them appear less attractive.

 

[_Yusuf_]

So theres this guy I recently started taking interest in. He lives near my job and I see him like 2-3 times a week for the past few months. It’s always from a distance. I’ve only interacted with him once. He lives with his (huge) family. A young family, I think he’s the oldest, I see a new child everytime waan ba yaab anahay.


Mashallah he is very tall and handsome, he seems a little older than me and based on my and my coworkers assumptions, he seems like a homebody (he’s always home by nightfall and stays in on the weekends).


Back to my story, I’m stuck and have no idea what to do. I don’t know how to let him know that I’m interested and there is no way in this dunya that I would approach him (especially with his fam there). I just stare at him and he’s seen me staring (i should be embarrassed but im not)


Guys help me out. I hate this eyecontactship. Should I just give up? I need the younger somali guys to give me advice. American Somalis preferably.

How do you dress when you're at work?

When you look at him what is his reaction when he notices it?