Hero-Asshole Complex

[Nak Muay]

I stopped giving shit about what women want, what they want to hear etc.
I selfishly pursue my own entertainment when interacting with them. I'll say shit mid-convo that could NUKE my chances with them as long as I find it funny,entertaining or if it's how I genuinely feel.

My opinion of myself and my personal conduct infinitely means more to me than another human begins. It's honestly been smooth sailing since adopting that mind-set/philosophy

 

[Xasusi]

I stopped giving shit about what women want, what they want to hear etc.
I selfishly pursue my own entertainment when interacting with them. I'll say shit mid-convo that could NUKE my chances with them as long as I find it funny,entertaining or if it's how I genuinely feel.

My opinion of myself and my personal conduct infinitely means more to me than another human begins. It's honestly been smooth sailing since adopting that philosophy

Its counter intuitive, but that makes you more interesting.

 

[Nak Muay]

Its counter intuitive, but that makes you more interesting.

Probably. I think it's also just refreshing for them to have a genuine interaction with guy who isn't some slippery dishonest f-ggot who'll say anything that "sounds right/good".

 

[Sophisticate]

The choices for those particular women group are limited and still we have more options compared to them.

If I recall, a few threads ago you made this sensational claim that cadaan women were into splitting payments. Research I've read suggests otherwise so you better sit this one out.

A recent survey of over 1,000 men and women found that 82 percent of men and 72 percent of women said the man should still pay the full bill on a date. Even as a relationship progresses, 36 percent of men said they pay all the bills, versus 14 percent of women.34 In other words, young women are becoming more educated and financially successful than young men but they are less willing than men to meet their partner in the middle when it comes to sharing expenses and gift-giving

It is quite selfish of you to not contribute more threads to this forum.

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It can be for all kinds of reasons, insecurities, emotional immaturity some just have embraced their sociopathic tendencies.

I think some have also had negative experiences that they have allowed to coat their future interactions. Maybe I'm wrong?

You should respect women but at the same time know your worth

Please elaborate, bro.

 

[Marsh]

If I recall, a few threads ago you made this sensational claim that cadaan women were into splitting payments. Research I've read suggests otherwise so you better sit this one out.

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I think some have also had negative experiences that they have allowed to coat their future interactions. Maybe I'm wrong?



Please elaborate, bro.

Cite your sources you cant kill my white women dreams with unreliable sources.

 

[Sophisticate]

I stopped giving shit about what women want, what they want to hear etc.
I selfishly pursue my own entertainment when interacting with them. I'll say shit mid-convo that could NUKE my chances with them as long as I find it funny,entertaining or if it's how I genuinely feel.

My opinion of myself and my personal conduct infinitely means more to me than another human begins. It's honestly been smooth sailing since adopting that mind-set/philosophy

I understand that one shouldn't be too concerned with the impressions other people have of you i.e. expressing a confident air but do you meant to say that you're conversationally greedy and self-focused?

 

[Mad-MullaH]

Men want the Madonna-Wh0r€ (wholesome but bad). While the male equivalent is the Hero-Asshole Complex (good guy that knows when to activate the bad in him and how much bad is respectable enough given the context). One moment they want tenderness and sensitivity but they also want a sprinkle of aggression and a cavalier attitude. What seems confusing is how to traverse these polar opposites. It must be challenging for guys to figure out when to be one or the other. And a part of me thinks many women don't even know the answer to that question themselves. There is a lot of confusing programming. And even more tip toeing nowadays regarding what to say and when to say it. The rules of engagement like gender roles are unclear. So, how do you navigate it?

How do you young men manage? And young ladies what do you expect from men?

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Abaayo I only appreciate your agression in the bed room...otherwise it dont look good on you..

For men Don't you be too hard so you can easily break nor too soft so you can easily bend

 

[Sophisticate]

Cite your sources you cant kill my white women dreams with unreliable sources.

Actually read it in a book called "Men Interrupted" (2016) by famed psychologist Phillip Zimbardo. You remember the Stanford Prison Experiment? If you would like me to back search the source I'll do it later.

 

[Marsh]

Actually read it in a book called "Men Interrupted" (2016) by famed psychologist Phillip Zimbardo. You remember the Stanford Prison Experiment? If you would like me to back search the source I'll do it later.

The Stanford prison experiment is unreliable he incentivized guards to act like savages.
The dream is still alive

 

[Shmurda]

If I recall, a few threads ago you made this sensational claim that cadaan women were into splitting payments. Research I've read suggests otherwise so you better sit this one out.

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I think some have also had negative experiences that they have allowed to coat their future interactions. Maybe I'm wrong?



Please elaborate, bro.

What I'm trying to say is we all breathe the same and bleed the same so don't degrade yourself for a women or "simp" because no one is better than anyone. Everyone deserves to be respected though.

 

[Sophisticate]

Abaayo I only appreciate your agression in the bed room...otherwise it dont look good on you..

For men Don't you be too hard so you can easily break nor too soft so you can easily bend

Waryaa, don't make this about me. I'm a sexless entity with good wifi.

Anyway, I think the point was that people are rarely pleased. They say one thing and than want the other.

The Madonna- Complex is about wanting the good girl with the bad girl to coexist in one being.

Wanting a woman without a past (wholeseome) but has the sexual prowess of a succubus (only for you), but fine enough that men want her (but can't have her).

 

[Sophisticate]

The Stanford prison experiment is unreliable he incentivized guards to act like savages.
The dream is still alive

Waryaa, that was in the 1970s caadi iska dhiig.

Let me trace back the survey mon ami.

 

[Nak Muay]

I understand that one shouldn't be too concerned with the impressions other people have of you i.e. expressing a confident air but do you meant to say that you're conversationally greedy and self-focused?

Not at all, it's more-so outcome independence. I just don't care how I'm perceived by women anymore, to an extent, and there's a certain level of freedom that comes with that.
If the interaction's engaging and fun for the both of us then that's ideal, if it's not then I'll create my own fun.

 

[Sophisticate]

What I'm trying to say is we all breathe the same and bleed the same so don't degrade yourself for a women or "simp" because no one is better than anyone. Everyone deserves to be respected though.

What do you classify as simping (according to you)?

 

[Sophisticate]

Not at all, it's more-so outcome independence. I just don't care how I'm perceived by women anymore, to an extent, and there's a certain level of freedom that comes with that.
If the interaction's engaging and fun for the both of us then that's ideal, if it's not then I'll create my own fun.

That seems fair.

 

[Xasusi]

What do you classify as simping (according to you)?

Simping means treating women in an abnormal fashion purely because they're women.

I'll give you an example. A girl asks me to help her. If I'm busy, I will say no for a man or a woman. The simp will drop what he's doing to help her because she's a woman.

 

[Marsh]

Waryaa, that was in the 1970s caadi iska dhiig.

Let me trace back the survey mon ami.

The truth is in this society that we are in now if a women works and she does not contribute to the household that is a recipe for resentment. People are ok with different set ups but I could never do that it makes no sense to me.

 

[Mad-MullaH]

Waryaa, don't make this about me. I'm a sexless entity with good wifi.

Anyway, I think the point was that people are rarely pleased. They say one thing and than want the other.

The Madonna-***** Complex is about wanting the good girl with the bad girl to coexist in one being.

Wanting a woman without a past (wholeseome) but has the sexual prowess of a succubus (only for you), but fine enough that men want her (but can't have her).

are you saying good girls..cant be good in bed when they get married virgin?

Dont worry baby you will learn you dont have to be a ho e...i will just be the first to teach you..

Anyways men dont like a woman that behave like men..loud with her opinions..you got something to say smile and whisper it in my ears..

Behave like woman your man will be a ring in your finger

 

[Shmurda]

What do you classify as simping (according to you)?

Simping is a number of things from buying a girl something just because shes a woman or picking a women over your childhood friend. The most common case of simping imo is when a man in a relationship puts a lot into a relationship and the women doesn't put anything into it so hes the one keeping the relationship alive while the woman is disinterested. Thats why I called it degrading.

 

[Sophisticate]

Simping means treating women in an abnormal fashion purely because they're women.

I'll give you an example. A girl asks me to help her. If I'm busy, I will say no for a man or a woman. The simp will drop what he's doing to help her because she's a woman.

So, it's about differential treatment based on gender/sex? And about having boundaries I assume.

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And I have a feeling they would help their male friends too but might put in a little more effort for me. After all I was nicer than their male friends (or so I delude myself into thinking). There is some truth as women are slightly more agreeable than men.