Hey Girls!! - xasidnimo from other girls

[AliUK]

Its a love potion. Thank God u didnt get saxir.

Love potion?
I doubt it, they hate me.

 

[RICH]

The women taught at the mosque. 3/4 kids have memorised the Qur'an, dad is well respected but wallahi I warned my mum these guys are good at hiding their bad nature to the world but unleash in one on one situations away from everyone.

Not to me, my right hook was always too good for her sons from when I was in nursery with them but to others, mostly miskeen people who wouldn't dream of repercussions. She on the sly hated me from then, she don't forget any L's especially public ones no matter how many yearsago it happened.

I got a few habos out of onecoin and into ardor and ripple. She was a onecoin warrior and I was messing with her cash but she was messing with my habos.Made them atleast £30000, everyone else laughed at me.

The 5 love me even more now especially as i agreed a 15% cut with them but refused to take shit(mainly because of their educated,good looking daughters).Some told me to come through when I am ready. Anyway this family can't see people be loved. They get jealous and love to put you down. She tried to say I put on weight one day in front of all the habos after a wedding when i was looking my
best in a mercedes and the aunties were praising me and I just said yh the 8 pack is now a 6, send your son my way and I will hopefully help him get a 2 pack.

Her daughter tried say the car was a rental and I was like no baby girl, that is £65000 car bought for £15500 at a government auction. I am going to stunt in it for a weekthen sell it to the buyer I have lined up for 60 bands. Maybe I will make 5% of that profit your mahr money. Everyone but her family laughed at them lines.

The reason they put sihr on the poor girl whose hair I found is because she was talking to her ex and were close to getting married to him.

La xawla wa la quwatta illaah billaah

These people are creepy af and crazy in the head wallaahi billaahi. Waxaani caadi mahan

They say caadanka iska Illaahi, well let me tell you this xaayawaankan ka hadlisid oo diin la’aan iska eeg

 

[Vanessa]

Love potion?
I doubt it, they hate me.

Its definitely love potion. They were trying to hitch u with a secret admirer. Hence of girl's hair and nails were found in the bag.

 

[AliUK]

Its definitely love potion. They were trying to hitch u with a secret admirer. Hence of girl's hair and nails were found in the bag.

Must have described it wrong, the girl in questions hair which I found was the hair from the crazy women's daughters ex new woman. So I don't know exactly what she wanted but probably to make her hate her man.


For me I have no idea what they exactly wanted apart from cause harm.

 

[AliUK]

La xawla wa la quwatta illaah billaah

These people are creepy af and crazy in the head wallaahi billaahi. Waxaani caadi mahan

They say caadanka iska Illaahi, well let me tell you this xaayawaankan ka hadlisid oo diin la’aan iska eeg

Crazy thing is I had spent the last 6 years before that point living in a place with very little Somalis so to come back and have this happen, made me think f*ck this. Rather live in peace and quiet with the rich white people. Might have the smallest house in the area but no buuq( thing I spelt that right).

 

[Karim]

All of a sudden everyone became religious coz of this thread.

 

[Vanessa]

Must have described it wrong, the girl in questions hair which I found was the hair from the crazy women's daughters ex new woman. So I don't know exactly what she wanted but probably to make her hate her man.


For me I have no idea what they exactly wanted apart from cause harm.

I could be wrong about the love potion. But happens all the time.

 

[Vanessa]

All of a sudden everyone became religious coz of this thread.

If you're not helping. leave warya

 

[MariaMaria]

It's really sad to read some of these post but that's the reality right now. Growing up, my mum used to get soo many compliments about me and my sisters. Recently my sister told me when she was little she used to over hear aunties chatting shit about us because all their daughters were out there hoeing the sihir was real.

It's sad that in this day and age we have to avoid telling a fellow Somali about good things that have happened to you or successes because they might curse you if they are in a bad shape themselves. My mum told me she avoids telling people that my lil sister goes to a good school to avoid sihir, because all the other mum's are struggling to get their kids to even stay in school.

 

[Karim]

If you're not helping. leave warya

I'm just exposing the hypocrisy in this forum.

 

[AliUK]

I could be wrong about the love potion. But happens all the time.

It does but what I mean she wouldn't have been doing the love potion one me to like her daughter.she hates me so maybe one for me with someone else who knows?

 

[The Cushitic One]

hello to those guys who are peeping through the womens spot as well.
Anyways this spot isn't as active as the other ones so i was like might as well post something. I was just wondering have you guys realised within the somali community we can be actually so xasid to each other and not want the best for fellow sisters/ brothers (not so much from what I've heard of) subhanallah. Theres an uprising rate of sihir being done in the west for simple things such as a girls beauty,wealth or intelligence or in general e.g. i have a serious internal conflict within me regarding putting photos up. apart of me is like its just a photo and the other half is like evil eye, sihir, any bad thing can happen.what do you girls do to prevent yourselves from xasidnimo? share any stories or advice you have so we can all benefit!! jazakallah khayrrrrr

Yes sis, this is a massive issue with Somalis.

I find it even more puzzling with Somali girls
And the constant need to upstage each other
Or compete

We should be working together instead

Tbh I surround myself with good friends,
Ignore the haters and just focus on me

Just keep any good things to yourself even
From some so called friends - envy knows
No boundaries

 

[Buraanbur911]

It's really sad to read some of these post but that's the reality right now. Growing up, my mum used to get soo many compliments about me and my sisters. Recently my sister told me when she was little she used to over hear aunties chatting shit about us because all their daughters were out there hoeing the sihir was real.

It's sad that in this day and age we have to avoid telling a fellow Somali about good things that have happened to you or successes because they might curse you if they are in a bad shape themselves. My mum told me she avoids telling people that my lil sister goes to a good school to avoid sihir, because all the other mum's are struggling to get their kids to even stay in school.

Haa walal I can imagine. Hiding your success is an issue in the Somali community because no one wants to see you do good. In other communities they throw parties when they see their FF doing great subxanallah I love sharing good news but I know why I don’t nowadays

 

[Zainab_7]

hello to those guys who are peeping through the womens spot as well.
Anyways this spot isn't as active as the other ones so i was like might as well post something. I was just wondering have you guys realised within the somali community we can be actually so xasid to each other and not want the best for fellow sisters/ brothers (not so much from what I've heard of) subhanallah. Theres an uprising rate of sihir being done in the west for simple things such as a girls beauty,wealth or intelligence or in general e.g. i have a serious internal conflict within me regarding putting photos up. apart of me is like its just a photo and the other half is like evil eye, sihir, any bad thing can happen.what do you girls do to prevent yourselves from xasidnimo? share any stories or advice you have so we can all benefit!! jazakallah khayrrrrr

Yes this is something very common, where i live its known that habos get together in their houses and talk bare shit this habo had the nerve to tell my aunt i probably didnt graduate uni and was just finishing adult high school like most kids these days da f*ck I keep xasidnimo away from me by keeping my accomplishments to myself and immediate family!!! I agree with everyone its really sad when it comes from your own community hopefully our generation will change this

 

[buuqiyobalayo]

Somali people in general don’t ever like seeing someone they know be more successful than them. They eat you alive lol its really sad :/ (like all the girls who constantly attacked halima Aden talking about how much prettier they are or saying stuff like why her lol) but just keep your faith in god and you should protected from evil eye or whatever else. Also sis just put photos up who cares man whatever is done they will answer to god later on no??? Don’t be afraid of insecure, hateful, people bc they must be really miserable to only focus on what others have rather than try to achieve the same thing. Its embarrassing and sad for them and they will never find happiness being the way that they are.

 

[Inquisitive_]

There is a hadith commanding us to keep the blessings Allah gave us to our self and not to expose this to the people including our own families or siblings.

Telling people about your blessings is a type of sickness and expression of arrogance, it's even worse when you share this with the whole world.

People of similar culture are notorious for getting in your bussiness, Somali's are no different in this, the best ways to mitigate these issues.

1. Only befriend people on the same level or higher then you. (there is a reason why class/cast systems existed since ancient times)

2. Read your daily adkaar's, especially Surah Falaq/Nas before you leave the house.

3. Shut your big mouth on any blessings you received from Allah big or small (only share mum/dad)


When you encounter the unexpected issues which I always do with noisy Somali cab drivers that politely get in your business (what do you do, were you work etc.) minimise as much as you can.

 

[Desert Flower]

My advice is to read your adkaar's and ayatul kursi, and leave the rest to Allah. As for your personal life and success, its better if you keep everything on the low's and do not share blessings with anyone aside from your immediate family.

As for friends, I think like someone mentioned earlier, don't really say much to them because you never know how they may feel- they could accidentally give you evil eye.

 

[catwoman]

In life it's easier to drag someone down then to build yourself up and especially if someone is not close to God then they will actions to make sure of this.

Hopefully there is no one from the midlands on here, they may have heard this story and know who I am but oh well f*ck it. I woke up one day to see my mum's friends daughter at my desk, I was confused and shouted at her. She turned around and ran towards the door, I had already got out of bed so I blocked the door and then grabbed her bag which I had seen her put something in. Turns out it was a little zip bag full of my hair from my comb and another girls hair in a another bag which was labeled with the names already. I was confused. I supposed we kidnapped the and mother and my mother called her friend whose daughters hair was in the other bag, they went over to this women's house and was let in by the son and they proceeded to her room where they found more hair and nails and black magic materials whatever that is.

Me I tell everyone this story but my mum and the girls mum are way too nice.

That's wild.. good thing that you grabbed the bag lol that bish was crazy

 

[catwoman]

I was so slow in the past and wouldn't even clock but yes there are a lot of weirdos out there guys not everybody has the same heart as you.. those sly comments, put downs, competing with you and you don't even know it, some even going as far as to try and wishing you bad/black magic ect is not normal behaviour. Even if you get bad vibes from someone, just cut them off..

Stay safe guys may God protect us all inshallah

 

[Sophisticate]

In any case, I don't think most people, that includes Somalis are that xassid. I think people want good for others or are simply not that interested in others lives to care. Those few that do, have too much time on their hands. Or have been mistreated/have a grievance. I prefer this lease on life and it hasn't failed. What I don't deal well with are paranoid folks or those with trust issues. I understand it's a function of learned behaviour I suppose so I can't fault them.