I prefer writing walaal. I
i don’t know any other languages
you’re lucky. Are you Djiboutian?
Hooyo invading my privacy rant
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you’re lucky. Are you Djiboutian?
lol girl its a new year maybe think about learning one, no harm in trying. Also no I just had a passion for it in high school and studied it in my spare time throughout college.I prefer writing walaal. I
i don’t know any other languages
Did you write that you had boyfriend and what’s this privacy thing? There is no privacy in Somali house
you are very whitewashedDid you write that you had boyfriend and what’s this privacy thing? There is no privacy in Somali house
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You’re very strange. I don’t want more sins from insulting you. Ii dhaafyou have flubber over yourr neo-clitoris (idk what the f*ck that was)
Then your hooyo and brothers have the right to read it. They are worried about your unislamic behaviour.
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Western Xalimo like you give rest of Somali girls bad names. Focus on your deen and marriage.
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By keeping a journal?
I’m already focused on my deen. How about you focus on finding your ajnabi wife?Maybe you could use that invisible ink to write in your journal instead? Or not bring it home to begin with, are you still in education? America has lockers, right?By keeping a journal?
Do not get married to leave ur moms house lol this is wrong but it’s expected with Somali culture my cousins were reading my journals that was the last time I wrote anything private in journal. It’s also haram to read someone’s else letter in Islam but we all know some people overlook the e rules. Next time down load an app and write it there save with a password or something. Don’t worry is not the end of the world
I’m from the UK. I don’t have a locker. I’ll buy a new lockable journal inshallah.
Good luck with that, inshallah
3LetterzMM
LG gang we gon slide for my nigga 🤐🥷
Nah I get it as much as we love our hooyos they are human and make mistakes. With our mother tho we gotta be patient because they raised us without complaints.
Try using the notepad app on your phone. I'm assuming no one knows your password so it should be safe. A book with a lock can still get broken fairly easy.
Try using the notepad app on your phone. I'm assuming no one knows your password so it should be safe. A book with a lock can still get broken fairly easy.
The same hooyo that used to remove her diaper clean her up and put on a new one? Come on now… it’s not a random lady that popped out of nowhere it’s the same woman who kept her in the womb for 9months when she was helpless infant same woman that played with her bought her clothes loved her for years… there was another Somali gabadh who wrote a page on this site complaining about her hooyo. I feel sick reading those typa posts tbh.
@pinkyandthebrain can you advise her huuno you’re very honest and intelligent
@rayxn3 I hate how everyone is agreeing with you and not advising you about ur mistakes you’re wrong. Jannah lies beneath your hooyos feet you’re writing as if she’s a random lady you’re sinning. @Al hashimi out of everything you’re worrying about her writing diary?? You phucking piggy popa.
Once a man came to the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and said: “O Messenger of Allah! Who from amongst mankind warrants the best companionship from me?” He replied: “Your mother.” The man asked: “Then who?” So He (PBUH) replied: “Your mother.” The man then asked: “Then who?” So the Prophet (PBUH) replied again: “Your mother.” The man then asked: “Then who?” So He (SAW) replied: “Then your father.” [Sahih Bukhari]
Repent to Allah and remove this comment, authubillah
Haaye
Sometimes I also feel like this. My mum telling me not to do this, etc and is frustrating considering I am in my late 20s. I call her out often and than she says she promises she won't and than guess what? she forgets and continues to lecture me. I keep telling her to stop lecturing me all the time. I noticed somali hooyos don't care how old their daughters are they will still invade your personal space until you are married and leave. As much as I love my mother I wish she backed down and let me decide for myself. She won't always be there when I make big decisions and she won't be there to make it for me. Is tiring
First of all let me start by stressing the f*ck out of how much of a mistake that last line is. A lot of marriages fail because people don't marry because they're ready, love each other and compatible with each other, but they marry because of other circumstances, like you for example. So don't even entertain that idea because as bad as things are right now at your mom's crib, getting married to the wrong person will be a million times worse.
With that pep talk out of the way, let me ask you this, did your mom go to kindergarden, middle school, high school and university here? The answer is probably a big fat no! The reason why I ask is to remind you that even thought she's your mom, you two have different upbringings and cultures. She won't understand you and you won't understand her. The moment you come to terms with this, you'll learn how to deal with your mom in a respectful way.
I started smoking weed when I was younger, and mom wouldn't have it. Dad was chill about it. Guess what, she left the country and went back to Hargaysa because a grown ass negro was smoking.
I was like mom don't worry about it I am big boy, she just wouldn't let it go. That's when I started digging around and I found out all Somali moms are the same. Some of the guys I knew were being told what to do, some were old enough to be my dad at that time.Long story short, just know she's your mom, and in her own ways, she thinks it's not a big deal to read your personal stuff because she didn't grew up in a culture that told her that. Just be careful and try not to make sense of it all, it won't make sense to you.
