How do you tell your mom you don't want to marry without hurting her

[Boogie]

trust me my guy, after you bust your nut, unless you really like her you're not gonna wanna cuddle

I think what you trying say is it's a male's natural programming to want to spread his seed

Kulaha natural programming why do u want me to nut stop

 

[Wervelwind]

Did u tell her about your TWO MAJOR secrets in your life?

?? Wllhi what do you mean?

There are women who love their space and freedom and are not “nags.” We’re half of the world’s population, so you’ll find someone who meets your criteria. Where did this idea come from that all women are clingy?

I'm not saying all women are clingy but just like men have tendencies, women have tendencies as well. It's just like stereotypes: people talk about it for a reason

Bro you live in holland?

yeah

The only reason to ever get married in the modern era is to have children. So my question to you is, do you want to have kids?

No

I'm tryna make sense of things.

I can understand being wary of marriage with the amount of trifling women out there.

It's in every man's dna to want a woman laying on your chest.


But your reasons seems odd. What type of women do you even like? Or better yet, do you even like women?

No it's not like that. I just dont like commitment

You sound like a little girl.30 male and you're still under your mom's control? We don't need another mom's boy. Stay single till you sort yourself out and learn to live your life.

I agree. You shouldn't do it unless youre ready

 

[mr steal your naag]

?? Wllhi what do you mean?



I'm not saying all women are clingy but just like men have tendencies, women have tendencies as well. It's just like stereotypes: people talk about it for a reason



yeah

Lol hoe oud ben je en waar woon je

 

[Wervelwind]

Lol hoe oud ben je en waar woon je

Ik woon in London. I woonde vroeger in Nijmegen maar ik ging weg in 2006. Ik ben 29

 

[mr steal your naag]

Ik woon in London. I woonde vroeger in Nijmegen maar ik ging weg in 2006. Ik ben 29

Relax man. Heel veel somas gingen weg van Nederland naar london in de jaren 2000s

 

[Wervelwind]

Relax man. Heel veel somas gingen weg van Nederland naar london in de jaren 2000s

hoe is het daar? Hetzelfde als altijd?

 

[mr steal your naag]

hoe is het daar? Hetzelfde als altijd?

Ja man relax heel veel somalis zijn terug gekomen van Engeland naar nederland. Je weet ze hebben khat verbannen in Nederland

 

[Username]

Just tell her and get it over and done with. I have lots of siblings so I don't have to worry about it, I hope. Though i'm only 22 so we'll see what happens.

 

[Thugnificent]

I'm going to be 30 in a couple of months and she keeps bringing up marriage but I'm not planning on marrying. I told her before that I'll marry when I'm older because I didn't want to straight up tell her I don't want to guurso. Wallahi I'm not the marriage type I can't be with a woman 24/7 with all the buuq and geelo.

Ga een paar jaar werken in het buitenland sxb. Dat of zeg de waarheid tegen haar.

 

[Thugnificent]

Ja man relax heel veel somalis zijn terug gekomen van Engeland naar nederland. Je weet ze hebben khat verbannen in Nederland

Ik was bang dat ze allemaal terug zouden komen na Brexit. heb echt geen zin om dagelijks afsomali te horen in een Engels accent

 

[mr steal your naag]

Ik was bang dat ze allemaal terug zouden komen na Brexit. heb echt geen zin om dagelijks afsomali te horen in een Engels accent

Waarom bro ik zou juist heel veel somalis in mij buurt willlen hebben. Ik ben opgegroeid in amsterdam en er waren weinig somas hier toen ik jong was. ik was Letterlijk enigste van me school

 

[Thugnificent]

Waarom bro ik zou juist heel veel somalis in mij buurt willlen hebben. Ik ben opgegroeid in amsterdam en er waren weinig somas hier toen ik jong was. ik was Letterlijk enigste van me school

Hetzelfde hier, maar ik vond dat juist fijn. Ik kan altijd en overal in het somalisch een telefoongesprek houden zonder dat iemand mij begrijpt

 

[BobSmoke]

Peronally i must confess, i am deeply, deeply in love with your dp photo. So much that i am not even going to respond to this post, even tho i have a strong urge to respond.


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Ofc you would love it. We share the same nose huuno.

@BobSmoke watch out for the evil arse woman aka @Basra

She's evil to others but she sweet to me.

trust me my guy, after you bust your nut, unless you really like her you're not gonna wanna cuddle

I think what you trying say is it's a male's natural programming to want to spread his seed

You get me.

But also, it soothes a niggas ego when a woman just wanna lay up on your chest looking at you widdem hearteyes.
A woman you like, of course.

Hortu, am I getting old? I'm getting tired to entertain dutties. If she is not a sweet ting with good manners, my shit gets soft

 

[Regg]

Having to be around someone 24/7, irrespective of how much I might love them, is exhausting. Particularly for people who are a little introverted and like having their own space.

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I’m in the exact same boat as you and the OP because of those reasons. I don’t want to spend every minute with her, see her family or deal with her problems for the rest of my life.

But, my mum won’t let it go and she’s pushing me to find a house so she can get a woman for me. I spent $7K on my hobbies since October and all my family always complained to me for not saving money so i’m getting all the crazy pressure right now.

Can you imagine if the wife sees all the stuff I have and gets annoyed when I have OCD trying to perfect the things I do every single day and yell at anyone that touches it?

Also, my biggest fear is her regreting it because I may not be the type of man she wanted. I’m not romantic like cadaans and only want her to relieve the stress asap so I can end all the sins that I struggle to stop with (masturbation and staring at white women) then take a deep nap and do my own things. Rinse, rise and repeat.

 

[XawoTako]

I'm going to be 30 in a couple of months and she keeps bringing up marriage but I'm not planning on marrying. I told her before that I'll marry when I'm older because I didn't want to straight up tell her I don't want to guurso. Wallahi I'm not the marriage type I can't be with a woman 24/7 with all the buuq and geelo.

Why don't you want to marry? are you afraid of commitment?

 

[XawoTako]

@Amirah I do not think it is in your biology to marry huuno. Your eggs are not made to have a baby. This is an honest answer not a mean one. U know, i don't have a mean part in my body

Are you her doctor? Yaab badana

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

I’m in the exact same boat as you and the OP because of those reasons. I don’t want to spend every minute with her, see her family or deal with her problems for the rest of my life.

But, my mum won’t let it go and she’s pushing me to find a house so she can get a woman for me. I spent $7K on my hobbies since October and all my family always complained to me for not saving money so i’m getting all the crazy pressure right now.

Can you imagine if the wife sees all the stuff I have and gets annoyed when I have OCD trying to perfect the things I do every single day and yell at anyone that touches it?

Also, my biggest fear is her regreting it because I may not be the type of man she wanted. I’m not romantic like cadaans and only want her to relieve the stress asap so I can end all the sins that I struggle to stop with (masturbation and staring at white women) then take a deep nap and do my own things. Rinse, rise and repeat.

Aussie cadaan women are thick
Met a few randomly last summer in Vancouver, I thought they were Brits, can't differentiate the accent tbh

 

[Wervelwind]

Why don't you want to marry? are you afraid of commitment?

absolutely

 

[Basra]

Aussie cadaan women are thick
Met a few randomly last summer in Vancouver, I thought they were Brits, can't differentiate the accent tbh

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Halimos are the prototype
But I don't discriminate on cooch though