How long should it take?

[Inquisitive_]

He is right, 6 months is enough time.

That's enough if you somewhere between being an idiot and average, if you apply proper full due diligence every step of the way rather then waste time talking about useless nac nac crap or other emotional filler garbage which people often do, it will take max 1 month.

I will know everything I need to know about her, from her hobbies, to her dietary regimen, to her relationship with her family, to her religiosity, to all her character flaws, to whether she has any degeneracy in her family, to her marital expectations, to her level of materialism, entitlement, pampering, ambitions, sacrifices, patience, forbearance, tolerance, respect, reputation (good or bad), how consciously awake she is etc. etc.

You can dissect all of this very quickly without ever asking straight forward questions or turning the whole thing into an interrogation format or even giving any hint your doing a full due diligence deep dive, only an unprepared clueless idiot has 6-24 months to waste on this.

These are often the same people that are quick to divorce each after discovering new things they never knew about each other even after 3 years of dating.

 

[Gambar]

That's enough if you somewhere between being an idiot and average, if you apply proper full due diligence every step of the way rather then waste time talking about useless nac nac crap or other emotional filler garbage which people often do, it will take max 1 month.

I will know everything I need to know about her, from her hobbies, to her dietary regimen, to her relationship with her family, to her religiosity, to all her character flaws, to whether she has any degeneracy in her family, to her marital expectations, to her level of materialism, entitlement, pampering, ambitions, sacrifices, patience, forbearance, tolerance, respect, reputation (good or bad), how consciously awake she is etc. etc.

You can dissect all of this very quickly without ever asking straight forward questions or turning the whole thing into an interrogation format or even giving any hint your doing a full due diligence deep dive, only an unprepared clueless idiot has 6-24 months to waste on this.

These are often the same people that are quick to divorce each after discovering new things they never knew about each other even after 3 years of dating.

Haye aweey gabadhaad guursan lahayd?

 

[Inquisitive_]

Haye aweey gabadhaad guursan lahayd?

Na heedhe I disqualified around 50 or so on that chair, and many more through just a single glance, the results were horrifying, I even tried to bury many strong expectations I had on various areas to no avail, yet they still failed on every measurable criteria badly.

Reer Diaspora wan ka quustey, every chick was keen on a second meeting which I wasn't down for, at one point I felt so bad for doing this that I put a big fat cross next to them, wa wada useless beyond belief.

The plan is to do it back home, even my own friends who recently got married and thought I was crazy before are now advising me the same, I went on a few trips back home and was blown away.

In the diaspora I can't even get past the most important hurdle which is deenta, she comes in with shaped eye brows, the prophet cursed such a person, she comes in cloaked in makeup not a trace of naturalness, there is no Salah, the music is banging in her ears.

Their English is often mixed with heavy slang and getto lingo, there Somali is often totally none existent, their expectations are nothing short of delusional, this is 90% of the Xalimo's in the UK who I know are the worst, but I met Canadians that were no better other then speaking clearer English with better intelligence but religiously just as bad.

The sizeable religious ones with great families that were recommended to me were always obese or fat like our iman's and scholars are, so there was no need to even meet them, it's ironic because our religion preaches against gluttony, obesity and being fat.

 

[DeadStar]

That's enough if you somewhere between being an idiot and average, if you apply proper full due diligence every step of the way rather then waste time talking about useless nac nac crap or other emotional filler garbage which people often do, it will take max 1 month.

I will know everything I need to know about her, from her hobbies, to her dietary regimen, to her relationship with her family, to her religiosity, to all her character flaws, to whether she has any degeneracy in her family, to her marital expectations, to her level of materialism, entitlement, pampering, ambitions, sacrifices, patience, forbearance, tolerance, respect, reputation (good or bad), how consciously awake she is etc. etc.

You can dissect all of this very quickly without ever asking straight forward questions or turning the whole thing into an interrogation format or even giving any hint your doing a full due diligence deep dive, only an unprepared clueless idiot has 6-24 months to waste on this.

These are often the same people that are quick to divorce each after discovering new things they never knew about each other even after 3 years of dating.

@Kaleel we need proof this guy is not a robot.

 

[Gambar]

Na heedhe I disqualified around 50 or so on that chair, and many more through just a single glance, the results were horrifying, I even tried to bury many strong expectations I had on various areas to no avail, yet they still failed on every measurable criteria badly.

Reer Diaspora wan ka quustey, every chick was keen on a second meeting which I wasn't down for, at one point I felt so bad for doing this that I put a big fat cross next to them, wa wada useless beyond belief.

The plan is to do it back home, even my own friends who recently got married and thought I was crazy before are now advising me the same, I went on a few trips back home and was blown away.

In the diaspora I can't even get past the most important hurdle which is deenta, she comes in with shaped eye brows, the prophet cursed such a person, she comes in cloaked in makeup not a trace of naturalness, there is no Salah, the music is banging in her ears.

Their English is often mixed with heavy slang and getto lingo, there Somali is often totally none existent, their expectations are nothing short of delusional, this is 90% of the Xalimo's in the UK who I know are the worst, but I met Canadians that were no better other then speaking clearer English with better intelligence but religiously just as bad.

The sizeable religious ones with great families that were recommended to me were always obese or fat like our iman's and scholars are, so there was no need to even meet them, it's ironic because our religion preaches against gluttony, obesity and being fat.

Waryee, don't be ranting at your wife or she'll run away from you.

 

[Desert Flower]

Na heedhe I disqualified around 50 or so on that chair, and many more through just a single glance, the results were horrifying, I even tried to bury many strong expectations I had on various areas to no avail, yet they still failed on every measurable criteria badly.

Reer Diaspora wan ka quustey, every chick was keen on a second meeting which I wasn't down for, at one point I felt so bad for doing this that I put a big fat cross next to them, wa wada useless beyond belief.

The plan is to do it back home, even my own friends who recently got married and thought I was crazy before are now advising me the same, I went on a few trips back home and was blown away.

In the diaspora I can't even get past the most important hurdle which is deenta, she comes in with shaped eye brows, the prophet cursed such a person, she comes in cloaked in makeup not a trace of naturalness, there is no Salah, the music is banging in her ears.

Their English is often mixed with heavy slang and getto lingo, there Somali is often totally none existent, their expectations are nothing short of delusional, this is 90% of the Xalimo's in the UK who I know are the worst, but I met Canadians that were no better other then speaking clearer English with better intelligence but religiously just as bad.

The sizeable religious ones with great families that were recommended to me were always obese or fat like our iman's and scholars are, so there was no need to even meet them, it's ironic because our religion preaches against gluttony, obesity and being fat.

I don't even know where to begin.

Ileen, you're the personification of picky.

 

[Inquisitive_]

I don't even know where to begin.

Ileen, you're the personification of picky.

Not at all, this is just doing due diligence something which 99% of the people wishfully ignore. Deenta is the one part I will never compromise on as per hadith of the prophet to pick a women based on her piety, everything else I have thrown away.

The women who Plucks, trims or shaves her eye brows is "cursed" in Islam, that's 90% of the Xaalimo's for you, what kind of a wicked person must I be to entertain a women that was cursed by Allah and his messenger, this is absolute Nifaq on my part and asking for punishment ?

I remember telling an outwardly religious women this to her face assuming she didn't know this, and she just shrugged it off carelessly, she knew about it but simply didn't care, and this is how most women are nowadays, your out of your mind if you call this picky.