Lax walba meesha is digtaa lagu qalaa as the Somali maahmaah goes. A lot of these women are attracted to the type of men who beat them. Nine times out of ten, she will go back to her abuser. Best not to get involved unless it’s a family member.
They usually go back due to prolonged emotional abuse, therefore their self esteem has been shattered.
Lack of finances. Their abuser would usually not let them work or will take their money from them.
Usually, the abuser isolates them, so they're cut off from family and friends.
Or they're usually very fearful. Scarily enough, most women who get murdered by their boyfriend/husband is when they finally leave and then they get stalked and killed.
Its hardly ever a case of them 'wanting' to stay. The abuse starts well before the man even hits them.