How many of you are married and..

[Macalin M]

Definitely saaxiib and I'll raise them to be true geeljires.

The only downside is I’m not sure the kids would look like me at all. The mixed Somalis I see don’t look Somali man. We got Some noodle genes

 

[Mimir]

But the women back home are manlier than the men in the West, how does that work?

They don’t even wear deodorant and probably smell like body odor and suugo.

No successful man ever goes back home to marry!

Again! You're a weirdly funny chick

This post just made my day

 

[Samaalic Era]

The purpose of marriage is not for one to control the other and the other to submit.It's meant to bring peace and tranquility to the heart of the spouses.

If you're only getting married to control your wife,that means that you have some type of slave fetish saaxib.

A man needs to maintain control, doesn't mean abuse or be a dictator. It's the natural fitrah sxb

 

[Mimir]

The only downside is I’m not sure the kids would look like me at all. The mixed Somalis I see don’t look Somali man. We got Some noodle genes

I'll probably marry another Horn African if that's the case but the moment I find a one of a kind ajnabi who isn't a horner.I don't care I'm taking the risk

 

[Mimir]

A man needs to maintain control, doesn't mean abuse or be a dictator. It's the natural fitrah sxb

Know I'm starting to agree with you.
Your other posts though

 

[Luciddreamer]

Ppl who. marry back home want a feminine wife who is family oriented, not a stuck help materialistic woman with no dhaqan

The women back home have less power than the ones in the west,
thats why they are so appealing to you.

Living in the west makes all of us materialistic, its embedded in the culture so chill with the hypocrisy.

At the end of the day, overall in marriage, both the husband and the wife are equals.
The women lets the man lead if he listens and considers her advises and opinions.

 

[Leila]

Looooooooool

Serves him right for talking crap about western halimos.

If my cousin was a nice person I would feel sorry for him but his personality is awful.

 

[Macalin M]

I'll probably marry another Horn African if that's the case but the moment I find a one of a kind ajnabi who isn't a horner.I don't care I'm taking the risk

Man f*ck that bit in bold, if your gonna restrict it to HOA, you may as well marry a Somali chick. No restrictions sxb.

 

[Wiilyam Ina Sheekh Zubeer]

Straight facts.
Anyone who disagrees is either stupid or a liar.

Sweeping generalisations are never close to the truth.
I agree, many men prey on the vulnerability of women back home and lure them with the promise of wealth or legal papers. But what about young guys who have the option of marrying their peers in the diaspora or moving back and finding an equally educated Xalimo for reasons such as that they are closer to our roots, already established in the local community and the fact that many of us see our future in helping our motherland out of the burbur.
Also you could sponsor them to come to the West and further their education and Xalimos can do the same for the educated Faraxs back home. Talk about ways to increase the knowledge capital in the Somali society.
Of course it is preferable to marry someone of the same diaspora background for obvious reasons, all I'm saying is there is nothing more attractive than a woman who is highly conscious of her deen and dhaqan, speaks perfect Somali and can sing to you classic Somali songs without missing a line

*writing this as I'm doing chores and listening to Mandeeq*

 

[TekNiKo]

The women back home have less power than the ones in the west,
thats why they are so appealing to you.

Living in the west makes all of us materialistic, its embedded in the culture so chill with the hypocrisy.

At the end of the day, overall in marriage, both the husband and the wife are equals.
The women lets the man lead if he listens and considers her advises and opinions.

You go ahead and when you are divorced let her rake in all your hard earned cash. We dont care

 

[Mimir]

Man f*ck that bit in bold, if your gonna restrict it to HOA, you may as well marry a Somali chick. No restrictions sxb.

You're right saaxib

Ama go all out!

 

[Samaalic Era]

But the women back home are manlier than the men in the West, how does that work?

They don’t even wear deodorant and probably smell like body odor and suugo.

No successful man ever goes back home to marry!

Xalimos back home out class western xaarlimos in every aspect. You can hate all you want :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Luciddreamer]

You go ahead and when you are divorced let her rake in all your hard earned cash. We dont care

If you treat your wife good and fair and you have your sht together she wont ever leave.

 

[Macalin M]

You're right saaxib

Ama go all out!

Changing Faaraxs views on Mixed race relationships one by one. I’m a Somali supremacists worst nightmare kkkkk

 

[Mimir]

I don't know why these faraxs are fascinated by qaxootis.

 

[Samaalic Era]

If you treat your wife good and fair and you have your sht together she wont ever leave.

Women only respect you so as long as you have control over them. How many good brothers had their lives and finances ruined?

 

[Samaalic Era]

I don't know why these faraxs are fascinated by qaxootis.

The only qaxooti in truth are the western xaarlimos you're chasing, not the ones who live in their homeland

 

[Luciddreamer]

Women only respect you so as long as you have control over them. How many good brothers had their lives and finances ruined?

Then dont choose the wrong woman and make yourself worthy to the right one.

 

[Mimir]

The only qaxooti in truth are the western xaarlimos you're chasing, not the ones who live in their homeland

Not cahsing any types of xalimos saaxib.
@Macalin M has enlightened me.

 

[NotMyL]

Every man needs to control his wife without being abusive. Submissive women over a dhagax headache

Speak for yourself, every man kulaha