How much mehr are you willing to pay?

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

The money goes towards wedding costs, presents for family, charity , deposit on their home, furnishing etc. If they pay no meher then who will cover the costs?

I would just pay for dis tings instead of paying a random amount of cash doe

 

[Rooble44]

Man I be straight I know very few ting about our daqan but I heard from a fellow Somali homie u have to pay ur bride Money
SIKE
Manz not about the payin ting
Which means=0 cent
Love or no marriage

I wouldn't let me daughters state some dumb amount like 10k+ in the current economic climate. Girls can be short sighted and not realize the amount of pressure that kind of Mehr comes with, to the point where she actually may end up getting divorced.

 

[QueenofKings]

The money goes towards wedding costs, presents for family, charity , deposit on their home, furnishing etc. If they pay no meher then who will cover the costs?

Exactly.

But you’d be surprised, I have heard of some sisters who pay for everything. ( I wouldn’t accept 50-50 tbh).

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Exactly.

But you’d be surprised, I have heard of some sisters who pay for everything. ( I wouldn’t accept 50-50 tbh).

I wouldn't pay a single penny. In my opinion if a man can't afford to get married he should remain single.

Even worse I heard about people making their hooyos pay for their weddings.

 

[Xaruun]

The money goes towards wedding costs, presents for family, charity , deposit on their home, furnishing etc. If they pay no meher then who will cover the costs?

Meher gets paid on top of that

 

[Aurelian]

Man I be straight I know very few ting about our daqan but I heard from a fellow Somali homie u have to pay ur bride Money
SIKE
Manz not about the payin ting
Which means=0 cent
Love or no marriage

my degree nothing else

 

[Sloane Ranger]

my degree nothing else

Whats your degree?

 

[Aurelian]

Whats your degree?

I don't have it yet, but I'll have it

 

[Sloane Ranger]

I don't have it yet, but I'll have it

What subject is it in?

 

[Aurelian]

What subject is it in?

computational engineering

 

[Alluring]

If a nigga can't pay mehr, an islamic right. what makes you think he'll be the financial provider?

 

[Sloane Ranger]

If a nigga can't pay mehr, an islamic right. what makes you think he'll be the financial provider?

Some guys are just plain xasid and want to contribute the bare minimum. Which is another redflag who needs a stingy man in their life? Not me .

 

[Alluring]

Some guys are just plain xasid and want to contribute the bare minimum. Which is another redflag who needs a stingy man in their life? Not me .

They go on and on about obedience but they can't even fulfill their Islamic duties? Miss me with that.

 

[bobsburger]

2005 Toyota camry is the limit.

 

[Xaruun]

2005 Toyota camry is the limit.

Second hand right?

 

[bobsburger]

Second hand right?

salvage

 

[Sloane Ranger]

2005 Toyota camry is the limit.

That's approx £3k

 

[Hassan mahat]

None, because I am not marrying a Somali woman.

 

[bobsburger]

That's approx £3k

if you buy at salvage auction damaged its like $1500
the wife can do the repairs herself she is naag nool.

 

[Xaruun]

That's approx £3k

That’s a solid mehr

if you buy at salvage auction damaged its like $1500
the wife can do the repairs herself she is naag nool.

Even better. This guy knows what he’s doing