How To Get Out Of Cooking/Ramadan

She makes him make some juice or make the salad but never actually cook because he doesn’t know how
I make usually like barriis hilib malawax and then fry mandazi/ sambuus then also cleaning as well
Yeah this is not fair. Tell your brother to go clean and learn how to cook. Or your Aabo and Adeer should be helping out. If your siblings are over 10 they can put in some work too. All hands on deck. I’d say everything besides the barriss and hilib are extra food. Don’t waste your time making it. Also, like what I do or what my Parents do is making one big pot of Suugo so it lasts for days. Since you’re in school tell your Hooyo exams are coming up and you need to study. You shouldn’t have to work, cook and clean.
 
Get your brother to help out. What he’s doing right now is weaponised incompetence and unacceptable. It’s much easier if you guys could alternate turns in cooking. Also, I don’t think it would be possible to avoid cooking so just make efficient dishes and meal prep.

I really want to know what Islam thinks about people who use weaponised incompetence. I refuse to believe selfish people collect good deeds. How? When they are not doing actual good deeds with their time.

 
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Yeah this is not fair. Tell your brother to go clean and learn how to cook. Or your Aabo and Adeer should be helping out. If your siblings are over 10 they can put in some work too. All hands on deck. I’d say everything besides the barriss and hilib are extra food. Don’t waste your time making it. Also, like what I do or what my Parents do is making one big pot of Suugo so it lasts for days. Since you’re in school tell your Hooyo exams are coming up and you need to study. You shouldn’t have to work, cook and clean.

It's actually dangerous to be a selfish person in Islam. I am convinced it's actually a sin to be a xaasid. Nothing about Islam is selfish, so I wonder where these people think they are headed.
 
It's actually dangerous to be a selfish person in Islam. I am convinced it's actually a sin to be a xaasid. Nothing about Islam is selfish, so I wonder where these people think they are headed.
They lack empathy and shame. These people think they will go to heaven even with their nasty traits. Idk how you see your own sibling, niece, or daughter struggling and not help out. It’s very shameful.
 
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