How to make friends in real life and on socials ?

it’s all online sadly. In sha allah when it opens up I’ll try but usually it’s just going in class then going home so making freinds at college is pretty impossible for me
Trust me if you can’t make friends in college than you probably will never make friends. College is the easiest place to make friends... it’s almost inevitable. After college is where real the challenge begins. Join Muslim student association or African(Somali) student association. Also join clubs specific to your major or interests. Join study groups. Befriend classmates during class to exchange notes or whatever. After class suggest to go to coffeeshop or the library to study together. If you go to classes and straight home you’ll never make friends or experience college. I miss college, there’s no experience like it...enjoy it!
 
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I only have one friend that I speak to in real life and that’s it :dead: But I noticed on socials like Twitter and Instagram I can never keep mutuals longer then 3 months:mjkkk: the convo just dies or I won’t text people first same with in real life I can never approach people
Lets be friends!
 
Trust me if you can’t make friends in college than you probably will never make friends. College is the easiest place to make friends... it’s almost inevitable. After college is where real the challenge begins. Join Muslim student association or African(Somali) student association. Also join clubs specific to your major or interests. Join study groups. Befriend classmates during class to exchange notes or whatever. After class suggest to go to coffeeshop or the library to study together. If you go to classes and straight home you’ll never make friends or experience college. I miss college, there’s no experience like it...enjoy it!
You can also make friends at work or gym
 
yeah im american, and some coellege and high schools do dual enrollment so I went to both, college in america sucks tho lot of old people
heyyy!! ik this is a late response but!! i'm doing dual enrollment too!!!! im gonna be spending my junior and senior years being a full-time college student while taking some high school pre-reqs and once it's over, i'll get my associates in arts ^__^ here we call it early college bc in order to do it, you have to enroll at the campus and can't go back to ur old hs lol
 
heyyy!! ik this is a late response but!! i'm doing dual enrollment too!!!! im gonna be spending my junior and senior years being a full-time college student while taking some high school pre-reqs and once it's over, i'll get my associates in arts ^__^ here we call it early college bc in order to do it, you have to enroll at the campus and can't go back to ur old hs lol

hey yes I did that as well I was on my campus and it was called early college A lot of people in my graduation graduated with an associates in arts but I decided to just take the classes I needed for my major and classes that interested me. If you can while doing ur AA see what u want to do after high school and get a packet from the college on what classes u need to take for that degree so you’ll have a head start! Good luck
 
hey yes I did that as well I was on my campus and it was called early college A lot of people in my graduation graduated with an associates in arts but I decided to just take the classes I needed for my major and classes that interested me. If you can while doing ur AA see what u want to do after high school and get a packet from the college on what classes u need to take for that degree so you’ll have a head start! Good luck
don't worry, i've already planned out the courses i'll be taking per semester!!! i'm honestly so excited, high school just isn't for me and is way too repetitive. a lot of the kids are very immature and all i want is some peace and quiet T___T tysm for responding btw!! what courses did u take btw?
 
don't worry, i've already planned out the courses i'll be taking per semester!!! i'm honestly so excited, high school just isn't for me and is way too repetitive. a lot of the kids are very immature and all i want is some peace and quiet T___T tysm for responding btw!! what courses did u take btw?
NICE!!!! Good job for planning it out and Np❤️❤️ Yeah they are you’ll feel like an adult but try to enjoy ur youth your only in hs once And I took the generals like English and math psychology, philosophy, medical terminology, microbiology, Spanish, nursing asistant, and others I think but I forgot. Also other healthcare classes. What do u plan on studying after hs
 
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NICE!!!! Good job for planning it out and Np❤❤ Yeah they are you’ll feel like an adult but try to enjoy ur youth your only in hs once And I took the generals like English and math psychology, philosophy, medical terminology, microbiology, Spanish, nursing asistant, and others I think but I forgot. Also other healthcare classes. What do u plan on studying after hs
i don't have any friends irl bc of my really intense depression and social anxiety, so i'd rather benefit from that lack of social interaction then spend it around people who view me as invisible. for my first college semester, i'll be taking english 111 (writing and inquiry), art appreciation, introductory psych, quantitative literacy (pre-stats), and biology 111 !! nursing assistant sounds hella fun btw!! i plan on majoring in psychology and minoring in biology for pre-med because i really want to focus on becoming a psychiatrist : D!!
 

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There are so friendless people in the modern world that remember their names will make them think your their best friends

So sad.

Also, your somali you have tons of childhood friends that you have not spoken the in years. Start message them and ask in you can have a video chat. Plus, your female. There are far more girls that love to talk then are guys

You have the best excuse today, since there was a whole pandemic and want to know how they are doing

All I do it talk to everyone

You'll definitely going to make friends. People love Socializing. It's in are nature

Give yourself the opportunity to make friends
 
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i don't have any friends irl bc of my really intense depression and social anxiety, so i'd rather benefit from that lack of social interaction then spend it around people who view me as invisible. for my first college semester, i'll be taking english 111 (writing and inquiry), art appreciation, introductory psych, quantitative literacy (pre-stats), and biology 111 !! nursing assistant sounds hella fun btw!! i plan on majoring in psychology and minoring in biology for pre-med because i really want to focus on becoming a psychiatrist : D!!
i dont wanna be that guy but u probably wanna look into ur depression ur too young to be suffering from that
 
i dont wanna be that guy but u probably wanna look into ur depression ur too young to be suffering from that
idk if you've seen my other posts on here but i've been in and out of psychiatric units for my self-harm and suicidal ideation for a while now ^ ^" i've been put on 3 different SSRI anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds but unfortunately for me, they don't work, it's like my brain wants me to die LOL
 
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