Hypocrisy of some xalimos.

[Sophisticate]

The entire concept of mehr is the antithesis to everything marriage should stands for, girls in the west are more interested in the short term satisfation of knowing her mehr was 20k or 50k when her relative x was much lower and It become a mechanism for showing off her perceived worth in society not a long term contract and if you take the statistics regarding the average length of marriages in the west including muslims (very short) and couple it with the stupid idea of mehr it begins to look more like prostitution sanctioned religiously.

There is nothing wrong with mehr. If a woman thinks that is an indication of her merit or value, relative to her peers then she isn't worth the hefty price tag. Boostfulness isn't a good look. Life is not a pissing contest. There's a correlation between extravagant weddings and lower marriage survival rates, compared to modest celebrations. I think a low entrance fee into marriage is equally quite troubling. It provides an easy opt-out like those temporary "pleasure marriages." Next thing you know it, the streets are calling you Elizabeth Taylor.

 

[Old somalia]

How are you going to ask 50k Mehr, a stylish, educated, Muslim guy who's handsome, when you're at the shisha bar everynight, and you don't know what NO means when it comes to guys, you're known as the revolving door but have the audacity to sit there with a straight face and say he has to have a degree. How are you going to demand all of that when you're not even half a quarter of what you want.

How sis? How?

Go to a shisha bar or go to the mosque be a hoe or good muslimah no one should pay 50k or 2k as your meher? What are you? A Lamborghini? The man you're going to marry is probably the same age as you, and earns the same amount of money you get or less where do you think he will get all that money from? If you want to make that amount of money work for it, mesha ma ganacsi baa mise wa aroos! Fucking s

 

[Xooshdheere]

I always expect from my spouse what I will also give. If I suddenly lose my virginity I'll make sure to only seek non-virgin spouses.

'suddenly lose my virginity'

 

[YoungFarah]

Go to a shisha bar or go to the mosque be a hoe or good muslimah no one should pay 50k or 2k as your meher? What are you? A Lamborghini? The man you're going to marry is probably the same age as you, and earns the same amount of money you get or less where do you think he will get all that money from? If you want to make that amount of money work for it, mesha ma ganacsi baa mise wa aroos! Fucking s

I wholeheartedly agree with you but it's dhaqan. It makes sense in Somalia where a young man pays his xoolo as mehr as he has more wealth than the woman whereas in the west men and women make around the same (other than the wage gap don't attack me you feminazis nacalaa). So asking for 50k is an admission that you aren't worth shit when in fact you both make the same amount of you have a similar career. But Mehr is still necessary because if dhaqan.

 

[YoungFarah]

'suddenly lose my virginity'

 

[Genos]

I understand mehr is Islamic and something you have to do. But it's doesn't sit right with me, I don't think I'll be paying a mehr in the future. It doesn't make sense in this day and age

 

[Yonis]

I understand mehr is Islamic and something you have to do. But it's doesn't sit right with me, I don't think I'll be paying a mehr in the future. It doesn't make sense in this day and age

Exactly.

Virtue, love, mutual respect, sincerity > Mehr price shes happy with

 

[Sophisticate]

Brothers what is the incentive for her to marry?

 

[YoungFarah]

Exactly.

Virtue, love, mutual respect, sincerity > Mehr price shes happy with

I agree but it's dhaqan. If you want a Somali chick you need Mehr unless she's a standout.

 

[YoungFarah]

Brothers what is the incentive for her to marry?

Love what else? If the incentive is money then she equates herself to goods and objectifies herself. But I guess it's necessary.

 

[Yonis]

Brothers what is the incentive for her to marry?

Marriage is not about incentives, its much deeper than that.

 

[Yonis]

Brothers what is the incentive for her to marry?

You're beginning to sound like a hooker yourself.

Kulahaa incentives, do you want me to wave my paycheck around to attract the xaliimos

 

[Sophisticate]

@YoungFarah @Yonis

Whatever will I do with my caramel complexion and soft hair?

I will have to use another plan of attack to find a sponsor. I didn't anticipate you lot were romantic and stingy.

 

[Yonis]

I agree but it's dhaqan. If you want a Somali chick you need Mehr unless she's a standout.

Really

You really tellin me you're new

 

[YoungFarah]

If you had caramel skin and soft hair you wouldn't be manless at 26 years old. If you are then we can only conclude that you're extremely fat

Really

You really tellin me you're new

I'm confused. Don't know what you're talking about.

 

[Genos]

Brothers what is the incentive for her to marry?

You're somebody she wants to spend the rest of her life with....that's her incentive. Not a fucking down payment

 

[Sophisticate]

If you had caramel skin and soft hair you wouldn't be manless at 26 years old. If you are then we can only conclude that you're extremely fat

Really

You really tellin me you're new

Did it occur to you that maybe, just maybe I'm loco?

 

[Sophisticate]

You're somebody she wants to spend the rest of her life with....that's her incentive. Not a fucking down payment

Slip us a deposit. And we will work out a payment plan.

 

[MadNomad]

 

[Malcolm X]

Serious question, have anybody actually turned down Mehr price by a woman? What happens after?


I might be a simple person but I can't imagine a woman who's in love with the other and then deliberately sabotaging possible marriage by being too greedy

Plz somebody tell me I'm not naive