I can’t wait to move out

[ditto]

If your saving up to leave I can send some money.

No it’s ok I have money saved up and also a job. Jazakallah khair sis

May all go well with you moving out inshallah. You don't deserve such a situation, no one does. I hope university is a time for you to truly start your life. Please stay safe until then.

Ameen and thanks

 

[Rayaale]

10 years later, why doesn’t my daughter call me, sometimes Somali parents shoot themselves in the foot they are too stubborn

 

[Taintedlove]

Why do our people always try and do Dhaqan cellis at the worst possible time and then act all shocked when it ruins lives

So many somali kids I know got sent to dhaqan celis. Lots don't have any formal qualifications in mind and doing it for religious purposes. Our people lack long-term thinking. They think because they're old and can retire in Somaliland they can just take their kids with them.

 

[Taintedlove]

10 years later, why doesn’t my daughter call me, sometimes Somali parents shoot themselves in the foot they are too stubborn

Nah no matter how abusive somali parents are, there are always people visiting them. Probably due to ceeb in our culture when it comes to parents. And that's why they never change

 

[Aggravated_Quful]

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[Taintedlove]

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Everything you listed is and obligation for parents. If they didn't, CPS would've taken your kids away. and people like you are why these parents think they can get away this. Making up sob stories like beating your child is in anyway justified. It's forbidden to cause harm to your child.

Most aren't in somalia. We have rights aren't obligated to experience abuse at the cost of our own lives just because they carried out their legal duties.

Not to say I'm not grateful for my parent's sacrifices. But sacrificing doesn't mean you get to eternally guilt trip your child into accepting abuse.

 

[Moon-]

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Bare minimum if you decide to bring a life into this world your obligated to feed/take care of they didn’t ask to be here

 

[Aggravated_Quful]

Everything you listed is and obligation for parents. If they didn't, CPS would've taken your kids away. and people like you are why these parents think they can get away this. Making up sob stories like beating your child is in anyway justified. It's forbidden to cause harm to your child.

Most aren't in somalia. We have rights aren't obligated to experience abuse at the cost of our own lives just because they carried out their legal duties.

Not to say I'm not grateful for my parent's sacrifices. But sacrificing doesn't mean you get to eternally guilt trip your child into accepting abuse.

Bare minimum if you decide to bring a life into this world your obligated to feed/take care of they didn’t ask to be here

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This is anonymous we don’t know her mum she’s just sharing her experiences and none of us here are insulting her

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

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You remind me of a Russel Peters skit about parents beating their kids.

Somebody is gotta get a hurt real bad!

 

[Nur_]

So many somali kids I know got sent to dhaqan celis. Lots don't have any formal qualifications in mind and doing it for religious purposes. Our people lack long-term thinking. They think because they're old and can retire in Somaliland they can just take their kids with them.

Yes I know two and their lives are in smallest. Not that I'm much better but I cannot believe their parents did that to them and now question why they're having such a hard time.

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