i feel bad for wanting to break up with this one half somali/yemeni girl should i continue?

[gbrlax3]

Surely this can’t be a serious thread lol

i wish it wasn't wallah

 

[BobSmoke]

my first post of 2021 and it already bad: anywho long story short were both 19 she will be 21 days later. and she observes hijab allhamdullilah is the type of girl that would die for her man type of sh.t and we both said we agree on marriage. anyway long story short, due to my heavy extreme addiction from a younger age. I'm only interested in marrying star looking women astagfrillah. i thought i felt in love with this girl within 15 minutes of knowing her, but then 30 days later i relapsed and masturbated and now have lost all interest in her? should i continue with her and try to fix the issue it instead of leaving?

My nigga, I'm gonna keep it 1000 with you. I'm gonna go deep so bear with me.

Don't be a fool and quit abusing yourself physically and mentally.
Understand that is mashing up your brain and your view of life and the world.

A good woman is a great asset in a man's life. You're not being a simp by being honorable to her, you will see your life improve quicker when you have a good woman that'll be by your side and will follow you if you come with good guidance.

Work on developing yourself. Address whatever issues you have, whether if it's emotional, mental or physical.
Work on becoming a better communicator. Watch videos where people are preaching common sense, work on eating better, work on becoming braver by doing martial arts to challenge yourself and building confidence.

Set boundaries with people. A lot of our problems comes from not telling people to mind their fucking business. We Somalis have a big problem with talking too much about our problems to friends and family. We ask and share shit that has nothing to do with anything. It's calm when you're anon but It's different in real life. Just watch Love Dorsey 20+ minutes rants on Instagram. That woman will spit some of the realest shit you've heard. If you feel butthurt from what she says, that's good. It means there's something to work on

Be your own father. With good information and patience, you can elevate yourself.

Your problem is only a symptom to something deeper that you havent addressed.

This is some real shit I wished somebody would've told me when I was younger but everybody around me were just as lost if not more lost than me. So don't take any offense or assume I'm tryna act all preachy. I'm telling you this from a genuine place.

I'm still under construction with unlearning the miseducation from my environment.
I'm still not the nigga who I wanna become, I'm on my way.

See yourself as a man with tremendous potential and don't listen or tell anything to people who wanna misguide you with that "real"plated fake shit

 

[Sumaaya]

My nigga, I'm gonna keep it 1000 with you. I'm gonna go deep so bear with me.

Don't be a fool and quit abusing yourself physically and mentally.
Understand that is mashing up your brain and your view of life and the world.

A good woman is a great asset in a man's life. You're not being a simp by being honorable to her, you will see your life improve quicker when you have a good woman that'll be by your side and will follow you if you come with good guidance.

Work on developing yourself. Address whatever issues you have, whether if it's emotional, mental or physical.
Work on becoming a better communicator. Watch videos where people are preaching common sense, work on eating better, work on becoming braver by doing martial arts to challenge yourself and building confidence.

Set boundaries with people. A lot of our problems comes from not telling people to mind their fucking business. We Somalis have a big problem with talking too much about our problems to friends and family. We ask and share shit that has nothing to do with anything. It's calm when you're anon but It's different in real life. Just watch Love Dorsey 20+ minutes rants on Instagram. That woman will spit some of the realest shit you've heard. If you feel butthurt from what she says, that's good. It means there's something to work on

Be your own father. With good information and patience, you can elevate yourself.

Your problem is only a symptom to something deeper that you havent addressed.

This is some real shit I wished somebody would've told me when I was younger but everybody around me were just as lost if not more lost than me. So don't take any offense or assume I'm tryna act all preachy. I'm telling you this from a genuine place.

I'm still under construction with unlearning the miseducation from my environment.
I'm still not the nigga who I wanna become, I'm on my way.

See yourself as a man with tremendous potential and don't listen or tell anything to people who wanna misguide you with that "real"plated fake shit

I wish I could heart this comment a thousand times

 

[gbrlax3]

My nigga, I'm gonna keep it 1000 with you. I'm gonna go deep so bear with me.

Don't be a fool and quit abusing yourself physically and mentally.
Understand that is mashing up your brain and your view of life and the world.

A good woman is a great asset in a man's life. You're not being a simp by being honorable to her, you will see your life improve quicker when you have a good woman that'll be by your side and will follow you if you come with good guidance.

Work on developing yourself. Address whatever issues you have, whether if it's emotional, mental or physical.
Work on becoming a better communicator. Watch videos where people are preaching common sense, work on eating better, work on becoming braver by doing martial arts to challenge yourself and building confidence.

Set boundaries with people. A lot of our problems comes from not telling people to mind their fucking business. We Somalis have a big problem with talking too much about our problems to friends and family. We ask and share shit that has nothing to do with anything. It's calm when you're anon but It's different in real life. Just watch Love Dorsey 20+ minutes rants on Instagram. That woman will spit some of the realest shit you've heard. If you feel butthurt from what she says, that's good. It means there's something to work on

Be your own father. With good information and patience, you can elevate yourself.

Your problem is only a symptom to something deeper that you havent addressed.

This is some real shit I wished somebody would've told me when I was younger but everybody around me were just as lost if not more lost than me. So don't take any offense or assume I'm tryna act all preachy. I'm telling you this from a genuine place.

I'm still under construction with unlearning the miseducation from my environment.
I'm still not the nigga who I wanna become, I'm on my way.

See yourself as a man with tremendous potential and don't listen or tell anything to people who wanna misguide you with that "real"plated fake shit

i get you bro. but I'm a natural simp lol

 

[Abu Hesi]

@gbrlax3, listen to @BobSmoke please.

 

[gbrlax3]

@gbrlax3, listen to @BobSmoke please.

i should but i dont wanna become something I'm not. I'm not a player type neither bad boy. yet women love me smehow lol also I'm not that attractive either or rich

 

[BobSmoke]

i get you bro. but I'm a natural simp lol

I was a simp too my g. That shit can be cured by applying real nigga shit in your psyche.
More power and luck to you inshaAllah

i should but i dont wanna become something I'm not. I'm not a player type neither bad boy. yet women love me smehow lol also I'm not that attractive either or rich

You don't have to be a bad boy or a player to be a real nigga.

Women like a guy who's solid. Being solid begins in your mind and how you talk to yourself and how you talk to people.
You don't have to be rude to get respect from women. You just have to cultivate the characteristics and the vibe that women you want can respect.
Women will be feminine around a man who's guidance and mindset they can look up to and follow.
Any woman that's not willing to follow, you let them go.
The key is to learn to identify a good woman that is good for your cause

 

[dr.leorio]

Not watching , not smoking weed or drinking is now a superpower. The reason why men are so meek and pathetic these days is because they have zero spinal fluid, literally and figuratively. If you empty your family jewels outside of Halal intercourse, you are literallly draining your life force energy away. Did you know it takes 80-90 days for new spermatozoa cells to be made from your bone marrow? And everytime you bust a nut, thats 8 meals worth of protein? Do you men not understand how much you are limiting yourself when you do this heinous act?

Thats why when I walk down the street people are intimidated and they should be. You men need to be WarGreymon not Koromon/Agumon. 10 extra points if you understand the digimon reference

 

[halwa]

Lagu sii qaadyey. Ku dhimo addictionkaada

 

[Abu Hesi]

Not watching , not smoking weed or drinking is now a superpower. The reason why men are so meek and pathetic these days is because they have zero spinal fluid, literally and figuratively. If you empty your family jewels outside of Halal intercourse, you are literallly draining your life force energy away. Did you know it takes 80-90 days for new spermatozoa cells to be made from your bone marrow? And everytime you bust a nut, thats 8 meals worth of protein? Do you men not understand how much you are limiting yourself when you do this heinous act?

Thats why when I walk down the street people are intimidated and they should be. You men need to be WarGreymon not Koromon/Agumon. 10 extra points if you understand the digimon reference

Benefiting from nofap superpowers eh?

 

[BobSmoke]

Not watching , not smoking weed or drinking is now a superpower. The reason why men are so meek and pathetic these days is because they have zero spinal fluid, literally and figuratively. If you empty your family jewels outside of Halal intercourse, you are literallly draining your life force energy away. Did you know it takes 80-90 days for new spermatozoa cells to be made from your bone marrow? And everytime you bust a nut, thats 8 meals worth of protein? Do you men not understand how much you are limiting yourself when you do this heinous act?

Thats why when I walk down the street people are intimidated and they should be. You men need to be WarGreymon not Koromon/Agumon. 10 extra points if you understand the digimon reference

Straight up.

Sxb, pass me those points. Fucking hell, you revived a part of my childhood that I thought I have forgotten

 

[Mercury]

you shouldnt feel bad about breaking up with her you need to focus on dealing with this addiction before you start thinking about marriage

 

[Angelina]

This is a perfect example as to how men end up messing a woman's life up.

 

[Regg]

You really should have saved it for her. Imagine how satisfied she will be in her first night if you had pool of mayo sitting in there.

Next time, think about how you need to save it before thinking about marriage because she won’t be satisfied with thin and tiny drips.

Also, think about how she can do the job quickly to save you from committing a sin so when you think of , you go to her straight to relieve you from all of it asap. Rinse, rise and repeat...

It will give you a peace of mind forever.

 

[Boogie]

If she is a dime keep her its worth it and stop watching please bro go workout instead