All I’m getting from this is that ur an attention seeker and that’s kinda gay. This isn’t the flex u thought it was imma be honestReal niggas don’t have to play games like that
Kinda khaniis kulaha. Bismillah. I will make tawbah. AUN to Shimbiris.
All I’m getting from this is that ur an attention seeker and that’s kinda gay. This isn’t the flex u thought it was imma be honestReal niggas don’t have to play games like that
No because no offense? It kind of is. Either 1) you are seeking validation by enticing women just to reject them (low self confidence and you are seeking external validation to compensate)Kinda khaniis kulaha. Bismillah. I will make tawbah. AUN to Shimbiris.
No because no offense? It kind of is?? Either 1) you are seeking validation by enticing women just to reject them (low self confidence) or 2) you are trying to impress other men by playing women… Regardless it’s not a good look or a healthy behaviour to have at all, it’s not natural
Now did I ask about any of that? Again with the overcompensatingOkay, kiddo. Chill the f*ck out. It's not as deep as you're making it out to be. I'm at a good height, lean with some muscle on me and tend to be friendly and make friends, men or women, quite easily. It tends to, without me wanting it to happen, attract some attention from the opposite sex and 99% of the time I have no interest in starting anything with any of them but I flirt back just for fun with the ones I can tell it doesn't hurt cos some pretty amusing stories tend to come out of it. Life is short, I get giggles where I can get them. If one seems soft and genuinely quite into Shimbiris I don't reciprocate and just let them give up. I do not like hurting people.
Now did I ask about any of that? Again with the overcompensating
I always knew I was good at reading ppl but u making this too easyU can deny it all u want but it doesn’t change the truth, matter of fact you just proved my point
I didn’t say that, you did. I never even used the word hurt. Freudian slip much?How am I overcompensating? You randomly came at me and said I like to hurt women who like me and I simply said that I don't like to do that... are you okay?
I didn’t say that, you did, Freudian slip much?
Now did I ask about any of that? Again with the overcompensating
I always knew I was good at reading ppl but u making this too easyU can deny it all u want but it doesn’t change the truth, matter of fact you just proved my point
You said I accused you of “liking to hurt women” even though I never used the word hurt at all that’s what I was referring to, i even bolded itWhat?
You said I accused you of “liking to hurt women” even though I never used the word hurt at all that’s what I was referring to, i even bolded it
I’ll keep y’all postedYou used the words "playing" and "rejecting" which may as well be synonymous with hurting someone... but nevermind. Have fun weirdly flirting with some random fellow for some reason. Just say something to nigga... sheesh. Clearly likes you.
I’ll keep y’all posted
Nah I’ve been wanting to talk to him but it was hard catching a good time cuz the store only has one employee at a time, some days he wouldn’t be working and the times I’d see him sometime there would be another customer asking questions etc… anyways next time I see him I’m 100% making a move cuz it’s without a doubt he’s into me now I got nothing to worry about, I just have to go back to said city where he’s atWhy not just say something? What about him makes you sure you'd never marry him? Is it cos he's TJ?
Nah I’ve been wanting to talk to him but it was hard catching a good time cuz the store only has one employee at a time, some days he wouldn’t be working and the times I’d see him sometime there would be another customer asking questions etc… anyways next time I see him I’m 100% making a move cuz it’s without a doubt he’s into me now I got nothing to worry about, I just have to go back to said city where he’s at
Thank you for the advice I appreciate it honestly my plan was basically exactly along the lines of what ur saying i lowkey just wanna walk in the store and browse because with the way he’s acting I bet I don’t even gotta lift a finger I’ve already had more than a few timojileecs wild at me WHILE ON THE JOBB as well so i wouldn’t be surprised at all if my toy shop king does the same… Ugh I just need to find a chance and btw I gotta stop by by myself that’s when all the craziness always happens.Start slow. If it's a place you'll be at regularly and you have time just start with a smile and saying goodnight or hi and bye when you walk over and slowly try to make more and more eye contact. A few times of that and just steer up a conversation over whatever hits your brain at the time in the store. Hell, just ramble about some shit like how you're having bad day (loool). Suss out his vibes and just ask a few questions at a time like if he grew up around there, where he studies (I assume you guys are young) and so forth. At some point an opportunity to bring up joining you and some of your friends for some hangout or something can come up in the mix of that.
Or honestly go for your plan to just be forward. Some men appreciate it when a girl is straight up like that. Some find it off-putting, though. But if he genuinely is crushing on you too he'll like it regardless.
Thank you for the advice I appreciate it honestly my plan was basically exactly along the lines of what ur saying i lowkey just wanna walk in the store and browse because with the way he’s acting I bet I don’t even gotta lift a finger I’ve already had more than a few timojileecs wild at me WHILE ON THE JOBB as well so i wouldn’t be surprised at all if my toy shop king does the same… Ugh I just need to find a chance and btw I gotta stop by by myself that’s when all the craziness always happens.
I will keep yall posted because I promise yall this story is just beginning I have no doubt in my mind things will get crazy quite quickly ….