I have started to notice something very strange

[QabiilNobel]

In the past couple of months, I have met at least two odays who did not ask my Qabiil during our conversation. I found it strange but also upon talking to them, I have noticed that they also like to talk about general Somali well-being as a whole with no barriers.

This is very rare; where I am from, as the first thing an Oday would ask you is “Yaa Tahay” then instantly conjure up your whole life story.

In my opinion I think this is excellent and I have personally stopped identifying my qabiil years ago as a kid.

times are changing.

 

[Hassan mahat]

In the past couple of months, I have met at least two odays who did not ask my Qabiil during our conversation. I found it strange but also upon talking to them, I have noticed that they also like to talk about general Somali well-being as a whole with no barriers.

This is very rare; where I am from, as the first thing an Oday would ask you is “Yaa Tahay” then instantly conjure up your whole life story.

In my opinion I think this is excellent and I have personally stopped identifying my qabiil years ago as a kid.

times are changing.

This Is the correct direction. This ignorance of qabiil should die. Tribalism is cancerous. I remember a father refusing his daughter to a Somali man who was of minor tribe, but had no problem giving his blessings when she married a Pakistani.

 

[QabiilNobel]

This Is the correct direction. This ignorance of qabiil should die. Tribalism is cancerous. I remember a father refusing his daughter to a Somali man who was of minor tribe, but had no problem giving his blessings when she married a Pakistani.

I would double slap that oday. Kulaha marry ajanabi and deny your own. Self hatred is rife I am afraid.

 

[Desert Flower]

This Is the correct direction. This ignorance of qabiil should die. Tribalism is cancerous. I remember a father refusing his daughter to a Somali man who was of minor tribe, but had no problem giving his blessings when she married a Pakistani.

Most likely because she brought him after he rejected the Somali guy. Wa ceeb if he rejects a second time apparently.

 

[Desert Flower]

In the past couple of months, I have met at least two odays who did not ask my Qabiil during our conversation. I found it strange but also upon talking to them, I have noticed that they also like to talk about general Somali well-being as a whole with no barriers.

This is very rare; where I am from, as the first thing an Oday would ask you is “Yaa Tahay” then instantly conjure up your whole life story.

In my opinion I think this is excellent and I have personally stopped identifying my qabiil years ago as a kid.

times are changing.

Where do you live? Those odeyal are ilbaax. Most likely highly educated and came before the war.

 

[Revolutionary]

Sounds good, I've never talked to an old somali aside from my grandparents

 

[Hassan mahat]

Most likely because she brought him after he rejected the Somali guy. Wa ceeb if he rejects a second time apparently.

What sort of logic is that? Lol

 

[Hali]

Most likely because she brought him after he rejected the Somali guy. Wa ceeb if he rejects a second time apparently.

Huh
My dad has no problem rejecting the fifth guy

 

[Desert Flower]

What sort of logic is that? Lol

You'd be surprised. It makes no sense but it happens. I guess they figure if they turn down the ajanabi, she'll just bring another one, so might as well agree.

 

[Hassan mahat]

Huh
My dad has no problem rejecting the fifth guy

What does you dad look for a a suitable man? If you don’t me asking.

 

[QabiilNobel]

Where do you live? Those odeyal are ilbaax. Most likely highly educated and came before the war.

One was undoubtedly highly educated as he retired from working at Accenture and was an engineer. Don’t know about the other.

 

[Hassan mahat]

You'd be surprised. It makes no sense but it happens. I guess they figure if they turn down the ajanabi, she'll just bring another one, so might as well agree.

If that is the case, she can just claim the Somali man is Ajnabi , change his name to Abdus samaratus Or something.

 

[Hali]

What does you dad look for a a suitable man? If you don’t me asking.

Somali with some form of Somali daqan aswell
Someone he can respect
Practicing or from a practicing family
Responsible
He was a bit tribal before but he’s become more lenient of late

 

[Hassan mahat]

Somali with some form of Somali daqan aswell
Someone he can respect
Practicing or from a practicing family
Responsible
He was a bit tribal before but he’s become more lenient of late

Does he prefer only your tribe, or does he just not allow certain tribes?

 

[Hali]

Does he prefer only your tribe, or does he just not allow certain tribes?

He lives in Somalia
So he wants someone there’s no active warfare between

 

[Royalflush]

Wadanis are rare but still the majority is on qabiil bs

 

[Bronco]

Huh
My dad has no problem rejecting the fifth guy

5??? At this point you need to open with that and let niggas do their own risk-reward analysis

 

[Hali]

5??? At this point you need to open with that and let niggas do their own risk-reward analysis

It’s not me
I don’t bring guys to my dad I know he’s gonna say no to
It’s my sister she ain’t learnt yet

 

[repo]

Recently I've been running into old uncles who work in high tech fields, it's been throwing me for a loop. Something is wrong with 2020.

 

[Bronco]

It’s not me
I don’t bring guys to my dad I know he’s gonna say no to
It’s my sister she ain’t learnt yet

No lies, is it a qabiil, ethnic or just a broke thing?

Or is she bringing them along like bassetts liquorice allsorts

Either way, y'all got the same abo - that needs to go on your resume sxb.