I Hope Her Husband Leaves Her After Saying This

[World]

Lol they actually don’t study men. The average young woman has a romanticized view of men and it’s one of the reasons why in Islam women needs Walis. If women don’t make this mistake women wouldn’t need a father to sus a man out lol.

One of the reasons some men dislike older women is due to the fact that the older you become, the more savvy you are to human nature including men. They’re less gullible and less likely to be lied to.

Interestingly enough, Islamic law in a sense that divorced women and even in the Maliki fiqh older virgin women don’t have as much wali restrictions when finding a partner compared to a young virgin due to being more competent.

Men dislike older women who have been around the block, because they are jaded out from all of their past experiences and have lost their innocent, feminine, positive nature. Women who are older but still chaste, are not different to younger girls.

 

[Angelina]

Men dislike older women who have been around the block, because they are jaded out from all of their past experiences and have lost their innocent, feminine, positive nature. Women who are older but still chaste, are not different to younger girls.

I’m Muslim and Somali. I’m clearly talking about older girls who are chaste and Muslim. Gaals aren’t my concern.

Also, yes the older you become the more you’re able to sense B.S. I got married in my late 20s and when getting to know people I was able to sense B.S a mile away compared to my late teens and early 20s. Many young people are naive and Gullible same for men tbh and the older you become the more smarter. Thats what I meant. People’s brains are fully developed by 25 and tbh it’s nonsense for you to say that a young girl is the same mentally as an older woman. You a man aren’t the same as when you were 18 so I’m at a loss as to why you’d think it won’t be the same for women.

As for innocent postive nature, everyone should be positive but it’s a dog eat dog world and women should know this. Only a man with bad intentions would want a woman to be completely overly trusting. Girls with dads in their lives know this, your abo would the first man to warn you.

 

[World]

I’m Muslim and Somali. I’m clearly talking about older girls who are chaste and Muslim. Gaals aren’t my concern.

Also, yes the older you become the more you’re able to sense B.S. I got married in my late 20s and when getting to know people I was able to sense B.S a mile away compared to my late teens and early 20s. Many young people are naive and Gullible same for men tbh and the older you become the more smarter. Thats what I meant. People’s brains are fully developed by 25 and tbh it’s nonsense for you to say that a young girl is the same mentally as an older woman. You a man aren’t the same as when you were 18 so I’m at a loss as to why you’d think it won’t be the same for women.

As for innocent postive nature, everyone should be positive but it’s a dog eat dog world and women should know this. Only a man with bad intentions would want a woman to be completely overly trusting. Girls with dads in their lives know this, your abo would the first man to warn you.

My experience has been that women above 25 usually have some experience or baggage to be honest, just being Muslim doesn’t mean they are chaste. And it’s not just women, but Muslim men as well. The Muslim community in general. They’ve been in love before, had a boyfriend, had their heart broken etc.

I do want a girl who is overtly trusting, but I would also want her to be surrounded by family that protects her and makes sure that I’m the right guy for their daughter.

 

[World]

Also, yes the older you become the more you’re able to sense B.S. I got married in my late 20s and when getting to know people I was able to sense B.S a mile away compared to my late teens and early 20s. Many young people are naive and Gullible same for men tbh and the older you become the more smarter. Thats what I meant. People’s brains are fully developed by 25 and tbh it’s nonsense for you to say that a young girl is the same mentally as an older woman. You a man aren’t the same as when you were 18 so I’m at a loss as to why you’d think it won’t be the same for women.

Doesn’t matter if you are 18 or 25, if you have the same experience level then you will feel the same emotions as each other. You will get attached even more perhaps if you are older and been chaste because youve been alone for longer, you will value a good man or woman.

 

[Angelina]

Doesn’t matter if you are 18 or 25, if you have the same experience level then you will feel the same emotions as each other. You will get attached even more perhaps if you are older and been chaste because youve been alone for longer, you will value a good man or woman.

The older you become the more things you see in other people’s lives and marriages and you learn from that. Alhamdulliah I’ve always been chaste and never had a haram relationship but before marriage I’ve had failed courtships and even engagement and I’ve learnt from that so it isn’t about being in a haram relationship or even getting your heart broken since I’ve never had my heart broken since I wasn’t emotionally invested since the talking was purely halal. The thing is, the older you become you become wiser in every aspect. Finances, relationships, work ect and you learn to sus people out more both male and females. Peoples brains fully develop by 25 and you simply make better decisions.

Example, the type of dumb nonsense an 18 yr old would let slide isn’t the same as a 25 yr old. Example an 18 yr old girl might not care about a man’s background or work since she thinks he’s good looking and nice. At 25 your standards are more sharper ect. I can image it’s the same for men.

 

[NordicSomali]

Find a ghetto girl and you have ghetto behavior.