I feel so sad for you, I can't ever live with myself with what you went thru by hugging him not knowing he was gay, you should see some therapist, try to avoid any sweet tea or honey for 2weeks (gays love sweets) you can substitute it for cold coffee instead. Good luck walaal, and if you have to take him to court don't hesitate it. Don't blame urself brother, ur the victim here ok?i thought he was a young man from our community who i thought followed the deen I saw him praying many times but I saw a feminine white man go into his flat and they gave each other a hug before he went in, you can only hug fellow muslim men, he cant be a disbeliever but he is a gay which is just as worse, subhanallah do I avoid him and tell him we cannot talk to each other anymore?????? i feel very uncomfortable i gave him a brotherly hug so many times and now i feel sickened, he himself is also kind of feminine and soft spoken,