I want a Somali surrogate mother!

[TheMadMullah]

If you are desperate for children why don't you get married or adopt a child back home.No somali woman would agree to become a surrogate mother regardless of how much you pay them.

The Idea of marriage is what am not interested in besides if i was desperate then i would have already been in india i guess. If somali women can get pregnant out of wedlock for free then i dont see Why they can't get pregnant for money huuno

 

[Kia12]

The other day you were talking about being shunned and not wanted back in somali community because of your "I Loved Cadaan men" and now you are pimping yourself for one years worth of entry level job salary!

subxaanaka yaa cadiim! you need a dose of self esteem yarey

IDK so long as I'm getting this

I will rent out my womb

 

[madamelioness]

Interesting that you mentioned that! Do you know that somalis were giving up there children in the 60's,70's and 80's a time when Somalia was at its peak to the italians? And are you awake if the fact that many somalis in the west have given up their children only to be adopted by cadaans? I personally know a guy that is 26 and was adopted by white family at the age of 1 and his mother is alive to date

So that's your reasoning? They did it once so why not now? If that's the case, why are you having so much difficulty finding a willing participant?

I know a woman would not give her child away unless she's experiencing financial, emotional or mental strain. But of course, there are the few who are only interested in the financial incentive which is why I find commercial surrogacy abhorrent but I'm in favour of altruistic surrogacy.

Majority of the Somalis in the West had their children taken away, they did not give them up willingly. The very few that did have their own reasons and personal circumstances.

 

[lone]

You can always try the crack heads. Just maybe, it will work.

 

[TheMadMullah]

You can always try the crack heads. Just maybe, it will work.

I want a child with healthy background.. i will not even accept feminist and BLM activist surrogate leave alone a crackhead

 

[TheMadMullah]

So that's your reasoning? They did it once so why not now? If that's the case, why are you having so much difficulty finding a willing participant?

I know a woman would not give her child away unless she's experiencing financial, emotional or mental strain. But of course, there are the few who are only interested in the financial incentive which is why I find commercial surrogacy abhorrent but I'm in favour of altruistic surrogacy.

Majority of the Somalis in the West had their children taken away, they did not give them up willingly. The very few that did have their own reasons and personal circumstances.

Who Said im having difficulty its just that im not ready for that role now and still in plans to save money for the process.

Im sure despite being a surrogate child of mine he/she live a decent life than millions of somali kids out there.

 

[El padrone]

IDK so long as I'm getting this

I will rent out my womb

saul goodman! But if you have financial problem, you could just turn into "gabdhaha shaqeeya" aka harridan woman and make close to 100k working 24/7 365.
:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[TooMacaan]

That is exactly Why a pre-signed contract is needed to avoid any emotional attachment and no affections at all between me and the surrogate nor between her and the child(ren).

The genes dont matter traditionally speaking the child follows the dads side so people will say ina habel at the end of the day.

Yes, but I'm saying that pre-signed contracts don't always hold up in court...hence "not foolproof". The emotional attachment part is not always a matter of choice-- sometimes it's an involuntary hormonal thing. Every experience is different, of course, but women will usually develop a very strong emotional bond (both during the gestation process and by the act of giving birth itself).

And yea, keeping it professional with the surrogate is important...but that still doesn't solve the issue of how you'll assess whether she's the ideal person to carry your future child for 9 months? How long are you gonna get to know this person before you trust her with such a huge responsibility?? As for the gene thing, I wasn't speaking of heritage/culture that the child will inherit, but rather about the genetic profile (biologically speaking) of the egg donor. [An egg donor with a good genetic profile is rare to find, and much much more expensive than a sperm donor].

 

[XawoTako]

The Idea of marriage is what am not interested in besides if i was desperate then i would have already been in india i guess. If somali women can get pregnant out of wedlock for free then i dont see Why they can't get pregnant for money huuno

Having children out of wedlock is not common in our community stop disrespecting somali women like that. Again, you will have to consider ajnabi surrogate mother.somali cirka baa kaaga dhow lol.

 

[madamelioness]

Who Said im having difficulty its just that im not ready for that role now and still in plans to save money for the process.

Im sure despite being a surrogate child of mine he/she live a decent life than millions of somali kids out there.

A child needs a mother's love. You could give him/her everything in the world but he/she will still have that void. That's why it's selfish to pursue this path.

 

[TheMadMullah]

Having children out of wedlock is not common in our community stop disrespecting somali women like that. Again, you will have to consider ajnabi surrogate mother.somali cirka baa kaaga dhow lol.

Lol abaayo trust me its common i myself know over 10 cases of women getting pregnant out of wedlock but some manage to hurriedly get a wedding before the pregnancy is visible (very common) and others just deal with it and move on.

A child needs a mother's love. You could give him/her everything in the world but he/she will still have that void. That's why it's selfish to pursue this path.

there are many cases of where a child grew without a mom and yet happened to be happier and more succesful than those with moms. So there is no scientific backing to your arguments.

 

[Kia12]

saul goodman! But if you have financial problem, you could just turn into "gabdhaha shaqeeya" aka harridan woman and make close to 100k working 24/7 365.
:siilaanyolaugh:

I don't have financial problems.

 

[mrlog]

I'm sorry sista but I would do that for at least 5k

When did u become a Naag?

 

[paramedic]

You will not find a normal Somali girl who will do this for you.

 

[arawelo 2.0]

hahahahaha good luck finding a Somali woman who will willingly give away her child to you even if it's for money. the majority will think you're insane.

 

[paramedic]

Who Said im having difficulty its just that im not ready for that role now and still in plans to save money for the process.

Im sure despite being a surrogate child of mine he/she live a decent life than millions of somali kids out there.

So you're not ready to be a husband but you're ready to be a father? Wait for the right woman, she'll help take care of the kids and raise them right. if you're working who will take care of the kids? do you want them to know more about the daycare you put them in than their own family bc that's the reality for the first years as a new dad.