I want no dambi. Leave her alone. We all can change. No one should be beholden by their past. I still have a question. Does her past matter ?

[KingSomali999]

Yes, imagine paying mehr and actually making a former hoe a wife. The Same thing could be said for women seeking men.... imagine being a women and marrying some community dick ass nigga that fucked alot of women lol.

Side note:
What part of the diaspora are you from? Just curious.

Yes, imagine paying mehr and actually making a former hoe a wife. The Same thing could be said for women seeking men.... imagine being a women and marrying some community dick ass nigga that fucked alot of women lol.

Side note:
What part of the diaspora are you from? Just curious.

don’t act like women don’t flock to men who get a lot of women. explains why a miskeen xalimo end up marrying a ciyaal suuq that don’t got much going on for him but be slaying community dick

 

[KingSomali999]

don’t let them shame you into being a cuck marrying a hoe, she might play the righteous wife but a year or two but sooner or later the streets will want her back.

 

[Halimo-2018]

does she look good in then I might consider

 

[Jiron]

I am a big believer in 2nd chances and that people learn from past mistakes

 

[ReerVanCadde]

2nd chances are for second rate men. There's a fresh xalimo starting college/uni every September.

 

[Xaruun]

2nd chances are for second rate men. There's a fresh xalimo starting college/uni every September.

Not even 2nd rate, just low self value. Chaste men are obliged to marry chaste women. You shouldn’t be settling for a dutty loose muslima no matter what. Virginity is a basic expectation.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

@Xaruun
Honestly, you can't tell from the outset, especially if they are 25+. Some of them get really good with the astagfiruallah game etc.

 

[Mercury]

Yes her past matters, nobody will ever convince me other wise. men sleeping around and women sleeping around have two different consequences.

Thats foolish talk in the eyes of allah men and women sleeping around are judged the same and face the same sin

 

[Basra]

don’t act like women don’t flock to men who get a lot of women. explains why a miskeen xalimo end up marrying a ciyaal suuq that don’t got much going on for him but be slaying community dick

r u from Holland? Dhulbanate?

 

[ReerVanCadde]

Damn Holland Somalis at it again smh

 

[KingSomali999]

Thats foolish talk in the eyes of allah men and women sleeping around are judged the same and face the same sin

yes that is true, but i’m speaking in terms of worldly consequence, i didn’t think i had go state the obvious.

 

[KingSomali999]

r u from Holland? Dhulbanate?

this is women in every race, not just somalis.women love men in relationships/doing community service for the horny xalimos.

 

[KingSomali999]

r u from Holland? Dhulbanate?

this is women in every race, not just somalis

 

[Basra]

this is women in every race, not just somalis

aaf somaali?

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Since everyone allows you and I'm the few who tell you the truth

You need to get a job and make money all you do is make sensational threads and make believe threads bro your in your 30s
Do something with your life

I bet I make more money than you. Do you own property? Get at my level naagyahay

 

[dr.leorio]

Hell no. I'm not running a nonprofit charity here. I'm here to win in this life and the next.

Any man who turns a reformed into a hosewife is a fool and a loser. Point blank period.

 

[Xaruun]

it depends on YOU. have you maintained your chastity? if so, it's best that you find a woman who is like you. if she truly repented, however, I do not see why you cannot accept her as a wife, if she is a good Muslimah now.

You can never really know if she truly repented. 95% of the time they’re just trying to lock down a stable provider that will clean up their mess. A lot of them even continue to have some fun on the side after the marriage authubillah. Even then, would you really want to deal with the baggage of a reformed hoe?

 

[Gokboru]

I prefer experienced ones .

 

[Angelina]

You can never really know if she truly repented. 95% of the time they’re just trying to lock down a stable provider that will clean up their mess. A lot of them even continue to have some fun on the side after the marriage authubillah. Even then, would you really want to deal with the baggage of a reformed hoe?

It goes both ways. Yet men are entitled enough to think that they 'deserve' a virgin whilst excitedly talking about their past exploits.

Its a bit obvious from the likes you have been dishing out that you believe that men should be forgiven, yet women should be held to a higher standard.

Its about time men humbled themselves. Men not being virgins upon marriage has been so normalised that even zaanis now think they can talk about 'hoes'.

Really men need to stfu

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

You can never really know if she truly repented. 95% of the time they’re just trying to lock down a stable provider that will clean up their mess. A lot of them even continue to have some fun on the side after the marriage authubillah. Even then, would you really want to deal with the baggage of a reformed hoe?

95% of them did it because they reached the summit of their debauchery and now are submitting to the pleas of the family as well her financial considerations.