I will most likely get a second wife from Somalia in my 40s

Should I spread my wealth around and get a second wife in Somalia?

  • Yes

    Votes: 19 73.1%
  • No

    Votes: 7 26.9%

  • Total voters
    26
I think you fight because deep down you know he's stingy with the meher.. This guy wants to pay rotten apples for meher :mjlol:

take your negative vibes somewhere else !

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if you spend that much time with your first wife and then leave her after her spending ten years on you, watch her kill you on the spot
coming from someone who would poison my husband if he dared to do so
plus you need her consent in the first place
You don’t need your wife’s consent, what woman would allow her husband to do that? In Islam you can get another wife whenever you feel like it as long as you treat them fair. Also if you kill a nigga because he did something he’s permitted to do so in Islam, your going straight to hell.
 

a y a n

nigga I am not a firefighter
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You don’t need your wife’s consent, what woman would allow her husband to do that? In Islam you can get another wife whenever you feel like it as long as you treat them fair. Also if you kill a nigga because he did something he’s permitted to do so in Islam, your going straight to hell.
you do realize the wife has to accept it in islam to make sure nothing arises in terms of anger between the relationship and if not it’s on the man if the wife doesn’t accept and she becomes angry
also, if you thought i was serious about murder you need to analyze how good you are at detecting hyperboles
either way, why would you need a second wife in the first place? most of you faraaxs aren’t rich enough to properly support the first wife and the children she’s want, why do you think your allowed in islam to have a second? on top of that, do you really not love your wife enough to get another one?
 

J-Rasta

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Every older abti I know has a second or even a third wife in Somalia with the boldest having four. Allah has given us the right to have multiple partners and I will exercise my God given right to full effect. I will continue the traditions of my forefathers since I am fairly well off and hopefully all my sons shall reciprocate the deed.



Good luck sxb you will be dealing with constant migraines
 
you do realize the wife has to accept it in islam to make sure nothing arises in terms of anger between the relationship and if not it’s on the man if the wife doesn’t accept and she becomes angry
also, if you thought i was serious about murder you need to analyze how good you are at detecting hyperboles
either way, why would you need a second wife in the first place? most of you faraaxs aren’t rich enough to properly support the first wife and the children she’s want, why do you think your allowed in islam to have a second? on top of that, do you really not love your wife enough to get another one?
The wife doesn’t give the husband permission, you can get another wife whenever you want, doesn’t matter if you were with your wife for 10 years or 6 months. Islam gives men the right to do that. I know you were only joking but some women are crazy and get ‘d1ckmatized’ on some If I can’t have have him to myself then no can type shit.

Most Faraxs in the west and Africa who marry multiple wives have enough to support their families. A man marrying another woman doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife.
 

a y a n

nigga I am not a firefighter
VIP
The wife doesn’t give the husband permission, you can get another wife whenever you want, doesn’t matter if you were with your wife for 10 years or 6 months. Islam gives men the right to do that. I know you were only joking but some women are crazy and get ‘d1ckmatized’ on some If I can’t have have him to myself then no can type shit.

Most Faraxs in the west and Africa who marry multiple wives have enough to support their families. A man marrying another woman doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife.
except y’all talking here that you’ll marry another wife when you get “tired” of the first?
the clownery
second off, the main purpose of the whole four wives thing was limit the amount of unmarried women.
however, nowadays there is 100 girls for every 105 men, deeming the practice rather useless
also, it specifically states that the man has to make sure his wife is ok with it to make sure no negative feelings arise- please go read the quraan acuthubillah
anyways if you can’t support your first wife and her children with a nice house and at least two cars with lots to feed the children and taken them on vacation every year with ease, getting a second wife isn’t an option, especially in america
 
The wife doesn’t give the husband permission, you can get another wife whenever you want, doesn’t matter if you were with your wife for 10 years or 6 months. Islam gives men the right to do that. I know you were only joking but some women are crazy and get ‘d1ckmatized’ on some If I can’t have have him to myself then no can type shit.

Most Faraxs in the west and Africa who marry multiple wives have enough to support their families. A man marrying another woman doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife.
Some women can't deal with that though. They have the right to not be with him if they want. A lot of women actually divorce their husbands when they see he is looking to find another wife. So they're always at 1 :silanyolaugh:
 
except y’all talking here that you’ll marry another wife when you get “tired” of the first?
the clownery
second off, the main purpose of the whole four wives thing was limit the amount of unmarried women.
however, nowadays there is 100 girls for every 105 men, deeming the practice rather useless
also, it specifically states that the man has to make sure his wife is ok with it to make sure no negative feelings arise- please go read the quraan acuthubillah
anyways if you can’t support your first wife and her children with a nice house and at least two cars with lots to feed the children and taken them on vacation every year with ease, getting a second wife isn’t an option, especially in america
No one is talking about men who marry other women because they’re ‘tired’ of their wives because male don’t do that. Most Somali/Muslim men who marry multiple women can afford to support the many wives and children they have. I personally know numerous young Somali guys in the US who have multiple wives and are treating them fairly. Stop hating on halal practice.
 
Some women can't deal with that though. They have the right to not be with him if they want. A lot of women actually divorce their husbands when they see he is looking to find another wife. So they're always at 1 :silanyolaugh:
You do know that most Somalis in the west don’t marry legally on documents and shit right? They can’t divorce someone they were never married to ( in a legal sense). The wife doesn’t know when the guy is out looking for another wife most of the time she finds out when it’s too late to cut him off.

It usually happens like this: Farax and Xalimo hit it off and get married ( not on papers), they have kids and a couple years later Farax marries another Xalimo who he quickly has kids with. It’s personally not my cup of tea but shiiiitt I can’t knock it ya feel me.
 
You do know that most Somalis in the west don’t marry legally on documents and shit right? They can’t divorce someone they were never married to ( in a legal sense). The wife doesn’t know when the guy is out looking for another wife most of the time she finds out when it’s too late to cut him off.

It usually happens like this: Farax and Xalimo hit it off and get married ( not on papers), they have kids and a couple years later Farax marries another Xalimo who he quickly has kids with. It’s personally not my cup of tea but shiiiitt I can’t knock it ya feel me.
I know a woman personally who divorced her man for wanting a second wife. My aunt divorced her husband for getting a second wife. I also have an uncle who has three wives. If it works for you and your family I'm not knocking it because islamically it's not wrong. I don't know why some women don't get legally married. Just setting themselves up.
 
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