If I've been with over 100 women am I broken

Hodan from HR

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In all those women there has been none that made me think yeah I'd marry her

None of these women owe you anything to make you want to settle down.

It is you who chose time after time women who were not compatible with your idea of marriage. Maybe you are the problem?


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Siddhartha

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Just to update this i met someone and i did fall in love...it was magical insha'Allah I find it again. (No she wasn't Somali lol)
 

Kisame

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Just to update this i met someone and i did fall in love...it was magical insha'Allah I find it again. (No she wasn't Somali lol)

My nigga about to retire from the streets

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Settle down with a nice gaal and live your life.
 
Broken? Sxb you've disintegrated and turned to dust emotionally speaking :heh:

I'm approaching half that 100 figure and I'm hanging my gloves up wallahi. "Falling in love" becomes a thing of the past once you start hitting those triple digits. Most of the guys I know in your situation can't hang on for longer than 6 months before binning their bird and going back to doing dirt. It's is just vapid and a temporary ego boost for the most part. And most normal innocent girls aren't equipped for the level of flith you're bringing to the table abti lol
 

Siddhartha

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Broken? Sxb you've disintegrated and turned to dust emotionally speaking :heh:

I'm approaching half that 100 figure and I'm hanging my gloves up wallahi. "Falling in love" becomes a thing of the past once you start hitting those triple digits. Most of the guys I know in your situation can't hang on for longer than 6 months before binning their bird and going back to doing dirt. It's is just vapid and a temporary ego boost for the most part. And most normal innocent girls aren't equipped for the level of flith you're bringing to the table abti lol
I can separate sexual attraction and romantic attraction the two are not the same. The girl I met was perfect in every way we understood each other. Such different backgrounds but so similar. Of course any girl I find has to match my level (normal girls do)
 

Sophisticate

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:patrice:You would make an intriguing case study! Men typically score higher in sociosexuality, meaning they’re more inclined toward sexual risk-taking, promiscuity, and can sometimes engage in intimacy without attachment. Whereas women tend to be the sexual gatekeepers, setting the terms and expectations. I’m not going to judge as everyone already beat me to it, and I doubt moralizing would resonate with you. However, it seems like you may find this lifestyle unfulfilling. Maybe what you need is a period of introspection, a sort of 'monastic arc,' to figure out what truly matters to you.

Also, when you say she was 'perfect,' I’d question that. No one is flawless. She may have had qualities you admired, but it sounds like she was put on a pedestal. It’s worth exploring the difference between admiring someone for who they genuinely are and creating an idealized image.
 
I can separate sexual attraction and romantic attraction the two are not the same. The girl I met was perfect in every way we understood each other. Such different backgrounds but so similar. Of course any girl I find has to match my level (normal girls do)
Women are women for the most part sxb. Sure some are more graceful, have more sharaf etc. But it's all the same madax xanuun after a while. Even the 'perfect ones' who you might initally have a connection with.

But that's neither here nor there. My whole point was that once you start seeing insane success with them, and the numbers start racking up, you tolerance for bullshit dimishes. It becomes very very very easy to emotionally detach yourself. I don't know maybe it's the difference in our maturity level and I just can't see it yet, but I'm quick to just be like "alright, fucking jog on then babe - there's literally another one you within a 5-20 mile radius" :manny:
 

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