If you had lots of lacag, would you still marry gabar Somali?
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Don't let these old fools pressure you. Marry someone you are in love with. What are their daughters lacking that the mothers have to look for a husband.
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Somali men have options; they can marry a woman from any race as long as they are a part of the Abrahimic religions and the children will be Somali. Here's the caveat:
It sets a bad example if successful Somali men marry out in droves because there are a lot of unmarried Somali women that are gabad ficaan so we can't afford the luxury of bringing Heidie or Becky home. If we have money how will it go into the Somali community if we follow this trend of out-marriage. We will not have any racial continuity because like I've said before half-castes are not loyal they eventually give back to Cadaan societies, not Somali. They become apart of the cadaan gene pool. Not the Somali gene pool, as they are primarily in western nations where they are the majority. Remember, hooyo is also the keeper of dhaqan, aabo just gives you his qabil and last name and inheritance, what use will that have when foreign looking children with strange names and their ajnabi mother inherit your wealth. And we will look just as bad as the new world blacks that we criticize for self-hate if we start adopting the "made it negro" mentality.
It sets a bad example if successful Somali men marry out in droves because there are a lot of unmarried Somali women that are gabad ficaan so we can't afford the luxury of bringing Heidie or Becky home. If we have money how will it go into the Somali community if we follow this trend of out-marriage. We will not have any racial continuity because like I've said before half-castes are not loyal they eventually give back to Cadaan societies, not Somali. They become apart of the cadaan gene pool. Not the Somali gene pool, as they are primarily in western nations where they are the majority. Remember, hooyo is also the keeper of dhaqan, aabo just gives you his qabil and last name and inheritance, what use will that have when foreign looking children with strange names and their ajnabi mother inherit your wealth. And we will look just as bad as the new world blacks that we criticize for self-hate if we start adopting the "made it negro" mentality.
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I'm a firm believer in Somalis marrying each other. Lacag or bila lacag.
When I married my husband he had next to nothing. His parents passed away when he was 17 and he had to drop out of college to work full-time to support his younger siblings. My friends and some relatives thought I lost my mind for considering him but alhamdulillah my parents were supportive because they saw his character before his status. He supported me through my studies when we got married and now I'm supporting him through med school. People forget that relationships are about give and take. Also, Allah SWT puts blessings in your marriage the more you are sincere and work together and do it with the right intentions. Yes, you can marry a wealtthy man or one with status but he could lose all of it in a day because that's life. It's very unpredictable. So how will you weather the storms with such weak and frivolous foundations?
Btw, I'm not saying marry a broke man but if he is a hard-worker and has a good character you should give him a chance. Also, Somali men if you have lots of lacag better to splash it in your own backyard rather than someone else's.
When I married my husband he had next to nothing. His parents passed away when he was 17 and he had to drop out of college to work full-time to support his younger siblings. My friends and some relatives thought I lost my mind for considering him but alhamdulillah my parents were supportive because they saw his character before his status. He supported me through my studies when we got married and now I'm supporting him through med school. People forget that relationships are about give and take. Also, Allah SWT puts blessings in your marriage the more you are sincere and work together and do it with the right intentions. Yes, you can marry a wealtthy man or one with status but he could lose all of it in a day because that's life. It's very unpredictable. So how will you weather the storms with such weak and frivolous foundations?
Btw, I'm not saying marry a broke man but if he is a hard-worker and has a good character you should give him a chance. Also, Somali men if you have lots of lacag better to splash it in your own backyard rather than someone else's.
Do you actually believe that a Somali woman would prefer to marry some Jamaican ex-con over a handsome and wealthy Somali man? Are you kidding me?
What happened to your logic saaxib? You know better than this. I know you do.
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Thats generalization. No different than saying somali girls are bad wife-material.
@Queen Carawelo she is a veterinarian I met her tru her father he is a old school Greek guy who pulled his family out of a 2 bedroom shack in a little greek village. he told me he started working when he was 10 to help his mother because his dad was a useless c*nt as he put it. now he is one of the biggest club promoters in the UK she told me he would prefer me over some posh cadaan guy because we have similar characteristics.
Do you actually believe that a Somali woman would prefer to marry some Jamaican ex-con over a handsome and wealthy Somali man? Are you kidding me?
What happened to your logic saaxib? You know better than this. I know you do.
I'm just taking the piss, sxb. But there is a kernel of truth to my trolling. Many Somalis in the UK are pretty messed in the head, unfortunately.
Saaxib, Somalis have changed a LOT in the last 10 years. Yes, Somalis in the past used to place Jamaican Salafis on a pedestal...but that enthusiasm has died down a lot recently, especially in the face of reports of Somali women being left by these Jamaicans divorced with 2 kids. I've heard Jamaican men openly complain about the difficulty in marrying Somali women nowadays, and it's due to this new phenomenon
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The biggest fault I find with Somalis that marry out is their radical sense of individualism courtesy of western conditioning. They act like they can't help who they fall in love with which is bollocks. They can. Had they been back home the only option would be Somali so they would just have to make due with their tribe or ethnicity. Being in the west has widened their pool and made them mingle with different ethnic groups. Its made them post-racial in a world that still has racial binaries and glaring social inequalities. It should be a moral obligation to give back to your people and who you marry has something to do with that. We owe it to them to set an appropriate example of what thriving Somali families look like in the west and make them proud to continue practicing social endogamy at every social location. I'm a numbers guy me self and ajnabi marriages have lower success rates compared to Somali marriages. Anecdotally, we could discuss the ones that survive but that's not the rule its the exception. By the way romantic love is a western construct. And love marriages in the west do not prove to be successful long-term. I don't think Jews would have become successful if they wanted to integrate with gentiles. I don't think the Japanese would be successful if they welcomed diversity into their homogeneous nation. And I don't see Somalis ascending to higher heights if they decide to marry whomever. We the majority must practice selective marriage practices with our own if we want to do well as a group.
To the OP, the richest Somalis marry Somali. Entertainers are on a different level. They are exposed to a lifestyle of debauchery so I don't expect much from them.
To the OP, the richest Somalis marry Somali. Entertainers are on a different level. They are exposed to a lifestyle of debauchery so I don't expect much from them.
I couldn't have said it better myself saaxib. Somalis should support and marry each other, and not be influenced by the relatively few of us who choose to marry foreigners. A well-educated and emotionally stable Somali man has no excuse but to marry the women of his own community, and set himself up as an example to the rest of Somalis.
There are some on this forum (AbdiJohnson in particular) who openly stated that they'd prefer to marry a White or Latina woman in Canada over their own Somali women, and this deep inferiority complex is something that we Somalis should openly reject.
We must not allow ourselves to become like the African-Americans, who choose to marry a White or Latina woman the first chance they get.
LOL I prefer Arab girls? I don't even find Arab girls interesting or even that attractive. You're a first class liar and buffoon.
If you had a choice between marrying a Somali woman raised in Canada vs a White-Canadian woman, you would choose the White girl each and every time. You've admitted it to me in private and you said it on this forum on a number of occasions.
You're a self-hating Uncle Tom
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