I'm a good cousin or bad cousin, it's your call

[menace]

Who remember that old head far far OG relative that I filmed one time here?

Well...he has 19 year old daughter..

Today she called me out of the blue and asked if I can give her a ride to my hooyo's house ..

I of course agreed to it on a certain time ..

Then I remembered that my sisters are on a vacation holiday so what the hell she gonna be doing at the house with my hooyo..so I called her and she says come Horta

Then when I picked her up she said to me " walaal I am just using your hooyo's house to go out on a date, he'll pick me up soon after"

I then suggested that it's better that she waits for him at my place. Now she's here waiting for her man to pick her up.

I grilled her and found out that he is a truck driver. She showed me the picture.

This girl is not about getting fucked, she's deadest on getting married and getting away from her Aabo. Her Aabo is having hard time adjusting to this lifestyle. He is trying to micro manage his wife and his teen daughter and she's fed up.

Am I correct to facilitating this.

I warned her to be careful cause dude could have wife's in every area code. She assured me.

 

[Queen Carawelo]

She's just a kid. Menace kids should be off limits waryaa.

 

[siman L]

I like the song. Cute girl.

 

[Queen Carawelo]

i didn't know walahi

Menace you're a gentleman!

 

[Sultana]

Tell her to be careful, he could be preying on her because she's vulnerable.

 

[menace]

Tell her to be careful, he could be preying on her because she's vulnerable.

You have no idea the lecture I've giver her. I actually reflected back on my hyena says and drew some ideas for her. I told her that if any moment he suggests " just come in my apartment I'm picking up something I forgot, don't go in there "

 

[siman L]

Why did you change the original topic. She's 19 and she's okay getting married to a truck driver? You're a bad cousin unless you are convincing her not go through with this!

 

[menace]

Your take on this please

@Idol

@Shamis

@Duchess

@Antisocial

 

[menace]

Why did you change the original topic. She's 19 and she's okay getting married to a truck driver? You're a bad cousin unless you are convincing her not go through with this!

I don't know if she's marrying her or not ...I've advised her to be careful and this dude might want to bang..

She said that she's confident it ain't abt that ..

On top of that her mentality is advanced, not your typical 19 year old ..chick just got here 3 years ago...

On my other main reason I'm not stopping her from marrying is that school is making her go crazy. She was a nomad up to 16...school is complicated for her ...at home she's conflicting with her old head father with his old ways...her father is an old man and needs a son in-law..oldest child is only 16 (mentally unstable)...

So my calculation is appropriate runtii

 

[siman L]

Sounds like you put a lot of thought into this. Tell her to keep her options open though. How much good will a truck driving son in law really do if he's always gone? Sure, they make bare money...but it's a lonely lifestyle for the family and him.

 

[Shamis]

You should chaperone! He could be a rapist.

 

[Freebandz]

This nikka is running out of ideas repeating the same story again even thoe the story was brought up 2 months ago

 

[RedStar]

If you can't talk her out of marriage, why don't you find your cousin a suitable man who'll treat her good?

 

[menace]

If you can't talk her out of marriage, why don't you find your cousin a suitable man who'll treat her good?

The guys I have are darn educated and want educated girl who grew up here. You think I didn't think of this

 

[RedStar]

The guys I have are darn educated and want educated girl who grew up here. You think I didn't think of this

Find a guy who only wants a housewife, it's not that hard. I could find dozens in my ends bro

 

[Shamis]

Why is no one concerned about this teenager? She wants to leave her sweet caring father's house for some truck driver and behind his back too She shouldn't put him in an early grave he's concerned enough as it is. Tell her to go college and aim higher. She's only 19 so she could go to college with people roughly the same age as her and put her old life behind her for good.

 

[Ruqiya]

So she is telling her parents that she is going to your mom's house but she is actually going to a date with a truck driver cajiib. If this was my cousin I would tell her to invite the guy to my house and get to know him a little better. Maybe you should talk her father about this situation too since she is not comfortable sharing this with him. Ceeb ma aha inay gabadhu sheegtaan markay guur rabaan. If she is afraid to tell her father then she can talk her mother.

 

[Zuleikha]

Invite the guy inside and get to know him.
19 years old can be easily taken advantage of.

 

[Queen Carawelo]

Invite the guy inside and get to know him.
19 years old can be easily taken advantage of.

This.



Tell him to come inside, have a cup of tea and basically ask him what his intentions are?

 

[menace]

Why is no one concerned about this teenager? She wants to leave her sweet caring father's house for some truck driver and behind his back too She shouldn't put him in an early grave he's concerned enough as it is. Tell her to go college and aim higher. She's only 19 so she could go to college with people roughly the same age as her and put her old life behind her for good.

Sometimes you don't read my comments. I said the girl has no educational background and she is frustrated with school.

Her father is in old age ( he married old).

After speaking to her I sensed that she is trying to get a guy with her good looks to be a good son-in-law for her father.

In my city the public transportation is limited. Everyone needs a car. They have a car but her father ( former camel herder) has had 3 accidents for the past 3 years. The insurance company told him that he needs to get the proper license ( he has temporary one), dude keeps failing the permanent license.

First thing I've done for him was I sat up a bank account for him. Few weeks later he took next door neighbors and closed it. This was meant for him to pay the insurance bills right. I even told him how much and specific day to deposit money into the account but dude closed it and asked me to change him from this insurance company to one nearer that he can walk to and pay in cash. He had me pissed but alla dartii baan u caawiyey. When we got to the one he wanted and we produced his temp license they kicked as out. Then he begs me to put him back on his just terminated insurance company, which I did. Tell this day they withdraw money from my account. He pays his bill tho.

So that's the background she is in.