I'm a good cousin or bad cousin, it's your call

[menace]

So she is telling her parents that she is going to your mom's house but she is actually going to a date with a truck driver cajiib. If this was my cousin I would tell her to invite the guy to my house and get to know him a little better. Maybe you should talk her father about this situation too since she is not comfortable sharing this with him. Ceeb ma aha inay gabadhu sheegtaan markay guur rabaan. If she is afraid to tell her father then she can talk her mother.

But what's wrong with me giving her a 30 minute lecture. She called me out of the blue @Ruqiya. Last time she called me was 3 months ago when she got lost driving around the city. I pick her up and she's dressed as if she's going to a wedding.

Wait a minute..wait a minute...wait a minute..what about if I just wife her..her dad is already very fond of me and once said to me "adeer ggabadh ban ku siin lahaa hadii dhaqanka halkan aheyn". But that would mean that my wife would poison me and ruin our finances

 

[menace]

This.



Tell him to come inside, have a cup of tea and basically ask him what his intentions are?

Dont worry, she showed me his pic and I've seen him around...I'll watch from a distance

 

[Queen Carawelo]

Dont worry, she showed me his pic and I've seen him around...I'll watch from a distance

It could be too late. Be a man and talk to this guy. Ask him hard hitting questions.

 

[Shamis]

I understood it entirely. She can go to a community college and from there apply for jaamacad after one or two years. It's not that big of a deal, plenty of people have a patchy education history but they still become nurses or join other professions after working really hard. Her dad is a regular guy he just has bad car insurance. Why the degdeg for her to abandon her father and her future?

 

[Ruqiya]

But what's wrong with me giving her a 30 minute lecture. She called me out of the blue @Ruqiya. Last time she called me was 3 months ago when she got lost driving around the city. I pick her up and she's dressed as if she's going to a wedding.

Wait a minute..wait a minute...wait a minute..what about if I just wife her..her dad is already very fond of me and once said to me "adeer ggabadh ban ku siin lahaa hadii dhaqanka halkan aheyn". But that would mean that my wife would poison me and ruin our finances

Lol, hadda adigaba isku diyaarisay miyaa? What is going to happen if she tells her dad that she wants date or get married soon. Did you ask her that?

 

[menace]

It could be too late. Be a man and talk to this guy. Ask him hard hitting questions.

Walahi @Idol I ain't afraid to do so but I'm a guy and your a girl and therefore you're overtakin by emotion whilst I tread carefully.

In other words even a good intended guy would pull out of a situation like this bc it's their first date. When she informs me that it's heading up then I'll approach him and show him that she got toll ( look how somalis are related, she's OG).

Btw I've done this once before, of all places at a restaurant when a cousin girl came in and then as I was talking to her her estranged husband came in as she was just cursing him ( they were going through bitter divorce). I went outside with the guy and we had a long conversation and I inded seeing him as the victim and she as the qumayo. I ended up yelling at her and leaving.

 

[menace]

Lol, hadda adigaba isku diyaarisay miyaa? What is going to happen if she tells her dad that she wants date or get married soon. Did you ask her that?

I had this conversation with her dad one day while driving him somewhere walahi. He said " I woul mind her getting married but the man that are approaching me are not much better situation then us". He is right because the ones that approached him are the ones her age and who she grew up with in the qaxooti camp and who wre in the plane with her.

 

[Shamis]

Horta why do you keep.mentioning that they're OG?

 

[menace]

Horta why do you keep.mentioning that they're OG?

As a reference from my video, no other purpose besides then that we are all inner related

 

[Ruqiya]

I had this conversation with her dad one day while driving him somewhere walahi. He said " I woul mind her getting married but the man that are approaching me are not much better situation then us". He is right because the ones that approached him are the ones her age and who she grew up with in the qaxooti camp and who wre in the plane with her.

Just let her know not to rush into marriage and to get know the guy better before marriage. Also tell her how some truck drivers have multiply wives in different states. There was this truck driver who was married to 4 and the first wife thought she was the only one.

 

[Duchess]

@menace I agree with the others who have suggested that you talk to the guy. Watching the situation from a distance won't prevent him from taking advantage of her. She told you about him because she trusts you and, since you're the only one who knows, it's your duty to play the role her father would play.

 

[menace]

BREAKING NEWS:

the encounter lasted for just 1 and half hour

She send me this

@Shamis @Idol @Duchess @siman L @Antisocial

 

[Ferrari]

@menace does your wife know you frequent here carrying female stories?

 

[Queen Carawelo]

BREAKING NEWS:

the encounter lasted for just 1 and half hour

She send me this

@Shamis @Idol @Duchess @siman L @Antisocial

What did she say, I couldn't read the broken Somali.

 

[menace]

@menace does your wife know you frequent here carrying female stories?

Stay in your lane, ma adaa ku qabaa!

 

[madamelioness]

Why are you posting her private msgs on here tho? That's too much.

Anyway, she seems like a smart girl with her head screwed on from her msgs. Try to persuade her to stick with school 'cause that will benefit her far more in the long run.


It's okay to get married young, but it doesn't seem like she's doing it for the right reasons. Plus, aabeheed hadu da' gaaray inee ka duceeysato aya uu haboon. She's so young, there's plenty of time for guur iyo wareerkiisa.

 

[Ferrari]

When do you work horta? You're always on here gossiping about females and hodan naleye. Who raises your kids for you?

 

[menace]

When do you work horta? You're always on here gossiping about females and hodan naleye. Who raises your kids for you?

Again, stay in your lane naayaasiilaanyolaugh

I assure you I handle my business ..

 

[Zuleikha]

It seems like she knows what she is doing.she is obviously judging him by the way he is behaving around her which is good.

Just keep eye on her. He might be an older geezer tryna take advantage of young naive girl.

 

[menace]

It seems like she knows what she is doing.she is obviously judging him by the way he is behaving around her which is good.

Just keep eye on her. He might be an older geezer tryna take advantage of young naive girl.

Yes he at least got 13 years on her from the pic she showed me but then again that can't a bases to not consider him