Is it that inconceivable that a cultured Somali can't marry out? How about they fall in love with someone who happens to not be Somali? Whenever a Somali man marries out, does he have to be unsomali or uncultured? It's a very insecure way of looking at it to be honest.
These are the same xalimo's that claim Abdi's are insecure whenever they comment on a Somali girl marrying out.
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This is coming from someone who is completely fine with interracial marriages. I have men in my family that have married out who I think of as being very Somali. Ultimately, who you marry is calaf.
But, there are Abdis I have seen who definitely give me ajnabi boy vibes, who are indeed in interracial marriages. What do I think of that? Good for them.