Is interracial marriage worth it in the West for us ethnics?

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

I have been told many times to avoid marrying non ethnic folk due to the many problems that arise from such relationships. I have a cousin that is a byproduct of such a relationship and they don’t get along with their dad. The moms full white while the dad is an ethnic guy from my sub clan. The kids are grown but don’t adhere to our ethnic culture and religion. The old man was shocked when his kids refused to identify with his sub clan. They think they are Canadians but the average white person will never see them as such even though they won’t say it out loud.
So is interracial marriage worth it for ethnic folk?

 

[Shimbiris]

Wallahi, are you sure you're not white? Who the f*ck refers to their own people as "ethnic"?

 

[Eedaaf]

I have been told many times to avoid marrying non ethnic folk due to the many problems that arise from such relationships. I have a cousin that is a byproduct of such a relationship and they don’t get along with their dad. The moms full white while the dad is an ethnic guy from my sub clan. The kids are grown but don’t adhere to our ethnic culture and religion. The old man was shocked when his kids refused to identify with his sub clan. They think they are Canadians but the average white person will never see them as such even though they won’t say it out loud.
So is interracial marriage worth it for ethnic folk?

They refuse to identify with their qabil

their a lost cause

do they identfiy as a Somali

 

[greyhound stone]

Yes and no. From now on ethnic = somali . But I'd depends on situation... sometimes is best to stay within your community and sometimes its best to marry out. I have no problem with any interracial relationship. I'm one of those mind ya business abdis. It's All calaf at the end of the day.

 

[Eedaaf]

Yes and no. From now on ethnic = somali . But I'd depends on situation... sometimes is best to stay within your community and sometimes its best to marry out. I have no problem with any interracial relationship. I'm one of those mind ya business abdis. It's All calaf at the end of the day.

To somalis marrying someone from another qabil is enough buuq

 

[greyhound stone]

To somalis marrying someone from another qabil is enough buuq

Maybe it is. But it's all the situation some families don't care about qabil and some it's very important. They deeply hate others qabils

 

[Shimbiris]

In all seriousness, this is silly. The fault has little to do with the kids' background and everything to do with their aabo's shortcomings as a father. I've seen full-blood Somali kids raised in the west display the same identity crisis nonsense these kids do. "I'm British" while denying their Somalinimo. Whether you marry a Somali woman or an ajanabi, it is your responsibility to impress a sense of self and identity in your kids. If you fail at that don't turn around and blame your ajanabi wife. It's a copout.

 

[Eedaaf]

Maybe it is. But it's all the situation some families don't care about qabil and some it's very important. They deeply hate others qabils

In the west most Somalis don’t care about qabil

it’s rare for a Somali family to reject a Somali for his qabil in the west

 

[Hassan2000]

Why do you call us ethnics lol you don't have to look at the world from the white mans perspective

 

[greyhound stone]

In the west most Somalis don’t care about qabil

it’s rare for a Somali family to reject a Somali for his qabil in the west

You would be surprised how many somalis are qabilist but hide it. Qabilist are much more common than u think

 

[greyhound stone]

Why do you call us ethnics lol you don't have to look at the world from the white mans perspective

Probably became westernised so he says ethnics lol

 

[Eedaaf]

You would be surprised how many somalis are qabilist but hide it. Qabilist are much more common than u think

maybe that’s just in the uk

 

[greyhound stone]

maybe that’s just in the uk

No I think you need to enter some diverse somali areas.

 

[Eedaaf]

No I think you need to enter some diverse somali areas.

I live in Minnesota

had enough of Somalis

 

[greyhound stone]

I live in Minnesota

had enough of Somalis

But there mostly daroods and hawyie. You've probably never seen other clans. You'd be shocked at the qabyaald at some diverse somali populations

 

[Eedaaf]

But there mostly daroods and hawyie. You've probably never seen other clans. You'd be shocked at the qabyaald at some diverse somali populations

There’s more Somalis in minnesota then London but it seems like only the Somalis in London tend to be more qabilist then others

 

[Juliet]

Wallahi, are you sure you're not white? Who the f*ck refers to their own people as "ethnic"?

He also refers to us as “coloured”...... very sus

 

[greyhound stone]

There’s more Somalis in minnesota then London but it seems like only the Somalis in London tend to be more qabilist then others

Somalis in usa are 99% southern. Uk is super diverse in terms of qabil

 

[Eedaaf]

Somalis in usa are 99% southern. Uk is super diverse in terms of qabil

We have some issaqs here and dhulbahante

i can tell who is issaq cause they wear the SL braclet and the dhulbahante wear the Somalis one

 

[KingSomali999]

In all seriousness, this is silly. The fault has little to do with the kids' background and everything to do with their aabo's shortcomings as a father. I've seen full-blood Somali kids raised in the west display the same identity crisis nonsense these kids do. "I'm British" while denying their Somalinimo. Whether you marry a Somali woman or an ajanabi, it is your responsibility to impress a sense of self and identity in your kids. If you fail at that don't turn around and blame your ajanabi wife. It's a copout.

you also can’t ignore that the family courts favor women. They usually give most of the custody to the mother. Also kids are more attached to their moms than their dad at a young age, meaning if ur kid is not spending a lot of time with u and instead the mother, she will always talk bad about u to the kids cuz of the relationship u have with their mother.