Whoever you marry, forget what they may be, you better know the person real well. I mean, this is a person you are going to make some serious life decisions with for both yourself and for others (potential children). I believe, any one who asks questions on superficial level as in, looks, race, money etc, is not looking at the bigger picture. When you can’t make decisions for yourself, say you got into a serious accident and you can’t talk, walk or you may be in a coma, who would you want to be the sole person to make decisions on your behalf, the person you can trust to honour your wishes- that is the person to be with, because marriage is not just about being with someone but sharing life and decisions with someone.
I know coupes that when they have kids fight on wether to vaccinate their kid or not, whether to send them to religious school or not, among other issues.
Of course these situation become more prominent if you don’t share culture and worldview with the person. As some of us are born and raised in the West and are growing up with ppl of other races, its more likely that we will marry ppl we went to school with or met through work or neighbourhood and have the similar values with than someone from Somalia. So ultimately, it’s all about what you value and who can show you they honour those values.
I have a lot of HJ relatives on my mom side I’m Dhulos
