Is it time we leave behind the idea of a meher

[Abdisamad]

lol! I don’t care about money walaal. As I said it comes and goes. I prefer him to build a well for me.

A well as in a water well?

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[Muji]

Get in the kitchen naya I paid 5 thousand dollars for you!!

 

[Omar del Sur]

lol it’s usually the men who say meher should be stopped as soon as a woman says it’s anti Islamic lol.

Your content in general has a clear anti-Islamic agenda

 

[Samaalic Era]

Speaking of a bite. I know y'all are priceless and shit but how about an apple for meher as a form of a ceremonial gesture to honor the love and the facts that two hearts are being united as one in a hopefully ever after lasting marriage.

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@Knowles is our secret agent that will make xalimos drop the mehr, we already have some here who agree with her already. Even the Odayaal will be snatching some western xalimos

 

[Muji]

Your content in general has a clear anti-Islamic agenda

Your content has an extremist agenda and you frequently support marital rape.

 

[NotMyL]

In Somali dhaqan, you only pay mehr after divorcing. What you get before the marriage is called Sayuuto if im not wrong which is abit of gold.

Also if you married with family approval, you will receive help even after you divorced, like who the hell thinks about divorce before even getting married

Expensive mehr causes corruption in society and makes zina easy. The Prophet's daughters mehr wasn't even $500 and the mehr is a gift, not insurance money

I disagree mehr should be paid before divorce, of course you can have arrangements with your partner to pay them throughout the years it’s not something you get after the divorce just because Somalis do it doesn’t mean it’s the right way, that’s why you see dudes promising 50k because they are not taking it serious, you should never promise something you can’t pay at that moment.

 

[Abdisamad]

Get in the kitchen naya I paid 5 thousand dollars for you!!

If you marry me it would sound something like

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[Saredo]

A well as in a water well?

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You don’t have to build it yourself lol. . There are organizations.

Expensive mehr causes corruption in society and makes zina easy. The Prophet's daughters mehr wasn't even $500 and the mehr is a gift, not insurance money

500$ at the time of our prophet SWS was a huge amount of money. Has nothing to do with 500$ in this day and age.

 

[Abdisamad]

@Knowles is our secret agent that will make xalimos drop the mehr, we already have some here who agree with her already. Even the Odayaal will be snatching some western xalimos

@Knowles

 

[Luciddreamer]

Well the issue with those men isn’t the mehr they are sexist ass holes to begin with, mehr or not they are the type to abuse and use women. Anyone who thinks you can buy a human being with 5k is not someone you should be marrying.

Misogyny is heavily embedded in our culture.

Mix that with the mehr and you get a husband who thinks he owns you.

Knowles is right, best solution is to marry out or find a level headed farax (a unicorn)

 

[Abdisamad]

You don’t have to build it yourself lol. . There are organizations.



500$ at the time of our prophet SWS was a huge amount of money. Has nothing to do with 500$ in this day and age.

It's cheaper if I do it myself

 

[Samaalic Era]

Misogyny is heavily embedded in our culture.

Mix that with the mehr and you get a husband who thinks he owns you.

Knowles is right, best solution is to marry out or find a level headed farax (a unicorn)

What kind of self hate is this sxb

 

[curious FOB]

Get in the kitchen naya I paid 5 thousand dollars for you!!

this turns you on dont lie

 

[Abdisamad]

What kind of self hate is this sxb

Is it a girl or one of those new age faraxs?

 

[Samaalic Era]

Is it a girl or one of those new age faraxs?

I actually cant tell if im being honest. I think its a new age farax

 

[Saredo]

It's cheaper if I do it myself

Build it for knowles.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Your content has an extremist agenda and you frequently support marital rape.

What? Your post is baseless. I almost never discuss whether "marital rape" exists. I discussed it in one thread about the topic. And simply being a religious and conservative person is not "extremist," although I know that's how liberal UKers would like to portray it.

 

[Abdisamad]

Build it for knowles.

Knowles comes for free I'm looking for 4 wife's.. So you asked for a well I'm gonna build you one.. But promise me you will be a good sister wife to @Knowles and @beenleey

 

[Muji]

What? Your post is baseless. I almost never discuss whether "marital rape" exists. I discussed it in one thread about the topic. And simply being a religious and conservative person is not "extremist," although I know that's how liberal UKers would like to portray it.

Last time I checked advocating for marital rape and arguing that women consent to sex when they get married is not a conservative point of view but an extremis or a rapist point of view.

 

[Luciddreamer]

What kind of self hate is this sxb

The word "self hate" has truly lost its meaning on Sspot