Is phone sex haram?

[Bernie Madoff]

Phone sex is freaky now?

 

[Desert Flower]

What benefit is there to phone sex? If anything, it may lead to actual sex.

Just wait until your wedding night.

 

[Shamis]

How long yall got before the nikaah? Why dont yall get the nikaah, and postpone the wedding and beat it the xalaal way?

I never thought of that. I'll ask him.

 

[Kingjames]

I never thought of that. I'll ask him.

wow your that horny @Shamis ?

Why don't you just join the haram life?

 

[GeelJirito]

@Shamis in action

 

[Shamis]

wow your that horny @Shamis ?

Why don't you just join the haram life?

Sex without knowing a person and being married to them would not work for me. I'd feel used.

 

[Shamis]

What benefit is there to phone sex? If anything, it may lead to actual sex.

Just wait until your wedding night.

We've never been alone together, always out in public or with family. We'd never have actual sex.

 

[Kingjames]

Sex without knowing a person and being married to them would not work for me. I'd feel used.

I was talking about premarital sex and not rape.

 

[Shamis]

I was talking about premarital sex and not rape.

I didn't say I'd feel raped, nigga. I said I'd feel used.

 

[ALittleBitItalian]

just get the regular pipe lool, no reason to make it more complicated

 

[Kingjames]

I didn't say I'd feel raped, nigga. I said I'd feel used.

Well why the f*ck would you feel used then?
It’s not like his forcing himself upon you if you both want to have sex

 

[Shamis]

Well why the f*ck would you feel used then?
It’s not like his forcing himself upon you if you both have sex

Being raped is different to being used. I'm a romantic and I like my relationships to have a future. If I slept with a guy and he didn't want me afterwards I'd be devastated.

 

[Kingjames]

Being raped is different to being used. I'm a romantic and I like my relationships to have a future. If I slept with a guy and he didn't want me afterwards I'd be devastated.

That not being used that is called making dumb decisions

Don’t just put the blame on the guy, you was enjoying yourself before you had seen the consequences .

 

[Shamis]

That not being used that is called making dumb decisions

Don’t just put the blame on the guy, you was enjoying yourself before you had seen the consequences .

You're just proving my point. Why put myself in that situation in the first place?

 

[Kingjames]

You're just proving my point. Why put myself in that situation in the first place?

You can say that you don’t want to make stupid decisions, don’t call it being used. You are using that term to lightly.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

You can say that you don’t want to make stupid decisions, don’t call it being used. You are using that term to lightly.

Well if he leaves after sex it is being used

 

[Sophisticate]

I might show a little leg and you can have just one stare but you won't come back to my lair.

I'm learning. How'd I do?

 

[Kingjames]

Well if he leaves after sex it is being used

What if he didn’t like the sex and left, are you still being “used” then?

How can you say that you’re being used? If he stayed then you wouldn’t consider it like you are being used.

Only gullible people get used, don’t blame the other person when you agreed to have sex

 

[Shamis]

What if he didn’t like the sex and left, are you still being “used” then?

How can you say that you’re being used? If he stayed then you wouldn’t consider it like you are being used.

Only gullible people get used, don’t blame the other person when you agreed to have sex

I don't think you understand. So what if the sex was lacklustre. Aren't I human? Don't I have feelings? Having sex with random people you aren't committed to just playing Russian roulette with your health and heart.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

What if he didn’t like the sex and left, are you still being “used” then?

How can you say that you’re being used? If he stayed then you wouldn’t consider it like you are being used.

Only gullible people get used, don’t blame the other person when you agreed to have sex

It’s being used because people who actually love don’t just leave after the sex
That’s how you know it was phony
And sometimes we can’t tell peoples
intentions
So have a heart