Is this weird ?

[Adnan05]

You’re almost 10 years older than her, when you were her age she was 9. Please find someone your own age

Not really into them. I lowk don’t see where the issue is. I don’t plan on marrying someone over 20.

 

[Lahaine]

yeah, it is weird find someone in their twenties.

also you should have just made this a poll

 

[Adnan05]

It’s not that they against me , they just want to wait a bit .

 

[Daadhi Tarree]

Asc axabta

So I’m talking to this girl since about 2 years.
Long story short we love each other and wanna marry but her parents say she’s too young and some of my friends say it’s weird too ?
I’m out Uni since 2 years and got w decent income and I’m 27 and she turnt 18 a couple months ago
What should I do ?

Marry her next year

 

[Adnan05]

Marry her next year

Inshallah

 

[wonyluvr]

It doesn't matter if she was 16 or 18, islamically there's no leeway for this guy to take advantage of her anyway as long as she has parents with half a brain cell.

Amd clearly her parents seem concerned about her welfare. If they love each other, they're both Muslims, I don't see how this man is going to harm her in anyway

You are a boy you wouldn’t understand

 

[Aseer]

Not really into them. I lowk don’t see where the issue is. I don’t plan on marrying someone over 20.

Okay listen mate I understand you started talking to her when she was 16 at age of consent and thats fine but having a preference for younger girls? Especially under 20s when your 27 is very creepy and not normal whats your reasons for this preference? Now your going to think very hard and be careful of what you say next to justify this preference brother.

 

[wonyluvr]

It’s not that they against me , they just want to wait a bit .

Where were they when you was talking to her at 16 what type of parents allow a grown ass man to talk to their child It’s not okay…

 

[Adnan05]

You are a boy you wouldn’t understand

He’s right tho. Nothing wrong with it islamically. Even the law of the kufar sets the age of consent to 16 and marriage age to 18

 

[ditto]

Inshallah

Inshallah you never marry her

 

[Adnan05]

Okay listen mate I understand you started talking to her when she was 16 at age of consent and thats fine but having a preference for younger girls? Especially under 20s when your 27 is very creepy and not normal whats your reasons for this preference? Now your going to think very hard and be careful of what you say next.

Nah I wouldn’t do 16 no more . And maybe I exaggerated. I could do 18 to 23

 

[Sa_Male]

Where were they when you was talking to her at 16 what type of parents allow a grown ass man to talk to their child It’s not okay…

Hey now, love at first sight is a thing you know.
I doubt bro was out here searching for 16yr olds.
If that is the case than yeah 9/10 in this day and age bro probably has ulterior motives.

 

[Adnan05]

Inshallah you never marry her

Why you preying on her downfall. She loves me

 

[wonyluvr]

He’s right tho. Nothing wrong with it islamically. Even the law of the kufar sets the age of consent to 16 and marriage age to 18

I’m not talking about Islamically I literally don’t care I’m speaking as a a girl who just turned 17

 

[wonyluvr]

Hey now, love at first sight is a thing you know.
I doubt bro was out here searching for 16yr olds.
If that is the case than yeah 9/10 in this day and age bro probably has ulterior motives.

He definitely was what does a university graduate and 16 year old in high school have in common

 

[Adnan05]

I’m not talking about Islamically I literally don’t care I’m speaking as a a girl who just turned 17

?
Did she just say she puts her opinion above what our deen says

 

[Sa_Male]

He definitely was what does a university graduate and 16 year old in high school have in common

Now this is a question he must answer

 

[Adnan05]

He definitely was what does a university graduate and 16 year old in high school have in common

Nah it’s not even like that . I do talk to many girls but she the youngest the other ones 19 / 20

 

[wonyluvr]

?
Did she just say she puts her opinion above what our deen says

lmfaooo I’m speaking for myself you weirdo I’m not speaking from a religious standpoint I’m not some sheikh

 

[Sa_Male]

Nah it’s not even like that . I do talk to many girls but she the youngest the other ones 19 / 20

How did you meet her nigga, fess up