Is Your Wife Texting and FaceTiming Men Valid Grounds for Divorce?
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Hassan mahat
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It depends what men she is talking to. If they are her family and friends, no that will not be valid. If He is her side nigga, then yes that is valid.
random niggas she doesn’t even know
No, don’t divorce her. You’re being insecure. She’s probably just a friendly person that wants to make friends. Don’t misunderstand her. If it bothers you, ask her to slow down the amount of calls and FTs. Trust is necessary for a healthy relationship. Trust your partner.
she was flirting with 2 guys in one night, I’ve told her to stop being friendly and to protect my trust but she deceived me
I really want to forgive her and reconcile but in the long term I know I can’t mend her she’s too loose. A Muslim doesn’t get bitten from the same snake hole twice
explain whyabsolutely not, please have more trust in ur relationships
Gokboru
Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.
it depends what one considers a complete deal breaker. I have always advocated that divorce should be exercised as an absolute last resort. Divorce entails a break up of family and has its consequences so one must weight all options before considering this final process.
Talking /texting /FaceTim foreign person is a poor judgement for any married person and can be considered as form of emotional affair. If that is all she is doing at the moment , then I say don’t divorce but see if you can seek another Avenue to see what can be done to safe the marriage and build trust again. Hopefully nothing more is going on
Talking /texting /FaceTim foreign person is a poor judgement for any married person and can be considered as form of emotional affair. If that is all she is doing at the moment , then I say don’t divorce but see if you can seek another Avenue to see what can be done to safe the marriage and build trust again. Hopefully nothing more is going on
It seems like you've lost trust for her and you will always be on guard. This will have a big impact on your life and mental health. You shouldn't even have to tell her not flirt with other men and she did this 2 days after the honeymoon.
It seems like you've accepted that she won't change since you said you can't mend her.
I don't think you're insecure ignore these ciyaal who are not married. Divorce shouldnt be take lightly, but it makes sense sometimes. If you feel that this will continue I think you should cut your losses while it's still early.
It seems like you've accepted that she won't change since you said you can't mend her.
I don't think you're insecure ignore these ciyaal who are not married. Divorce shouldnt be take lightly, but it makes sense sometimes. If you feel that this will continue I think you should cut your losses while it's still early.
I think the context is key.
I think it is. Texting is one thing but facetiming? I think you are dayuth if you accept that.
It is worse than I thought. I had only seen the first post when I posted. The context makes it way worse. Two days after the honeymoon. I say divorce her asap. The quicker you remove a bandaid, the less painful it is. The mistake is not divorcing her, the mistake was marrying her to begin with.
There is a reason why the penalty for treason has been death under many legal systems. There cannot be any tolerance for a traitor.
There is a reason why the penalty for treason has been death under many legal systems. There cannot be any tolerance for a traitor.
BobSmoke
Flying over your heads
I'm sorry bro, but this is something you should have discussed or peeped it before marrying her.
Go and ask her what is the purpose of her facetiming other men if it aint for business.
Just try to understand what season in life she is in.
Some girls just don't know themselves and will throw themselves in a marriage because they feel lonely and you forced yourself to love her in her broken state. She most likely got some issues that she needs to handle
Personally, I would leave her. It's not because I'm insecure but in reality, a woman who really wanted to be married and loves her man would know better than to entertain other men that ain't her man.
Ask yourself and be real with yourself, do you really love her because you see a bright future with her or you "love" her because you feel lonely and she fills a void.
Ask her if she really want this life or she just wanna get married to fulfil her parents expectations.
Get out of your feelings before asking yourself and her and be ready for a cold shower
Go and ask her what is the purpose of her facetiming other men if it aint for business.
Just try to understand what season in life she is in.
Some girls just don't know themselves and will throw themselves in a marriage because they feel lonely and you forced yourself to love her in her broken state. She most likely got some issues that she needs to handle
Personally, I would leave her. It's not because I'm insecure but in reality, a woman who really wanted to be married and loves her man would know better than to entertain other men that ain't her man.
Ask yourself and be real with yourself, do you really love her because you see a bright future with her or you "love" her because you feel lonely and she fills a void.
Ask her if she really want this life or she just wanna get married to fulfil her parents expectations.
Get out of your feelings before asking yourself and her and be ready for a cold shower
QueenofKings
Kick in the door wavin the .44
I second this, and I would add when you’re talking to her be very calm and deliberate. Remove all emotions and heat from the convo. Otherwise she could get defensive and less truthful/open.
When you reach your go’aan, be firm, don’t flip flop. You don’t have to rush to divorce but a lot of times bad r’ships drag on because everyone’s afraid of making the (obvious) decision. Either work it out honestly with sincere intentions (not Karbashing her with past hurt) or leave each other alone.
Good luck brother, may Allah guide you both to the right decision.
