Is zina a major sin?

[Yaquub]

I had a talk with my nephew about this recently. It's not so much the sin that's bad (sex is halal if married) but the lifestyle it encourages. Be very careful. Before you know it, you'll be going out constantly trying to get laid, you will end up consuming alcohol or drugs to put up with the free time to cope with your reality. It's an empty, hedonistic lifestyle void of all substance that ruins your pocket and ruins your health. It's dehumanising and you won't even notice it until its too late.

If you have your boys with you it's even worse, don't make the mistakes i made sxb, nearly a decade of my life was wasted on baashaal.

Too many young boys do 1 haram thing in their life like this and it triggers a phase where they think their life is a movie.

If you aren't big on deen, i sincerely advise you to keep busy with a passion like Sports. Get lost in the sauce, make money from it, create a legacy you can tell your kids and grandkids about.

If you must, get to know a few girls superficially to see what they're like, avoid the ones with balwad and pick the one girl who you think is wifey material. Have good intentions and she will see it. Believe me there are so many good girls out there who just don't want a fuckboy that lies to them or sells them dreams.

I mostly am attracted to good girls whom i have a good relationship, so it's not like i would go out and party like the ajnabis. I would mostly date girls to get to know them and to see if they would make good wives, i don't date them with the intention to sleep with them and then leave them like many guys i knew would.

 

[Yaquub]

I’m also confused about that. How can you even marry someone that you haven’t had a physical connection with? Sometimes not even a hug/kiss.

Muslims are some interesting bunch of people

This is what i mean i would love if parents didn't repress muslims by not allowing dating. I get that it leads to haram but not all the girls i have spoken to have wanted to let me sleep with them on the first few nights only hoes at clubs do that. By making dating haram it encourages young ppl to indulge in zina rather than pursuing marriage and getting to know a possible spouse material girl. I could never marry a girl without getting to know her for a year at least and muslims look down on dating.

 

[Kingjames]

This is what i mean i would love if parents didn't repress muslims by not allowing dating. I get that it leads to haram but not all the girls i have spoken to have wanted to let me sleep with them on the first few nights only hoes at clubs do that. By making dating haram it encourages young ppl to indulge in zina rather than pursuing marriage and getting to know a possible spouse material girl. I could never marry a girl without getting to know her for a year at least and muslims look down on dating.

Were do you draw the line for zina? Is it purely sex/oral or do you put hugs and kisses as zina too?

 

[Mckenzie]

I mostly am attracted to good girls whom i have a good relationship, so it's not like i would go out and party like the ajnabis. I would mostly date girls to get to know them and to see if they would make good wives, i don't date them with the intention to sleep with them and then leave them like many guys i knew would.

If you're dating a Somali girl, she might let you kiss her and grab her ass, just don't get sexual

 

[Yaquub]

Were do you draw the line for zina? Is it purely sex/oral or do you put hugs and kisses as zina too?

Kiss is okay if your in a commited relationship, but i don't know about penetration.

 

[Wardheere]

Can a muslim be forgiven for zina or will he burn for this act even if he is a muslim and repents. Some hadith i read said that the one who commits zina will burn forever, i assume it refers to the kafirs who don't repent but i'm worried that it could mean muslims also. Can someone clarify this.

Any sin whether major or minor including shirk is forgiven once you make taubah.

If you die with shirk guaranteed hell forever.
If you die with major sin incuding zina or alot of minor sins and you are muslim Allah will either forgive you right away without passing thriugh hell fire or you get cleansed in the hellfire and ultimately end up in jannah

 

[Jake from State Farm]

It's very hard to get married at such a young age and there are beautiful women all around me and i can't exactly help being attracted to them. I am still think that given the wicked time period we live in, we should be forgiven for zina as long as we intend to get married. If i ignor these girls that are attracted to me then they will think i am rude or not interested in them and if i get together with them then we will both end up sleeping with each other. The problem is most of the girls i am interested in are non muslim, due to muslim women being hard to come into contact with (even then it's hard to get to know the woman due to strict laws and i end up knowing the non muslim girls more intimately). My parents want me to marry a nice somali girl but i keep telling them how rare they are and how hard it is to find one. They don't understand that if muslims don't allow dating then it's hard for a man to get to know the woman and therefore he would not want to marry her as much as the non muslim girl whom he knows better. I hate arranged marriages i want to choose a woman like every man does for her beauty and intellect as well as her good personality. This make the search even harder as these women hardly exist in our community, where as i can find other women of different races who have shown interest in me and will not give me a hard marriage.

i agree with this. I am way cooler and vibe way more with non muslim women. I always saw myself dating and marrying a non Muslim women a majority of my life.

Honestly I don't know what I'm a do. Cause rn I'm saving myself for marriage but I can't see myself marrying some random chick

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I think what matters is your intention and if you truly repent what you did

I dont think it counts if you repent But plan to do it again

What did you do? I know you mentioned before multiples that you were married.

Did you do everything in a halal way?

Also how old are you fam I always wondered.

Did you get married after you finished school. Give us some tips.

 

[dana]

I’m also confused about that. How can you even marry someone that you haven’t had a physical connection with? Sometimes not even a hug/kiss.

Muslims are some interesting bunch of people

I dont know walaahi. I think some of then are are confused and have self issuse. If your religious you are not even supposed to date anyway. You should meet the girl with maharam. And than prepare for marriage. Everything other than that is haram.

But impressed that their still man out there who dont have sex. The Muslim guys I know wouln’t even marry a virgin tho

 

[MuslimManMe]

It's a major sin and it's not worth it

You get sick of your partners and you feel as if there is a hole in you.

If you stay pure,Allah will drive a pure woman towards you.

This I can attest to

 

[Karim]

Zina is a huge sin, the punishment of unmarried Muslim that has committed Zina is 100 lashes.
Punishment of Married Muslims is quite severe; Stoning to death in public.

So if you already committed Zina your only way to repent is to endure one of these punishments.

 

[roble]

hogwash, they all f*ck...