Kenyan Somali guys are Bitter..

[Chase]

We live in the west currently and you don't see Somali women marrying Cadaans/Carabs in high rates...

Its cuz none of us care about gender wars or people marrying out. The majority of the men and women in my family even the millenials/gen z are married to Somali.

I fully support the right of Somalis marrying out to fellow Muslims, reverts are an iffy case, but hey, y'all do you.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

So if we were neighboured by Cadaans/Carabs, y'all would jump ship, this is such a backhanded compliment loool

I never mentioned Arabs or Cadaans.

I said better looking Madow men. And I didn't say 'jump ship', but certainly, Somali women have something called 'taste' and would be more tempted.

You think a Muslim Madow that looks like Shemar Moore, Tyson Beckford or some other quruxlow Madow, wouldn't get a few looks. Ethnic loyalty, cultural compatability aside, dumar have dookh just like men.

 

[Kane]

@𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒

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I have seen you make this point about broke men not getting any women, when in reality they are the ones who get the most.

Are you of the opinion that money and statues is what it takes to attract women?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I have seen you make this point about broke men not getting any women, when in reality they are the ones who get the most.

Are you of the opinion that money and statues is what it takes to attract women?

Broke men rely on flowery words or their good looks to entrap a woman.
If a broke man has a good character, hard working etc, similar to the Prophet SAW, he would be introduced to women by people who see the potential.

 

[Chase]

I never mentioned Arabs or Cadaans.

I said better looking Madow men. And I didn't say 'jump ship', but certainly, Somali women have something called 'taste' and would be more tempted.

You think a Muslim Madow that looks like Shemar Moore, Tyson Beckford or some other quruxlow Madow, wouldn't get a few looks.

Your comment rubbed me the wrong way cause it seemed like you were looking down on our Neighbours.

Beautiful/handsome people can be found anywhere, again, you're the one who claimed '.. It would be a different story'..

Meaning it would be contingent on the group bordering us, right?

Or maybe that's not what you were trying to convey, either way, that comment was in poor taste ngl, Madows are just like the rest of us, they can be absolutely beautiful, or ugly, with most being average, just like the rest of us.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Your comment rubbed me the wrong way cause it seemed like you looking down on our Neighbours.

Beautiful/handsome people can be found anywhere, again, you're the one who claimed '.. It would be a different story'..

Meaning it would be contingent on the group bordering us, right?

Or maybe that's not what you were trying to convey, either way, that comment was in poor taste ngl, Madows are just like the rest of us, they can be absolutely beautiful, or ugly, with most being average, just like the rest of us.

LOL

How is it 'poor taste', to say that Somali women are usually not attracted to our neighbouring men. It's factual. And it doesn't mean we look down on them. For women, respect is not contingent on attraction. We can respect someone and treat them well and still not be attracted to them.

For example, I don't find Khaleeji men attractive, does that mean I look down on them? No need to infantilise Madow men.

 

[Chase]

LOL

How is it 'poor taste', to say that Somali women are usually not attracted to our neighbouring men. It's factual. And it doesn't mean we look down on them. For women, respect is not contingent on attraction. We can respect someone and treat them well and still not be attracted to them.

For example, I don't find Khaleeji men attractive, does that mean I look down on them? No need to infantilise Madow men.

I'm not, again, you're the one who claimed the stories would be 'different', if we were bordered by other groups and nations, right?

Anyways whatever, I'm just letting you know that comment was bang out of order, putting people into some kinda hierarchy is wack ngl.

 

[Kane]

Broke men rely on flowery words or their good looks to entrap a woman.

I have been broke and I never used to sweet talk women, I also don’t consider myself to be that attractive, maybe I’m modest. Only rejects and low lives entrap women.

If a broke man has a good character, hard working etc, similar to the Prophet SAW, he would be introduced to women by people who see the potential.

In a perfect world yes, but from experience it’s the women themselves that are more accepting of such men, not the families.

Majority of women are not the gold diggers they are made out to be, when you’re their type.

I just can’t stand this false narrative that you must have money to attract women.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I'm not, again, you're the one who claimed the stories would be 'different', if we were bordered by other groups and nations, right?

Anyways whatever, I'm just letting you know that comment was bang out of order, putting people into some kinda hierarchy is wack ngl.

LOL

I don't give a shit what you think is wack when it pertains 'MY TASTE'.
I have the right to be attracted to who I want. And another sister on here, made a similar comment.

You're not entitled to attraction, and attraction is not respect.

If you're a Kenyan man, stop acting rapey.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I have been broke and I never used to sweet talk women, I also don’t consider myself to be that attractive, maybe I’m modest. Only rejects and low lives entrap women.



In a perfect world yes, but from experience it’s the women themselves that are more accepting of such men, not the families.

Majority of women are not the gold diggers they are made out to be, when you’re their type.

I just can’t stand this false narrative that you must have money to attract women.

Women are not gold diggers for wanting stability, it's called biology; inherently women need provision and protection to survive and more importantly to birth babies that survive infancy.
So, when people dare bring up 'gold digging' for rational thinking, it really irks me.

Also, plenty of women fall for a man for various reasons. Sadly, women also fall for 'potential', instead of reality.

 

[MrDeeni1]

Waa beentooda

Somali women who are around far more attractive Madow men than Kenyan men, are still mostly with Somali men. Very few Somali ladies marry out, even in the diaspora. Some people are confused and think it's a normal occurrence. Trust me, It is not and I am diaspora born and raised.

Somali ladies back home are far more endogamous than the ones in the West. Also, no offence, but the most sought after Somalis from both genders, are married to Somalis, and the same goes for all ethnic groups.

They Kenyan girls marry foreign Somali guys. Not other ethnicities the are just lying.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

The only Kenyan men I find attractive are related to Somalis, like this Rendille man.

I will not apologise, Mr Kenyati @Chase

 

[Chase]

LOL

I don't give a shit what you think is wack when it pertains 'MY TASTE'.
I have the right to be attracted to who I want. And another sister on here, made a similar comment.

You're not entitled to attraction, and attraction is not respect.

If you're a Kenyan man, stop acting rapey.

You have the right to not be attracted to Madows, that's fine, but your comment 'different story' is hella weird, it implies that:

1. If Somalia were bordered by non-Madow nations, y'all would have jumped ship.

2. Implies you look down on Madows, something that struck me as hella weird.

I don't care who or what you marry, has nothing to do with me, but attraction is universal, if you got it you got it.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

You have the right to not be attracted to Madows, that's fine, but your comment 'different story' is hella weird, it implies that:

1. If Somalia were bordered by non-Madow nations, y'all would have jumped ship.

2. Implies you look down on Madows, something that struck me as hella weird.

I don't care who or what you marry, has nothing to do with me, but attraction is universal, if you got it you got it.

LOL

Mr Kenyati gaslighter.

You are purposefully lying about my posts.

Let me dissect your lies.

Post number 1

I said if Somalia had neighbouring countries with Muslim/fine men. We are in Africa, what kind would neighbour us, if not Madow men?

My second post, I even listed attractive MADOW men.

You're just angry that I am not attracted to Kenyan men, like you, Mr Chase.

That's why you made this topic to begin with, to spread lies about Somali women marrying Kenyan men. You're an entitled, rapey, weirdo. I refuse to believe you are Somali, because what kind of Dayuus would get angry at Somali women expressing their taste.

 

[Chase]

LOL

Mr Kenyati gaslighter.

You are purposefully lying about my posts.

Let me dissect your lies.

Post number 1

I said if Somalia had neighbouring countries with Muslim/fine men. We are in Africa, what kind would neighbour us, if not Madow men?



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My second post, I even listed attractive MADOW men.


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You're just angry that I am not attracted to Kenyan men, like you, Mr Chase.

That's why you made this topic to begin with, to spread lies about Somali women marrying Kenyan men. You're an entitled, rapey, weirdo. I refuse to believe you are Somali, because what kind of Dayuus would get angry at Somali women expressing their taste.

Bruh, I just wanted engagement, how we only at page 2, this is page 10 shenanigans

GGs, mission failed, we'll get em next time. 🫡

 

[3LetterzMM]

Idk why they complaining Kenyan girls got gigantic asses jus got for their women in response sharing is caring no?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Bruh, I just wanted engagement, how we only at page 2, this is page 10 shenanigans

GGs, mission failed, we'll get em next time. 🫡

I got another 8 pages in me if you ask me about my taste again.

 

[Kisame]

I have seen you make this point about broke men not getting any women, when in reality they are the ones who get the most.

Are you of the opinion that money and statues is what it takes to attract women?

Being broke as a man can have a horrible affect on your dating options. Especially if you aren't handsome.

A big reason why we have an incel epidemics is because of the fact we got a shit ton of broke ass niggas.

 

[Kisame]

I have been broke and I never used to sweet talk women, I also don’t consider myself to be that attractive, maybe I’m modest. Only rejects and low lives entrap women.



In a perfect world yes, but from experience it’s the women themselves that are more accepting of such men, not the families.

Majority of women are not the gold diggers they are made out to be, when you’re their type.

I just can’t stand this false narrative that you must have money to attract women.

You don't have to be rich. Being financially stable is enough for most women.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

You don't have to be rich. Being financially stable is enough for most women.

Money is not everything, if it comes with a creepy man, hardly any woman will tolerate it, unless she's cold as ice or from a very desperate situation.

Most women have and will happily settle with a NORMAL MAN, NORMAL PERSONALITY, NORMAL INCOME.