It's the same thing, actually gabati I believe maybe Arabic as I've heard people who speak Swahili use the term too. It is a regular custom other Somalis par take in. However, xeedho is a custom mostly confined to reer waqooyi. I'm not sure what my ayeyo is, I never bothered to ask beyond JA but I've heard Reer Dalal a lot from her so I'll assume that's her subsubclan.
Interesting, I always thought gabati was reer waqooyi.
I'm reer Dalal as well. That makes us related sister.