Khaatumo Kid Burns Somaliland Flag

[TooMacaan]

Asc do u live in Australia. And do u have a brother

I live in Canada lol.

 

[Professor]

Ok, thanks for the info. Why is it so peculiar(in practice) if Muslims are allowed to marry people of the book? Culture? And to reiterate, I never mentioned my mom's identity/background.

I believe due to the somali extremely homogeneous culture in which we have always valued our identity and not marrying out. People always like to lament the concept of fgm as an islamic practise but that was instigated by the Egyptians to preserve their race. Somali's followed this example and did the same with our women so they couldn't participate in interacial marriages. Back in the past however the fgm was completely sealed up and it's was the men's job to cut it open the wedding night. Men in the case were continously reminded that it was there job to preserve the culture and Deen and thus they were advised to marry fellow somalis. Even though islam says that about people of the book.l, they advise muslims to marry fellow muslims. Most somalis are more loyal to their tribe and somalinimo over their religion. Therefore most somalis would advise against marriages such as that for example my mother always tells me to look for a somali girl and my dad's expects me to bring home a somali girl. in the case of your dad that would very peculiar and people deffo would take notice. Especially due to the bad blood between ethiopians and somalis.

ps sorry about the long reply. Also you said your mum was not habesha so I assumed she was oromo.

 

[Hemaal]

You're late to the party sxb, I already went through this two days ago.

You can check @crudetruth 's other thread called "my views" (around tge end) and read over my replies if you don't believe me.
Also, I never knew you were hy lol, I don't think I've even interacted much with you on here

Ion care and Ion feel like going through the archives, claim other people not us, it's not that hard

 

[XamarCade]

Ictiraaf Dooyni Meyno

 

[Striker]

So you hate Somaliland but benefited from their school system. So ungrateful

Why didn't you go to Khatumo schools instead?

I didn't have choice I was a kid

But if I had choice I'd go to buuhoodle Ethiopia school. They give free scholarship for university in jigjiga and Ethiopia

still f*ck Somaliland and Ethiopia

 

[TSP]

Haha nah, but it's cool. You can never be too safe though, I don't doubt there are weirdos who'll actually attempt to track ppl's family down. Lol, I even remember that thread where daughters were trying to find their dad and it only took a bit of info...I don't think clans/sub clans were even mentioned. Creepy times.

tbh it's the combination of the informal somali tracking system and the power of social media that helped those girls out. I wish Somalis could find a solution to their problems just as fast they could find each other worldwide

 

[The Cushitic One]

I believe due to the somali extremely homogeneous culture in which we have always valued our identity and not marrying out. People always like to lament the concept of fgm as an islamic practise but that was instigated by the Egyptians to preserve their race. Somali's followed this example and did the same with our women so they couldn't participate in interacial marriages. Back in the past however the fgm was completely sealed up and it's was the men's job to cut it open the wedding night. Men in the case were continously reminded that it was there job to preserve the culture and Deen and thus they were advised to marry fellow somalis. Even though islam says that about people of the book.l, they advise muslims to marry fellow muslims. Most somalis are more loyal to their tribe and somalinimo over their religion. Therefore most somalis would advise against marriages such as that for example my mother always tells me to look for a somali girl and my dad's expects me to bring home a somali girl. in the case of your dad that would very peculiar and people deffo would take notice. Especially due to the bad blood between ethiopians and somalis.

ps sorry about the long reply. Also you said your mum was not habesha so I assumed she was oromo.

She's not Somali, first she claimed HJ now HY, than her mum is Ethiopian.

She probably learned a few phrases from Somalis, everyone says their clan on here it's not that deep.

I don't understand why it's such a big deal.

Have you got a fetish for Ethiopian woman Horta?

 

[TooMacaan]

I believe due to the somali extremely homogeneous culture in which we have always valued our identity and not marrying out. People always like to lament the concept of fgm as an islamic practise but that was instigated by the Egyptians to preserve their race. Somali's followed this example and did the same with our women so they couldn't participate in interacial marriages. Back in the past however the fgm was completely sealed up and it's was the men's job to cut it open the wedding night. Men in the case were continously reminded that it was there job to preserve the culture and Deen and thus they were advised to marry fellow somalis. Even though islam says that about people of the book.l, they advise muslims to marry fellow muslims. Most somalis are more loyal to their tribe and somalinimo over their religion. Therefore most somalis would advise against marriages such as that for example my mother always tells me to look for a somali girl and my dad's expects me to bring home a somali girl. in the case of your dad that would very peculiar and people deffo would take notice. Especially due to the bad blood between ethiopians and somalis.

ps sorry about the long reply. Also you said your mum was not habesha so I assumed she was oromo.

I could understand if it'd be weird for a Somali woman to marry an ajnabi (and that whole FGM stuff and losing culture would apply more) but that doesn't really make sense if qabil is solely determined by father. As some posters here like to say (although I disagree), "women have no qabil" ...referencing that her background becomes basically irrelevant once she marries from a different clan. For example, [hypothetical situation] would you see your daughter marrying a non-Somali differently than your son marrying a non-Somali?
I can understand that most Somalis would prefer their children to marry fellow Somalis though and even fellow clans, so I get what you mean overall.
And lol, many people assume things but I haven't confirmed or denied anything much.

 

[Professor]

She's not Somali, first she claimed HJ now HY, than her mum is Ethiopian.

She probably learned a few phrases from Somalis, everyone says their clan on here it's not that deep.

I don't understand why it's such a big deal.

Have you got a fetish for Ethiopian woman Horta?

no I don't but I was just answering her question.

 

[TooMacaan]

She's not Somali, first she claimed HJ now HY, than her mum is Ethiopian.

She probably learned a few phrases from Somalis, everyone says their clan on here it's not that deep.

I don't understand why it's such a big deal.

Have you got a fetish for Ethiopian woman Horta?

I've never claimed HJ in a serious manner, that was just a joke about habar habusheed.

 

[TooMacaan]

Ion care and Ion feel like going through the archives, claim other people not us, it's not that hard

Ok?? And I don't care either then. I don't even know you to go out of my way to claim you. Why wouldn't I just say habar awal or habar jeclo?; I get along much better with ppl from there anyways.

 

[merka]

I've never claimed HJ in a serious manner, that was just a joke about habar habusheed.

Next time claim HA. No one will bother you :siilaanyosmile:

 

[government]

Ion care and Ion feel like going through the archives, claim other people not us, it's not that hard

Finally a sane person on sspot who doesn't believe her lies I told her to translate a somali paragraph and she couldn't I don't know why she can't claim her People instead of ours

 

[XamarCade]

Not true. If you tell Landers girls you are Darood they will giggle and welcome you but the moment they hear the name "Xamar" all hell
will break loose. That is what decades of indoctrination looks like.

Walahi u ain't lying, once they hear "xamar" they come out the woods like wolves

 

[TooMacaan]

Next time claim HA. No one will bother you :siilaanyosmile:

Lol, the HA guys on here are more chill I've noticed.

 

[TooMacaan]

Finally a sane person on sspot who doesn't believe her lies I told her to translate a somali paragraph and she couldn't I don't know why she can't claim her People instead of ours

Canuck definitely took over your account...that also explains why she's been AWOL when she's usually on here a lot. You're def not the same as you were in the beginning.

 

[Hemaal]

Finally a sane person on sspot who doesn't believe her lies I told her to translate a somali paragraph and she couldn't I don't know why she can't claim her People instead of ours

Waa beenawaas.
Iska ilaali, waa sirdoon ninku

 

[Bohol]

This is the internet. Anyone can claim a clan but in Somalispot rules the only verified HY members are me (the MOD) @Hemaal @iNutEasily
@ethan bradberry and Leila. Those are the only verified members.

 

[Professor]

I could understand if it'd be weird for a Somali woman to marry an ajnabi (and that whole FGM stuff and losing culture would apply more) but that doesn't really make sense if qabil is solely determined by father. As some posters here like to say (although I disagree), "women have no qabil" ...referencing that her background becomes basically irrelevant once she marries from a different clan. For example, [hypothetical situation] would you see your daughter marrying a non-Somali differently than your son marrying a non-Somali?
I can understand that most Somalis would prefer their children to marry fellow Somalis though and even fellow clans, so I get what you mean overall.
And lol, many people assume things but I haven't confirmed or denied anything much.

Once a women marries out to ajnabi her children would no longer be considered somali as they have no tribe and therefore they would enforce their daughters to marry within. Even if the female doesn't pass on the qabil the father would rather her being married to any qabil then to an ajnabi's who has no qabil. In the case of my children marrying non-somalis, it would be the same as I would disapprove of either due to that fact of a culture conflict and also I wouldn't want to have non-somali grandchildren from my daughter as she can'take pass her tribe on. However i don'the want to be a dick to her so I would also disapprove of my son marrying out, even if his children get to have an qabil.

 

[Hemaal]

This is the internet. Anyone can claim a clan but in Somalispot rules the only verified HY members are me (the MOD) @Hemaal @iNutEasily
@ethan bradberry and Leila. Those are the only verified members.